{"id":37391,"date":"2023-12-15T07:25:48","date_gmt":"2023-12-15T13:25:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=37391"},"modified":"2023-12-15T07:25:48","modified_gmt":"2023-12-15T13:25:48","slug":"gercek-ve-genclik-kimin-umurunda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/gercek-ve-genclik-kimin-umurunda\/","title":{"rendered":"GER\u00c7EK ve GEN\u00c7L\u0130K K\u0130M\u0130N UMURUNDA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-37393\" src=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/GERCEK-ve-GENCLIK-KIMIN-UMURUNDA-b.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"571\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/GERCEK-ve-GENCLIK-KIMIN-UMURUNDA-b.png 571w, https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/GERCEK-ve-GENCLIK-KIMIN-UMURUNDA-b-300x158.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 571px) 100vw, 571px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dernek toplant\u0131s\u0131.<br \/>\nGen\u00e7; a\u011f\u0131r, emin ad\u0131mlarla <strong>konu\u015fma k\u00fcrs\u00fcs\u00fcne y\u00f6neldi.<\/strong><br \/>\nMikrofonu eline ald\u0131, \u015f\u00f6yle bir salonu s\u00fczd\u00fc.<br \/>\nDuru\u015f, d\u00fczg\u00fcn, <strong>bak\u0131\u015flar derin ve keskin.<\/strong><br \/>\nGen\u00e7, her halinden belli ki dolu, hem de a\u011fz\u0131na kadar dolu.<br \/>\nBak\u0131yor, salon da dolu.<br \/>\nG\u00f6zleri <strong>salonda gen\u00e7 ar\u0131yor. <\/strong><br \/>\nSalonda gen\u00e7 yok denecek kadar az.<br \/>\nGen\u00e7, endi\u015feli, zira salonun <strong>ya\u015f ortalamas\u0131<\/strong> olduk\u00e7a y\u00fcksek.<br \/>\n\u201cGer\u00e7i ben de 30 ya\u015flar\u0131nday\u0131m!\u201d diye ge\u00e7iriyor i\u00e7inden!<br \/>\n<strong>Y\u00f6neticiler konu\u015ftu, yeti\u015fkinler konu\u015ftu<\/strong>\u2026 s\u0131ra kendisindeydi\u2026<br \/>\nT\u00fcm konu\u015fmalar\u0131 dikkatle dinlemi\u015f, konu\u015fulanlar\u0131 <strong>not alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. <\/strong><br \/>\nKendisinden \u00f6nce konu\u015fanlar, neden \u201c<strong>mutlaka konu\u015fulmas\u0131 gereken, \u00e7ok acil \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bekleyen<\/strong> konular\u0131\u201d konu\u015fmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131, buna bir anlam veremedi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>TAHAMM\u00dcLS\u00dcZL\u00dcK<\/strong><br \/>\nAsl\u0131nda bu durumu \u00e7ok da yad\u0131rgamad\u0131 al\u0131\u015fk\u0131nd\u0131 bu durumlara, ne de olsa dernekte b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.<br \/>\nBilirdi derne\u011fi, bilirdi yeti\u015fkinlerin tavr\u0131n\u0131, bilirdi \u00e7o\u011fu <strong>ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gen\u00e7lere tahamm\u00fcls\u00fczl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc<\/strong>!<br \/>\nBir kez daha salona bakt\u0131, endi\u015fesi artt\u0131, biraz daha gerildi\u2026<br \/>\nYutkundu, bir kez daha yutkundu\u2026<br \/>\n<strong>Ama konu\u015fmal\u0131yd\u0131<\/strong>, mutlaka konu\u015fmal\u0131yd\u0131.<br \/>\nYa\u015fanan felaket sonras\u0131 yard\u0131m\u0131 s\u00fcrecinde ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k ve k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n unutulup can pazar\u0131ndaki halka yard\u0131m ula\u015ft\u0131rmak varken ya\u015fanan \u00e7irkinlikleri, gecesini g\u00fcnd\u00fcz\u00fcne kat\u0131p sahada sabahlayan <strong>yard\u0131m kampanyas\u0131n\u0131n sembolle\u015fen kahramanlar\u0131n\u0131n<\/strong> yan\u0131nda baz\u0131 yetkililerin s\u00fcre\u00e7teki tutars\u0131z kararlar\u0131n\u0131, egolar\u0131n\u0131, <strong>kavgac\u0131 tutumlar\u0131n\u0131<\/strong>, sen- ben davalar\u0131n\u0131, afra ve tafralar\u0131n\u0131, k\u00fcsenleri, k\u0131r\u0131lanlar\u0131, ayr\u0131lanlar\u0131 konu\u015fmal\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong>YALANCI PEHL\u0130VANLAR<\/strong><br \/>\nAma en \u00e7ok da s\u00fcre\u00e7te b\u00f6lgeyi terk edip s\u00fcre\u00e7 sonras\u0131nda b\u00f6lgeye d\u00f6nen, \u015fimdilerde \u201cHer yard\u0131m\u0131 ben yapt\u0131m!