{"id":36865,"date":"2023-11-06T11:25:40","date_gmt":"2023-11-06T17:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=36865"},"modified":"2023-11-06T19:23:27","modified_gmt":"2023-11-07T01:23:27","slug":"cerkesler-ve-yasam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/cerkesler-ve-yasam\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ERKESLER ve YA\u015eAM"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u00c7ocuklu\u011fum \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir \u00c7erkes k\u00f6y\u00fcnde ge\u00e7ti. \u00c7erkesler g\u00fczel insanlard\u0131r, bar\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131r, do\u011fay\u0131 severler ve korurlar. A\u011fa\u00e7 onlar i\u00e7in kutsal bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Aileyi veya toplumlar\u0131n\u0131 igilendiren \u00f6nemli kararlar\u0131 k\u00f6y meydan\u0131nda bulunan dev\u00e2sa \u00e7\u0131nar a\u011fac\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda toplanarak al\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Demokrat insanlard\u0131r; cinsiyet ayr\u0131m\u0131 yapmazlar, kad\u0131n, toplum ya\u015famlar\u0131nda hep \u00f6n plandad\u0131r ve niha\u00ee karar vericidir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n okul \u00f6ncesi e\u011fitimi ve terbiye edilmesi \u00c7erkes kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n asl\u00ee g\u00f6revleri aras\u0131ndad\u0131r…<\/p>\n

Ana erkil bir k\u00fclt\u00fcrleri vard\u0131r…<\/p>\n

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\u00c7erkes k\u00f6ylerinde, her evin bir veya bir ka\u00e7 kedisi ve k\u00f6pe\u011fi mutlaka vard\u0131r ve bunlar ailenin bireyi gibi de\u011fer g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve terbiye edilir! Asla sald\u0131rgan de\u011fillerdir ama yabanc\u0131ya kar\u015f\u0131 hassasiyetleri ile me\u015fhurdurlar, \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne sad\u0131kt\u0131rlar. E\u011fer yabanc\u0131 iseniz ve \u00c7erkesce bilmiyorsan\u0131z bir \u00c7erkes k\u00f6y\u00fcnde k\u00f6pe\u011fin sald\u0131r\u0131s\u0131ndan kurtulman\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir, ki k\u00f6yden biri gelip k\u00f6pe\u011fe \u00c7erkesce susmas\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyene kadar.<\/p>\n

Evin k\u00f6pe\u011fi veya kedisi \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde t\u0131pk\u0131 aileden biri \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f gibi yas tutulur, defin t\u00f6reni d\u00fczenlenir.
\n\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumda unutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m kedi ve k\u00f6peklerim \u00e7ok olmu\u015ftur ihtiyar haf\u0131zamda hala an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferli bir m\u00fccevher gibi saklar\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Yan\u0131m\u0131zda yeti\u015fkin biri olmadan k\u00f6y\u00fcn yak\u0131nlar\u0131ndan ge\u00e7en \u0131rmak k\u0131y\u0131s\u0131na gitmek, y\u00fczmek ve bal\u0131k tutmak en kat\u0131 yasaklardand\u0131. Bu yasa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7i\u011fneyen bir \u00e7ok arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n bo\u011fulup \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne tan\u0131k olmu\u015ftum. Unutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve hat\u0131rlad\u0131k\u00e7a hala \u00fcrperdi\u011fim bir hat\u0131ram da vard\u0131r: Bir yaz g\u00fcn\u00fc kimseye g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeden \u0131rmak k\u0131y\u0131s\u0131na bal\u0131k tutmaya gittim.Yan\u0131mda en sevdi\u011fim ve beraber b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm “kangal” cinsi k\u00f6pe\u011fim vard\u0131. Oltama tak\u0131lan b\u00fcy\u00fck bir bal\u0131\u011f\u0131n sevinci ve heyecan\u0131 ile aya\u011f\u0131m kayd\u0131, suya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp, ak\u0131nt\u0131ya kap\u0131ld\u0131m. H\u0131zla akan \u0131rma\u011f\u0131n ak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 ile s\u00fcr\u00fckleniyordum. Y\u00fczmeyi daha tam olarak \u00f6\u011frenmemi\u015ftim, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yorum, ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131k\u00e7a su yutuyorum. Tam kendimden ge\u00e7mek \u00fczereydim k\u00f6pe\u011fim “Joseph”‘in beni sa\u00e7lar\u0131mdan yakalad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hissettim…<\/p>\n

