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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Anne: <\/strong>\u00c7ok mutluyum, ilk \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz d\u00fcnyaya geliyor! Baba: Bu ikinci \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz, \u00e7ok heyecanland\u0131m yine, ne koysak ad\u0131n\u0131? Anne:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz oldu, ad\u0131, KAROL\u0130NA. Karolina:<\/strong>\u00a0Ben Karolina, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir i\u015fletmede \u00fcst d\u00fczey y\u00f6neticiyim. \u00dc\u00e7 dil biliyorum, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m da \u00e7ok g\u00fczel konu\u015fuyor bu dilleri, seviyorlar k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerini. Ya\u015fland\u0131m evet, fark\u0131nday\u0131m, fakat geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, \u015fimdilerde hayal meyal hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m her \u015fey, tarifsiz haz<\/strong> veriyor bana. Evet, galiba ben yabanc\u0131 bir k\u00fclt\u00fcrle beslendim. Yaln\u0131z kalabal\u0131klarda bo\u011fuldum, kendimi ar\u0131yorum! Kim yard\u0131m edecek bana? YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Anne: Çok mutluyum, ilk çocuğumuz dünyaya geliyor! Adını ne koysak acaba, çocuğun ismi çok önemli. Anl1+amlı olmalı, kültürümüzü yansıtmalı, rengimizi, kokumuzu, dokumuzu taşımalı. Baba: Katılıyorum size hanım, ismin anlamı kişinin karakterine yansıyor. Herkes adından bilmeli insanların hangi topuma, hangi kültüre ait olduğunu. Ne o yabancı, garip, tuhaf isimler! 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\nAd\u0131n\u0131 ne koysak acaba, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ismi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli.
\nAnl1+aml\u0131 olmal\u0131, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc yans\u0131tmal\u0131, rengimizi, kokumuzu, dokumuzu<\/strong> ta\u015f\u0131mal\u0131.
\nBaba: <\/strong>Kat\u0131l\u0131yorum size han\u0131m, ismin anlam\u0131 ki\u015finin karakterine yans\u0131yor.
\nHerkes ad\u0131ndan bilmeli insanlar\u0131n hangi topuma, hangi k\u00fclt\u00fcre ait oldu\u011funu.\u00a0<\/strong>
\nNe o yabanc\u0131, garip, tuhaf isimler!
\nBenli\u011fini hi\u00e7e say\u0131p evlad\u0131na yabanc\u0131 isimler takan anne babalara \u015fa\u015f\u0131yorum.
\nYozla\u015fman\u0131n ta kendisi de\u011fil mi bu?
\nHer \u015feyden \u00f6nce Adige k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc<\/strong> \u00f6\u011fretmeliyiz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za; diliyle, ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131yla, her y\u00f6n\u00fcyle.
\nEvde hep ana dilimizi kullanmal\u0131y\u0131z<\/strong>, ana diliyle k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle b\u00fcy\u00fcmeli \u00e7ocuk.
\nAnne: <\/strong>O halde NART <\/strong>olsun o\u011flumuzun ad\u0131.
\nNart\u2019lar gibi ya\u015fas\u0131n benli\u011fini, kimli\u011fini, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc.
\nBaba: <\/strong>Nart olsun, yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r sevgili yavrumuza, yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r soylu ailemize, geni\u015f s\u00fclalemize.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/z-Ara.png\")
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\nAnne:<\/strong>\u00a0Bilmem ki, \u015fey\u2026 Yoksa KAYA<\/strong> m\u0131 olsa?
\nBaba:<\/strong>\u00a0Olur han\u0131m, neden olmas\u0131n!
\nKom\u015fular\u0131n o\u011flu KAYA gibi o da y\u00fcksek puanla b\u00fcy\u00fck okullar okusun<\/strong>, meslek sahibi olsun, \u00e7ok para kazans\u0131n!
\nAnne:<\/strong>\u00a0O halde KAYA olsun.
\nEn g\u00fczel \u00fcniversiteyi bitirsin benim aslan o\u011flum, lay\u0131k olsun ailesine, biz zengin olamad\u0131k, bari o ya\u015fas\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcnce, olsun en g\u00fczelinden arabas\u0131, evi, yat\u0131 kat\u0131\u2026<\/strong>
\nBaba:<\/strong>\u00a0Hem \u00f6yle sivrilmesin k\u00fclt\u00fcrd\u00fcr, kimliktir diye. <\/strong>
\nNe o k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn, dernek davas\u0131, <\/strong>okulunu, mesle\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u00fcn <\/strong>\u00f6nce!