\u201d tavr\u0131yla rol yapan yalanc\u0131 pehlivanlar\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nDi\u011fer taraftan hayranl\u0131kla izledi\u011fi <strong>samimi, g\u00fczel insanlar\u0131n <\/strong>insani y\u00f6nlerini anlatt\u0131ktan sonra, utan\u00e7la izledi\u011fi o <strong>ahbap- \u00e7avu\u015f ili\u015fkilerini<\/strong>, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klar\u0131, haset ve nefretleri, yalanlar\u0131, iftiralar\u0131, dev gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen c\u00fcceleri, <strong>y\u00fcz\u00fc maskelileri<\/strong>\u2026 Hepsini anlatacakt\u0131.<br \/>\nYine yutkundu, derin bir nefes daha ald\u0131\u2026<br \/>\nYok, yok anlatacakt\u0131, ne olursa olsun anlatmal\u0131yd\u0131.<br \/>\nBelki hayat\u0131n\u0131n en sakin ses tonuyla h\u00e2zirunu sayg\u0131 s\u00f6zleriyle selamlayarak ba\u015flad\u0131 konu\u015fmas\u0131na.<br \/>\n<strong>Ana diliyle kendisini tan\u0131tt\u0131<\/strong>, ni\u00e7in k\u00fcrs\u00fcye geldi\u011fini anlatt\u0131.<br \/>\nB\u00f6lgede ya\u015fanan, y\u00f6netmenli\u011fini malum yeti\u015fkinlerin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7te <strong>toplumun ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u011f\u0131r yaray\u0131,<\/strong> kendisine yap\u0131lan hakaretleri, ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin bu olan bitenlere tepkisizli\u011fini, <strong>y\u0131pranan y\u00f6netimlerin de\u011fi\u015fmesi gere\u011fini <\/strong>vurgulad\u0131.<br \/>\nB\u00f6lgede ya\u015fananlar\u0131, kendisinin bizzat ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 o unutulmaz ac\u0131lar\u0131, o zor ge\u00e7en g\u00fcnleri\u2026<br \/>\n\u00dcslubu da konu\u015fman\u0131n i\u00e7eri\u011fi de harikayd\u0131!<br \/>\nOlduk\u00e7a samimi, dolu dolu bir konu\u015fmayd\u0131.<br \/>\nGen\u00e7, her kelimeyi itinayla se\u00e7ti, her s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc pamuklara sararak s\u00f6yledi.<br \/>\nGere\u011finden fazla dikkatliydi, titizdi, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015f\u00e7a \u201cb\u00fcy\u00fcklerin gazab\u0131na u\u011framak\u201d dedi\u011fimiz bir ger\u00e7ek vard\u0131.<br \/>\nBir ba\u015fka derne\u011fin genel kurulunda ya\u015fananlardan, o s\u00fcre\u00e7te g\u00f6reve talip oldu\u011funda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ak\u0131l almaz hallerden, hal\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131na s\u00fcp\u00fcr\u00fclen ger\u00e7eklerden, <strong>suya sabuna dokunamayan y\u00f6neticilerden<\/strong>, do\u011frular\u0131 bildi\u011fi halde konu\u015fmayanlardan bahsetti\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cB\u0130R OLALIM!\u201d<\/strong><br \/>\nHi\u00e7 birlik olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z halde <strong>s\u00fcrekli birlik, beraberlik mesajlar\u0131 verip da\u011f\u0131l\u0131yoruz. <\/strong><br \/>\nD\u00fcn b\u00f6yle yapt\u0131k, bug\u00fcn de b\u00f6yle yap\u0131yoruz, yar\u0131n da b\u00f6yle yapaca\u011f\u0131z.<br \/>\nEn garip olan\u0131 da bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 neden bu k\u00fcrs\u00fcde bu kadar vurgulayarak kendinizi anlat\u0131yorsunuz bu ay\u0131pt\u0131r bize yak\u0131\u015fmaz.<br \/>\nHalk\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in elbette elimizden geleni yapaca\u011f\u0131z, ama <strong>baz\u0131 konu\u015fmac\u0131lar yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015feyi burada nas\u0131l da a\u011f\u0131z dolusuyla anlat\u0131yor. <\/strong><br \/>\nAy\u0131p de\u011fil mi, insan samimiyetle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 iyilikleri burada halka hayk\u0131r\u0131r m\u0131, bu yak\u0131\u015fm\u0131yor bize!