{"id":37667,"date":"2024-01-05T08:41:04","date_gmt":"2024-01-05T14:41:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=37667"},"modified":"2024-01-07T13:55:06","modified_gmt":"2024-01-07T19:55:06","slug":"ayrilik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/ayrilik\/","title":{"rendered":"AYRILIK"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-37669\" src=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/AYRILIK-b.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"571\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/AYRILIK-b.png 571w, https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/AYRILIK-b-300x158.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 571px) 100vw, 571px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c7alamad\u0131k senle ayn\u0131 telden sevda \u015fark\u0131s\u0131n\u0131,<\/em> diyor ve ilave ediyor \u015fair:<br \/>\n<em>Fazla sevdim seni, bozdun bak kalbimin tart\u0131s\u0131n\u0131,<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Ayr\u0131lmay\u0131 bile beceremedik, d\u00fc\u015fman olup \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cAyr\u0131l\u0131k\u201d<\/strong> buz gibi so\u011fuk bir s\u00f6zc\u00fck, <strong>\u201cbirliktelik\u201d<\/strong> s\u0131cac\u0131k bir kavram.<br \/>\nAma ayr\u0131l\u0131k da var hayatta\u2026<br \/>\nYeter ki \u201cayr\u0131l\u0131k\u201d, \u201c<strong>d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k\u201d <\/strong>la sonu\u00e7lanmas\u0131n!<\/p>\n<p>Ya di\u011fer \u015fairin s\u00f6zleri:<br \/>\n<em>\u2026. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc <strong>ayr\u0131lman\u0131n da vah\u015fi bir tad\u0131 var<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u00d6yle vah\u015fi bir tat ki dayan\u0131l\u0131r gibi de\u011fil<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc <strong>ayr\u0131l\u0131k da sevdaya dahil<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ayr\u0131lanlar h\u00e2l\u00e2 sevgili\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ayr\u0131lmak, <strong>ayr\u0131l\u0131p d\u00fc\u015fman kalmak ya da ayr\u0131l\u0131p dost kalmak!<\/strong><br \/>\nDe\u011fil mi ki <strong><em>\u201cGitme kal!\u201d<\/em><\/strong><em> var- yok dinlemez bir \u00e7ocuk iste\u011fidir.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ayr\u0131l\u0131k olmasayd\u0131 kavu\u015fmak neye yarard\u0131?<br \/>\nNeye yarard\u0131 \u00f6zlemek?<br \/>\n<em>A\u015fk, ayr\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z; sevda, \u00e7ilesiz olmaz, <\/em>derler.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00e2z\u0131m\u2019s\u0131z ayr\u0131l\u0131k temas\u0131 i\u015flenebilir mi hi\u00e7?<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>Ayr\u0131l\u0131k, demir \u00e7ubuk gibi sallan\u0131yor havada<br \/>\n\u00c7arp\u0131yor y\u00fcz\u00fcme y\u00fcz\u00fcme\u2026<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Ayr\u0131l\u0131k, zaman de\u011fil, yol de\u011fil,<\/em><br \/>\n<strong><em>Ayr\u0131l\u0131k, aram\u0131zda bir k\u00f6pr\u00fc,<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em>K\u0131ldan ince, k\u0131l\u0131\u00e7tan keskin.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>MAHALLE HUZURSUZ<\/strong><br \/>\nMahalle, haftalard\u0131r y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyen bir evlili\u011fi konu\u015fuyor.<br \/>\nMalum, evlilik y\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcyorsa \u0131srarc\u0131 olman\u0131n <strong>ak\u0131lla vicdanla izah\u0131 olamaz!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tahamm\u00fcl\u00fc t\u00fcketen zorlu s\u00fcreci bilmeyen <strong>tuzu kurular\u0131n,<\/strong> ya da ziyadesiyle iyi niyetlilerin, art\u0131k y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyen, t\u0131kanan evlili\u011fin devam\u0131n\u0131n fazileti konusunda m\u00fctemadiyen <strong>ak\u0131l vermesi,<\/strong> ahk\u00e2m kesmesi <strong>beyhudedir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar nedeniyle zorlu s\u00fcre\u00e7, farkl\u0131 bir d\u00f6neme evrilmi\u015fse sonu\u00e7ta y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyen bir birliktelik sonland\u0131r\u0131lacaksa <strong>tela\u015fa, pani\u011fe gerek var m\u0131?<\/strong>D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayan yola girilmi\u015fse do\u011fru olan, do\u011fal olan\u0131 uygulamak, <strong>taraflar\u0131n medenice, d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e<\/strong> en az zararla ayr\u0131lmalar\u0131na katk\u0131 sa\u011flamak olmal\u0131.<br \/>\nMahalle, sa\u011fduyuyu ku\u015fanarak her <strong>iki taraf\u0131n yeni bir co\u015fkuyla<\/strong> yoluna devam etmesi i\u00e7in gerekirse kap\u0131lar\u0131 aralamal\u0131.<br \/>\nUmulur ki yeni d\u00f6nemde her <strong>iki taraf da kazan\u00e7l\u0131 \u00e7\u0131ks\u0131n<\/strong>, huzursuzluktan s\u0131k\u0131lan mahalle huzura ersin!<\/p>\n<p>Unutmayal\u0131m,<br \/>\n\u201c<strong>Umudu beslemek g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ruhlar\u0131n i\u015fidir! <\/strong><br \/>\nGitti\u011fin yol ayd\u0131nl\u0131ksa G\u00fcne\u015fi kendine k\u0131lavuz se\u00e7ti\u011fin i\u00e7indir.\u201d<br \/>\nY\u00fcre\u011fini dinle, bak yeni bir umut d\u00f6nd\u00fc k\u00f6\u015feden!<\/p>\n<p>Mutlu, umutlu yar\u0131nlara.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak&ccedil;&#305; &Ccedil;alamad&#305;k senle ayn&#305; telden sevda &#351;ark&#305;s&#305;n&#305;, diyor ve ilave ediyor &#351;air: Fazla sevdim seni, bozdun bak kalbimin tart&#305;s&#305;n&#305;, Ayr&#305;lmay&#305; bile beceremedik, d&uuml;&#351;man olup &ccedil;&#305;kt&#305;k&hellip; &ldquo;Ayr&#305;l&#305;k&rdquo; buz gibi so&#287;uk bir s&ouml;zc&uuml;k, &ldquo;birliktelik&rdquo; s&#305;cac&#305;k bir kavram. Ama ayr&#305;l&#305;k da var hayatta&hellip; Yeter ki &ldquo;ayr&#305;l&#305;k&rdquo;, &ldquo;d&uuml;&#351;manl&#305;k&rdquo; la sonu&ccedil;lanmas&#305;n! Ya di&#287;er &#351;airin s&ouml;zleri: &hellip;. &Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; ayr&#305;lman&#305;n 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