{"id":35895,"date":"2023-08-18T08:56:05","date_gmt":"2023-08-18T13:56:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=35895"},"modified":"2023-08-18T08:56:05","modified_gmt":"2023-08-18T13:56:05","slug":"kizaran-yuzumuze-tuy-dikenler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/kizaran-yuzumuze-tuy-dikenler\/","title":{"rendered":"KIZARAN Y\u00dcZ\u00dcM\u00dcZE T\u00dcY D\u0130KENLER"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-35896\" src=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/KIZARAN-YUZUMUZE-TUY-DIKENLER-b.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"571\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/KIZARAN-YUZUMUZE-TUY-DIKENLER-b.png 571w, https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/KIZARAN-YUZUMUZE-TUY-DIKENLER-b-300x158.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 571px) 100vw, 571px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Malum, toplum olarak kanayan g\u00fcndemle \u00e7ok zor bir s\u0131nav\u0131n i\u00e7indeyiz.<br \/>\nSosyal medyada nefes nefese bir <strong>hakaret yar\u0131\u015f\u0131<\/strong> izledik, izliyoruz.<br \/>\nMemnuniyet vericidir ki ortama biraz olsun <strong>sa\u011fduyu<\/strong> h\u00e2kim oldu.<br \/>\n<strong>Kanayan yara<\/strong> az da olsa kabuk ba\u011flad\u0131, ba\u011fl\u0131yor.<br \/>\nHakaretlerle iyiden iyiye kanayan, tehditlerle kararan <strong>sevimsiz g\u00fcndem<\/strong>, yerini yava\u015f yava\u015f sa\u011fduyuya terk ediyor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u0130M KAZANDI, K\u0130M KAZANACAK BU HAKARET YARI\u015eINI?<\/strong><br \/>\nBize yak\u0131\u015fmayan, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcz, seviyesiz bir hakaret yar\u0131\u015f\u0131 izledik, izliyoruz.<br \/>\n\u00dcsluptan, sa\u011fduyudan nasipsiz, <strong>seyircisi bol<\/strong> garip bir yar\u0131\u015f.<br \/>\nKim, kimin temsilcisi veya <strong>hangi kurumun yetkilisi<\/strong> kazanacak, yar\u0131\u015f\u0131.<br \/>\nBilmem ki k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve kimlik bilincinden uzak, <strong>\u00fcslup fukaras\u0131,<\/strong> kavgadan ho\u015flanan, hakaretten zevk alan, say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n bir avu\u00e7 oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m bu kesim, hangi ara <strong>toplumun nefesini kesecek<\/strong> hale geldi?<\/p>\n<p><strong>B\u0130Z, HAKARET \u0130\u00c7ERMEYEN B\u0130R YAZI KALEME ALAMAYACAK MIYIZ? <\/strong><br \/>\nKanayan s\u0131cak g\u00fcndemin ortas\u0131ndayken, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve endi\u015felerimden dolay\u0131 \u015funlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedim de\u011fil:<br \/>\nPeki, bundan sonra, kendisi gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyen <strong>herkes, herkese hakaret mi edecek?<\/strong><br \/>\nKurum temsilcilerimiz, taraflar, bu \u00fcslup ve bu <strong>\u00f6fkeyle kurumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 y\u0131pratmaya<\/strong> devam m\u0131 edecek?<br \/>\nAllah a\u015fk\u0131na biz; yalan, iftira, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama, hakaret i\u00e7ermeyen bir yaz\u0131 kaleme alamayacak m\u0131y\u0131z?<br \/>\nYeti\u015fkinlerin yaz\u0131s\u0131nda tehdit, hakaret; gen\u00e7lerin yaz\u0131s\u0131nda hakaret, <strong>kurum temsilcilerinin yaz\u0131lar\u0131nda hakaret\u2026<\/strong><br \/>\nSahi ne oldu bize?<br \/>\nBir <strong>i\u00e7 sava\u015f\u0131n i\u00e7indeyiz<\/strong> de haberimiz mi yok?<br \/>\nK\u0131smen de olsa sa\u011fduyu yeti\u015fti de<\/p>\n<p><strong>DE\u011e\u0130L XABZE KURALLARI, ASGAR\u0130 \u0130NSANLIK KURALLARINDAN UZAK\u2026<\/strong><br \/>\nXabze k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne sayg\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funu defalarca deklere eden nice payla\u015f\u0131mc\u0131n\u0131n pek \u00e7ok payla\u015f\u0131m ve yorumu ne yaz\u0131k ki, ne <strong>\u201cxabze\u201d kurallar\u0131na<\/strong> uyuyor, ne de asgari <strong>insanl\u0131k ve ahl\u00e2k kurallar\u0131yla<\/strong> ba\u011fda\u015f\u0131yor.<br \/>\nPayla\u015f\u0131m ve yorumlardan anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor ki bu kesimin <strong>\u00fcslubunda \u00e7ok s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 var.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u00c7ok sald\u0131rgan ve bir o kadar da <strong>agresif.