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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu \u00fclkede, on binlerce, y\u00fczbinlerce gen\u00e7, devlet deste\u011fi olmadan evlenemeyecek hale geldiyse bu neyin g\u00f6stergesi, <\/strong>bu neyin habercisi? HER \u015eEY ATE\u015e PAHASI<\/strong> GEN\u00c7LER\u0130 EVLENEMEYEN B\u0130R TOPLUM<\/strong> EVL\u0130L\u0130\u011e\u0130N \u00d6N\u00dcNDE DA\u011e G\u0130B\u0130 SORUNLAR VAR<\/strong> \u015eIMARIK ZENG\u0130N D\u00dc\u011e\u00dcNLER\u0130 K\u00d6T\u00dc \u00d6RNEK OLUYOR <\/strong> HAYD\u0130 EVLEN EVLENEB\u0130L\u0130RSEN<\/strong> G\u00d6STER\u0130\u015e MERAKI <\/strong> A\u0130LEY\u0130 AYAKTA TUTMAK \u015eART<\/strong> A\u0130LE VE SOSYAL H\u0130ZMETLER BAKANLI\u011eI<\/strong> A\u0130LELER\u0130N B\u00dcY\u00dcK SORUMLULU\u011eU<\/strong> EVL\u0130L\u0130KTE DEVLET DESTE\u011e\u0130 \u015eART!<\/strong> TEMENN\u0130<\/strong> \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Bu ülkede, on binlerce, yüzbinlerce genç, devlet desteği olmadan evlenemeyecek hale geldiyse bu neyin göstergesi, bu neyin habercisi? Farkında mıyız bilmem, günümüz sistemi evlenmeyi değil, evlenmemeyi teşvik ediyor. İşte, evlilik yaşına gelmiş, evlenmeye hazır ama imkânsızlık yüzünden evlenemeyen gençlerin yürek yakan ifadeleri: Seviyorum, evlenmek istiyorum ama maddi imkansızlıklar yüzünden sevdiğimle evlenemiyorum. 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\nFark\u0131nda m\u0131y\u0131z bilmem, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz sistemi evlenmeyi de\u011fil, evlenmemeyi te\u015fvik<\/strong> ediyor.
\n\u0130\u015fte, evlilik ya\u015f\u0131na gelmi\u015f, evlenmeye haz\u0131r ama imk\u00e2ns\u0131zl\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fcnden evlenemeyen gen\u00e7lerin y\u00fcrek yakan ifadeleri:<\/strong>
\nSeviyorum, evlenmek istiyorum ama maddi imkans\u0131zl\u0131klar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sevdi\u011fimle evlenemiyorum.
\nOkul bitti, bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum ama kazanc\u0131mla d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn masraflar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layabilmen imk\u00e2ns\u0131z<\/strong>, ailemin de imkanlar\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131, bu \u015fartlarda evlilik sadece bir hayal!<\/p>\n
\nG\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz T\u00fcrkiye\u2019sinde her \u015fey ate\u015f pahas\u0131, hayat pahal\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 can yakmaya <\/strong>devam ediyor.
\nHayat\u0131n her alan\u0131n\u0131 daraltan y\u00fcksek enflasyon, evlili\u011fe de engel oluyor.
\nGen\u00e7ler evlenemiyor, astronomik derecede<\/strong> artan kiralar ve hayat pahal\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 evlili\u011fi zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor.
\nK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7apl\u0131 bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn masraf\u0131<\/strong> bile \u00e7o\u011fu aile i\u00e7in imk\u00e2ns\u0131z boyutta.
\nPeki ne olacak \u015fimdi, bu gen\u00e7ler nas\u0131l evlenecek?<\/p>\n
\nGen\u00e7ler, evlenemezse ne olur?
\nGen\u00e7leri evlenemeyen toplumda nelerin olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kimse d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek bile istemez!
\nAnla\u015f\u0131lan, \u201cEvlenmek istememek ciddi bir dert, evlenmek isteyip evlenememek ise trajedi!\u201d<\/strong>
\nPek \u00e7ok \u015feyin cinsiyet \u00fczerine kuruldu\u011fu, \u015fehev\u00ee arzular\u0131n k\u00f6r\u00fcklendi\u011fi bir zamanda bu durum daha da trajik bir hal al\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
\nEvlilik, k\u00fclt\u00fcrlere, co\u011frafyalara, inan\u00e7lara g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fik bi\u00e7imler alsa da ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz bir ger\u00e7ek.<\/strong>
\nAncak son y\u0131llarda halk\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kesimi i\u00e7in evlenmek, yuva kurmak neredeyse imk\u00e2ns\u0131z.<\/strong>
\nEkonomik \u015fartlar,<\/strong> evliliklerin \u00f6n\u00fcndeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck engel.
\nGen\u00e7lerin b\u00fcy\u00fck bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc i\u015fsiz, g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz, baba eline bak\u0131yor\u2026<\/strong>
\nEv kiralar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zellikle b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fehirlerde astronomik boyuta ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 evlenecek gen\u00e7leri \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcyor\u2026
\nEvlili\u011fin maliyeti,<\/strong> gen\u00e7leri kara kara d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcyor.
\nBu kadar paray\u0131 nereden, nas\u0131l bulacak bu gen\u00e7ler?