\nBenim o\u011flum mutlaka bilmeli iki yabanc\u0131 dil.
\n\u00c7erkesce sonraki i\u015f, bu Adigelik, dikkati da\u011f\u0131tmamal\u0131 erkenden.
\nHem gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerle, k\u0131zl\u0131 erkekli<\/strong> toplant\u0131larla.
\nToparlayamaz kendini, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olur okul hayat\u0131.
\nAnne:<\/strong>\u00a0Derneklere, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler, toplant\u0131lar\u2026 Zarard\u0131r bunlar, geli\u015fmekte olan \u00e7ocuklara zarar.
\nMarjinal olmamal\u0131 bizim \u00e7ocuk, <\/strong>okusun, meslek sahibi olsun, evlensin, mutlu olsun!
\nSonra d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclebilir bu ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar ama \u015fimdi asla!<\/p>\n<\/p>\n
\nBaba:<\/strong>\u00a0\u0130sim dedi\u011fin biraz da Bat\u0131 toplumlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmal\u0131.
\nK\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6\u011frenimini ne yap\u0131p edip Avrupalarda, Amerikalarda yapmal\u0131.
\nNe bu \u00e7ekti\u011fimiz bizim!
\nD\u00fcnya vatanda\u015f\u0131 olmal\u0131<\/strong>, neymi\u015f Allah a\u015fk\u0131na T\u00fcrkl\u00fck, \u00c7erkeslik?
\nAnne:<\/strong>\u00a0Kat\u0131l\u0131yorum size, geni\u015f a\u00e7\u0131dan bakmal\u0131y\u0131z art\u0131k olaylara.
\nD\u00fcnya k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcld\u00fc bak, k\u00fclt\u00fcrler kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131 birbirine, ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye vakit mi var?
\nBen evlad\u0131m i\u00e7in her t\u00fcrl\u00fc fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa haz\u0131r\u0131m.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n
\nBildi\u011fim kadar\u0131yla annem, babam \u00c7erkes\u2019mi\u015f.
\n\u00dc\u00e7 karde\u015fmi\u015fiz, sadece adlar\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum, hayattalar m\u0131 bilemiyorum.
\n\u0130ki \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz var, Justinya\u00a0ve Peter.<\/strong>
\nE\u015fim bir \u0130ngiliz. Samimi bir Katolik, s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 ba\u011fl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne.
\nBiliyor yedi g\u00f6bek atas\u0131n\u0131,<\/strong> her birinin, alb\u00fcm\u00fcnde \u00f6zel yeri var.<\/p>\n
\nAncak benim i\u00e7imde sebebini bilemedi\u011fim bir burukluk var. <\/strong>
\nS\u0131k s\u0131k soruyorum kendime, y<\/strong>oksa ait olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn i\u00e7inde <\/strong>miyim?<\/p>\n
\nB\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyimin ismini duymak nedenini bilmedi\u011fim bir mutlulu\u011fa <\/strong>\u00e7ekiyor beni.
\nYa o y\u0131llarda duydu\u011fum, \u015fimdi hat\u0131rlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a y\u00fcre\u011fimi titreten, benli\u011fimi saran <\/strong>o d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn m\u00fczi\u011fi\u2026<\/p>\n
\nDoyurmad\u0131 bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr beni,<\/strong> a\u00e7l\u0131k hissediyorum, ac\u0131 \u00e7ekiyorum.
\nKaybolmu\u015f, yok olmu\u015f biri gibiyim!<\/p>\n
\nBen kimim, hani kimli\u011fim, nerde k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm?
\n<\/strong>Nedir bu i\u00e7imdeki dayan\u0131lmaz ac\u0131, art\u0131p giden sanc\u0131?
\nBir ana dilim mi olmal\u0131yd\u0131 benim?
\nNeden e\u015fim gibi mazime ait bilgi ve birikimim yok?
\n<\/strong>Neden, anne ve babam\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, \u201cBu b\u00fcy\u00fck annem, bu dedem!\u201d<\/strong> diyebilece\u011fim bir foto\u011fraf\u0131m yok?<\/p>\n
\nKim tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131racak beni ger\u00e7ek kimli\u011fimle?
\n<\/strong>Kimler sorumlu benim bu hale geli\u015fimden?
\nMutlu olam\u0131yorum, bir \u015feyler ar\u0131yorum, bulam\u0131yorum!
\nYa\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131 kalmad\u0131!
\n
\nKarmakar\u0131\u015f\u0131k kafam!
\n<\/strong>Yard\u0131m edin bana ne olur!
\nNe olur yard\u0131m edin!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"