<\/strong><br \/>\nHer payla\u015f\u0131mc\u0131n\u0131n her ifadesine yorulmadan, usanmadan <strong>sald\u0131rmak<\/strong> nas\u0131l bir kompleks, nas\u0131l bir ruh hali, anlamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil<\/p>\n<p><strong>AC\u0130L \u015e\u0130FALAR <\/strong><br \/>\nOkudu\u011funu anlama, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, tarafs\u0131zl\u0131k, a\u00e7\u0131k ve net ifade, <strong>yap\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftiri<\/strong>, samimiyet ve <strong>d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn <\/strong>semtine u\u011framam\u0131\u015f payla\u015f\u0131mlar, sorunlar\u0131 derinle\u015ftiriyor,<br \/>\nEminim bu payla\u015f\u0131m ve yorumlarla bulu\u015fan her sa\u011fduyulu kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131, payla\u015f\u0131m sahiplerine samimiyetle <strong>acil \u015fifalar<\/strong> diliyordur.<br \/>\nDileyelim bu ger\u00e7ek g\u00fcndem ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmden uzak, derinlikten nasipsiz, y\u00fcreklere bileklere basmay\u0131 huy edinmi\u015f agresif payla\u015f\u0131m sahipleri, olaylara <strong>pozitif d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle<\/strong> yakla\u015fmay\u0131, ileti\u015fim kanallar\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru kullanmay\u0131, <strong>yak\u0131\u015f\u0131ks\u0131z, kaba, patavats\u0131z,<\/strong> sald\u0131rgan \u00fcslubu b\u0131rakmay\u0131 dener<\/p>\n<p><strong>UMUTSUZLU\u011eA GEREK YOK BU B\u00dcY\u00dcK SIKINTIYI DA A\u015eACA\u011eIZ<\/strong><br \/>\nUmutsuzlu\u011fa gerek yok, biz bu yang\u0131n\u0131 birlikte s\u00f6nd\u00fcrece\u011fiz!<br \/>\nKim ne derse desin, <strong>duyarl\u0131 insan\u0131m\u0131z<\/strong> \u00e7ok bizim.<br \/>\nBu b\u00fcy\u00fck yang\u0131na ra\u011fmen, <strong>ate\u015fle oynayan, g\u00f6n\u00fcl e\u011flendiren<\/strong> varsa eminim y\u00fckselen alevler onlar\u0131 da endi\u015felendirmi\u015ftir, umar\u0131m onlar da biraz <strong>uzakta oynayacak<\/strong>, e\u011flenmeye ara\u00a0verecektir.<br \/>\nOrtama sa\u011fduyu sahip olmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015fken \u015fimdi hemen, amas\u0131z, fakats\u0131z yang\u0131n\u0131 tamamen s\u00f6nd\u00fcrmeye ko\u015fmak olmal\u0131 g\u00f6revimiz.<br \/>\nAlanda, elinde <strong>benzin bidonu<\/strong> olan baz\u0131 ki\u015filer de olabilir.<br \/>\nBilin\u00e7li ve duyarl\u0131 kesim, hi\u00e7 vakit kaybetmeden su kovalar\u0131n\u0131 kap\u0131p bu <strong>yang\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fcrmeli<\/strong> ve hemen so\u011futma \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na ge\u00e7ilmeli.<br \/>\nDaha sonra da bir daha b\u00f6ylesi bir yang\u0131n felaketinin ya\u015fanmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in oturulup detayl\u0131 \u015fekilde <strong>yanl\u0131\u015f yapan, toplumun y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc k\u0131zartan,<\/strong> olayda ihmali olan kim varsa konu\u015fulmal\u0131.<br \/>\nAmac\u0131 <strong>\u00fcz\u00fcm yemek<\/strong> olanlar\u0131n ortak akl\u0131yla gerekene\/gerekenlere gerekli m\u00fceyyide gerekti\u011fi \u015fekilde uygulanmal\u0131<\/p>\n<p><strong>BA\u015eARACA\u011eIZ!<\/strong><br \/>\nG\u00f6receksiniz biz, bize yak\u0131\u015fan\u0131 yapaca\u011f\u0131z, bu <strong>ate\u015f \u00e7emberinden en az zararla<\/strong> kurtulaca\u011f\u0131z.<br \/>\nBizim, sorunun de\u011fil \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn par\u00e7as\u0131 olarak, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz ve toplumumuz ad\u0131na <strong>birlikte<\/strong> yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z daha \u00e7ok i\u015fimiz var.<br \/>\nDaima ileti\u015fime a\u00e7\u0131k, umudunu yitirmeyen, sa\u011fduyudan ayr\u0131lmayan, <strong>gelecek g\u00fczel g\u00fcnlere inana<\/strong> t\u00fcm dostlara binler selam!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak&ccedil;&#305; Malum, toplum olarak kanayan g&uuml;ndemle &ccedil;ok zor bir s&#305;nav&#305;n i&ccedil;indeyiz. Sosyal medyada nefes nefese bir hakaret yar&#305;&#351;&#305; izledik, izliyoruz. Memnuniyet vericidir ki ortama biraz olsun sa&#287;duyu h&acirc;kim oldu. Kanayan yara az da olsa kabuk ba&#287;lad&#305;, ba&#287;l&#305;yor. Hakaretlerle iyiden iyiye kanayan, tehditlerle kararan sevimsiz g&uuml;ndem, yerini yava&#351; yava&#351; sa&#287;duyuya terk ediyor. K&#304;M KAZANDI, 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