\nSon y\u0131llarda say\u0131lar\u0131 h\u0131zla artan bo\u015fanma olaylar\u0131<\/strong> da gen\u00e7leri evlilikten so\u011futuyor\u2026
\nAileler, sanki k\u0131zlar\u0131 ve o\u011fullar\u0131 de\u011fil de kendileri evleniyormu\u015f gibi\u2026
\nSanal d\u00fcnyada payla\u015f\u0131lan renkli, \u015fatafatl\u0131 evlilik g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleri<\/strong> ge\u00e7leri evlilikten so\u011futuyor.
\nTabii tek sebep maddiyat de\u011fil, do\u011fru aday\u0131 bulamad\u0131m diyenlerle, ailesiyle ortak adayda<\/strong> karar k\u0131lamayanlar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 da az de\u011fil<\/p>\n
\nG\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn sonradan g\u00f6rme siyasileri ve zenginleri ile \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n abart\u0131l\u0131, g\u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fczl\u00fcklerle<\/strong> dolu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnleri,<\/strong> gen\u00e7lere k\u00f6t\u00fc \u00f6rnek oluyor.
\nBu, b\u00fcy\u00fck b\u00fct\u00e7elerle yap\u0131lan \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler, abart\u0131l\u0131 tak\u0131lar, <\/strong>b\u00fcy\u00fck israf, aileleri ve evlenme a\u015famas\u0131ndaki gen\u00e7leri evlenmekten vaz ge\u00e7iriyor.
\nDevlet, bu yaman \u00e7eli\u015fkileri g\u00f6rm\u00fcyor olamaz!<\/p>\n
\nL\u00fcks ev, araba olmazsa olmaz\u2026 Evin d\u00f6\u015feme ve beyaz e\u015fyalar\u0131 d\u00f6rt d\u00f6rtl\u00fck<\/strong> olmal\u0131.
\nS\u00f6z kesimi, ni\u015fan, k\u0131na, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bunlar salonsuz olmaz,<\/strong> yoksa konu kom\u015fu ne der?
\nBunca \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131n talep kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda evlen evlenebilirsen!<\/p>\n
\nAnne babalar\u0131n ger\u00e7ek derdi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n mutlu olmas\u0131 ise, dost ve akrabalara g\u00f6steri\u015f yapaca\u011f\u0131z<\/strong> diyerek gen\u00e7leri bor\u00e7 alt\u0131na sokmamal\u0131. <\/strong>
\nG\u00f6steri\u015f yaparak harcanan parayla yeni evli \u00e7iftler kendileri i\u00e7in m\u00fctevazi yat\u0131r\u0131m yapabilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n
\nE\u011fer devlet, toplumun yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 korumak istiyorsa aileyi ayakta tutmak zorunda.
\nAyr\u0131ca yuva kurmay\u0131 \u00f6zendirmek yuvan\u0131n devam\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flam i\u00e7in “25 y\u0131l evlili\u011fini s\u00fcrd\u00fcren kad\u0131nlara da emeklilik hakk\u0131 tan\u0131nmal\u0131.”<\/strong><\/p>\n
\nDizilerdeki insanl\u0131k d\u0131\u015f\u0131 sahneler evliliklerin bitmesine ve yuvalar\u0131n y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131na sebep oluyor.
\nSabah ve \u00f6\u011fle programlar\u0131, milletinin \u00f6rf, adet ve geleneklerine ne kadar ayk\u0131r\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc \u00f6ge varsa hepsini i\u00e7inde bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131yor.
\nBu arada, \u201cAile ve Sosyal Hizmetler Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d n\u0131n ne i\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamak gerekmez mi?<\/p>\n
\n\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n mutlu olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nan de\u011ferli anne babalar, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n evlili\u011fi i\u00e7in her kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131n,<\/strong> onlara, gere\u011finden fazla y\u00fck y\u00fcklemeyin. <\/strong>
\n\u0130mkanlar\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcnde m\u00fctevazi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlere raz\u0131 olun.<\/strong> Gen\u00e7 evliler, hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n en g\u00fczel g\u00fcnlerini bor\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ge\u00e7irmesin. B\u0131rak\u0131n birbirlerini seven gen\u00e7ler \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu mutlu bir evlilik ya\u015fas\u0131n! <\/strong><\/p>\n
\nEy devlet, bu konuda sana b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rev d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor.
\nGen\u00e7ler evlenmek istiyor, aile kurman\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcndeki engelleri b\u00fcy\u00fctme, kald\u0131r, yok et!
\nGen\u00e7 \u00e7iftlere yol g\u00f6ster, ufuk a\u00e7, \u00e7are \u00fcret!
\nHaydi devlet, devlet babal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131<\/strong> g\u00f6ster!<\/strong>
\n\u00a0<\/strong>
\nA\u0130LE SAADET\u0130 \u0130\u00c7\u0130N 5S FORM\u00dcL\u00dc<\/strong>
\nSevgi, sayg\u0131, sorumluluk, sadakat ve sab\u0131r\u2019 dan olu\u015fan \u201c5S<\/strong> form\u00fcl\u00fc\u201d ailelerin huzur ve mutluluk kayna\u011f\u0131.<\/p>\n
\nAyn\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcre sahip gen\u00e7lerin kendi aralar\u0131ndaki evlilik oranlar\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131<\/strong>, mutlu, huzurlu aile say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011falmas\u0131 temennisiyle\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n