<br \/>\nSorunlar\u0131 konu\u015fam\u0131yoruz, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretemiyoruz, konu\u015fan gen\u00e7leri lin\u00e7 etmeyi gelenek haline getirdik\u2026<br \/>\nBir \u015fey daha s\u00f6yledi ki\u2026<br \/>\n<strong>\u201c\u00c7ok \u015fey s\u00f6ylemeyi planlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m<\/strong> ama anlad\u0131m ki bu salonda bizler <strong>ayn\u0131 frekansta konu\u015fmuyoruz<\/strong>.\u201d Dedi. Kim bilir belki daha fazla konu\u015fman\u0131n, bu kadar samimi olman\u0131n gereksiz oldu\u011funa inanm\u0131\u015f olmal\u0131 ki s\u00f6zlerini sayg\u0131 ifadeleriyle tamamlay\u0131p k\u00fcrs\u00fcden ayr\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong>EZBER BOZULMADI<\/strong><br \/>\nPeki ne mi oldu?<br \/>\nBu kadar yeti\u015fkinin ve <strong>thamadenin oldu\u011fu yerde<\/strong> bir gen\u00e7 nas\u0131l olur da ezilip b\u00fcz\u00fclmeden, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc, seviyeli, b\u00f6yle ayaklar\u0131 yere basan c\u00fcmleler kurar? Der gibi bakanlar vard\u0131.<br \/>\nKim bu?<br \/>\nHemen ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fcklerden biri, mikrofonu istedi, gencin bunlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylemeye asla hakk\u0131n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, toplumun birlikteli\u011finin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 <strong>a\u011f\u0131r ithamlarla dolu c\u00fcmleler kurdu.<\/strong><br \/>\nEvet, gelenek bozulmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131, <strong>yine alk\u0131\u015flar koptu.<\/strong><br \/>\nSalon genci de alk\u0131\u015flad\u0131, <strong>gencin aforoz giri\u015fimi sahnesini de.<\/strong><br \/>\nBu salon al\u0131\u015fk\u0131nd\u0131 bu sahnelere, g\u00fcndemden bihaber ezberini tekrarlayanlar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 hep kabar\u0131k olurdu burada.<br \/>\n<strong>\u00c7o\u011fu yeti\u015fkinin derdi<\/strong> k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve toplum olmaz, bazen <strong>konu\u015fmu\u015f olmak i\u00e7in<\/strong>, bazen ki\u015fisel kavgalar, toplumsal sorunlar de\u011fil ki\u015fisel s\u00fcrt\u00fc\u015fmeler konu\u015fulur.<br \/>\nHakl\u0131 haks\u0131z <strong>herkes, herkesi alk\u0131\u015flar<\/strong> ve programlar biter.<br \/>\nKoca salonda iki ki\u015fi hayk\u0131rabildi bu lin\u00e7 giri\u015fiminin yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131. \u0130ki ki\u015fi, <strong>iki y\u00fcrekli ki\u015fi!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>F\u0130LLER ve \u00c7\u0130MENLER<\/strong><br \/>\nBu bitmeyen kavga kimin kavgas\u0131?<br \/>\n\u201cFiller ve \u00e7imenler\u201d sahnesi, kavga, <strong>sen-ben kavgas\u0131, ego m\u00fccadelesi\u2026<\/strong><br \/>\n\u201cKonu\u015fuyoruz ama nece konu\u015fuyoruz, konu\u015fuyoruz ama anla\u015fam\u0131yoruz!\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cGen\u00e7ler, bizim her \u015feyimiz!\u201d<br \/>\n<strong>\u201cBirlikteysek g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcz!\u201d <\/strong><br \/>\nYa\u015fas\u0131n gen\u00e7ler, ya\u015fas\u0131n birlikteli\u011fimiz!<br \/>\nBiz, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en kusursuz, en soylu toplumuyuz!<br \/>\nYewua p\u0131\u015f\u0131nawua!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak&ccedil;&#305; Dernek toplant&#305;s&#305;. Gen&ccedil;; a&#287;&#305;r, emin ad&#305;mlarla konu&#351;ma k&uuml;rs&uuml;s&uuml;ne y&ouml;neldi. Mikrofonu eline ald&#305;, &#351;&ouml;yle bir salonu s&uuml;zd&uuml;. Duru&#351;, d&uuml;zg&uuml;n, bak&#305;&#351;lar derin ve keskin. Gen&ccedil;, her halinden belli ki dolu, hem de a&#287;z&#305;na kadar dolu. Bak&#305;yor, salon da dolu. G&ouml;zleri salonda gen&ccedil; ar&#305;yor. Salonda gen&ccedil; yok denecek kadar az. Gen&ccedil;, endi&#351;eli, zira salonun ya&#351; 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