Bay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmal\u0131y\u0131m, Joseph’in yumu\u015fak t\u00fcylerinin i\u00e7inde a\u00e7t\u0131m g\u00f6zlerimi kocaman dili ile yal\u0131yordu \u0131slak sa\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bo\u011fulmaya ramak kalma, Joseph \u00f6lene kadar onunla aram\u0131zda bir s\u0131r olarak kald\u0131…<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bu olaydan sonra Joseph beni hi\u00e7bir zaman yanl\u0131z b\u0131rakmad\u0131. Ev d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda nereye gidersem gideyim k\u00f6y \u00e7evresinde g\u00f6lgem gibi beni takip edip “\u00e2lesta” bir \u015fekilde beni kollad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Joseph \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde Ankara’da fak\u00fcltemin mezuniyet finallerindeydim, \u00f6l\u00fcm haberini verdiklerinde finalleri bo\u015f verip defin t\u00f6renine yeti\u015ftim.<\/p>\n

Bir y\u0131l\u0131ma m\u00e2l oldu ama bundan asla pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duymad\u0131m! Hayat\u0131m\u0131 bor\u00e7lu oldu\u011fum, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumun ve ilk gen\u00e7li\u011fimin sad\u0131k arkada\u015f\u0131 vefal\u0131 dostuma kar\u015f\u0131 bir g\u00f6revdi benim i\u00e7in…<\/p>\n

I\u015f\u0131klarda uyu de\u011ferli dostum Joseph, seni asla unutmad\u0131m, unutmayaca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p>\n

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Etnisitemin t\u00fcm \u00f6zelliklerine sahip olan \u015fansl\u0131 bir \u00c7erkes olarak m\u00e2rufumdur, ulu dedem soylu \u015eaps\u0131\u011f \u015epa\u015figo KITIJ Smayl’\u0131n klonlanm\u0131\u015f \u015feklidir derler benim i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n

Solakl\u0131k, \u00c7erkeslerde \u00e7ok yayg\u0131n bir anomalidir(!).<\/p>\n

Ben solakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir anomali olarak de\u011fil bir ayr\u0131cal\u0131kl\u0131k olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcm ama ya\u015fam hep “salak” lara g\u00f6re dizayn edildi\u011fi i\u00e7in anomalik bir alg\u0131 olu\u015fmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n

\u0130flah olmaz bir yes\u00e2r\u00eeyim, sa\u011f elimle \u00e7atal bile tutamam. Sa\u011f el, hayat\u0131mda hep sol elimin emir eri g\u00f6revini g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr!<\/p>\n

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Yes\u00e2ri olman\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00c7erkesler ait di\u011fer karakter \u00f6zelliklerinden baz\u0131lar\u0131; cesur, atak ve dost canl\u0131s\u0131 olmalar\u0131d\u0131r…<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkesler monogamik insanlard\u0131r! Ge\u00e7 ya\u015fta evlenirler. Evlilikler a\u015fk evlilikleridir. Asla g\u00f6r\u00fcc\u00fc us\u00fcl\u00fc evlilik yapmazlar. Klan i\u00e7i evlilikler kabul edilmez. Hatta akraba evlili\u011fi yapanlar toplumdan d\u0131\u015flan\u0131r. \u00d6ncelik ve istenilen evlilik; e\u015fin mutlaka \u00c7erkes k\u00f6kenli ve ba\u015fka klanlardan olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Kentsel ya\u015fam, bu kat\u0131 kurallar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 maalesef geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayacak \u015fekilde deforme etmi\u015f ve etmektedir…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

KITIJ Cemil Biçer Çocukluğum çok güzel bir Çerkes köyünde geçti. Çerkesler güzel insanlardır, barışçıldır, doğayı severler ve korurlar. Ağaç onlar için kutsal bir varlıktır. Aileyi veya toplumlarını igilendiren önemli kararları köy meydanında bulunan devâsa çınar ağacının altında toplanarak alırlar. Demokrat insanlardır; cinsiyet ayrımı yapmazlar, kadın, toplum yaşamlarında hep ön plandadır ve nihaî karar vericidir. 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