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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Nart, y\u00fcre\u011fi sevgi dolu bir gen\u00e7tir. Anne baba,\u00a0biricik evlatlar\u0131n\u0131n evlenip g\u00fczel bir yuva <\/strong>kurmas\u0131\u00a0konusunda \u0131srarc\u0131d\u0131r. Nart,\u00a0huzursuzdur, mutsuzdur. Hem k\u00fclt\u00fcrel duyarl\u0131l\u0131k gere\u011fi hem de \u201cUmudum tazelensin<\/strong>,\u00a0moralim d\u00fczelsin!\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesiyle derne\u011fin her etkinli\u011fine kat\u0131l\u0131r. Sadece m\u00fczikte mi, danslarda da harikad\u0131r! Sab\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r, k\u00fclt\u00fcrl\u00fcd\u00fcr. Ama nas\u0131l,\u00a0ama kimle? G\u00fczel k\u0131zlar da vard\u0131r<\/strong>\u00a0\u00e7evresinde. Art\u0131k iyice\u00a0halsizdir, \u00fcmitsizdir, moralsizdir. Kimse duymaz bu \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131. Yi\u011fit delikanl\u0131 yorgundur. Nart, solgundur, bitkindir. Sorular, sorular\u2026 \u201cBu d\u00fczen neden b\u00f6yle!\u201d der. Duymam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r kimse bu \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131. Ama duyanlar duymu\u015ftur. Zaman ge\u00e7mi\u015f Nart unutulmu\u015ftur. (Bu yaz\u0131 daha \u00f6nce Circassiancenter\u2019da \u201cNart\u2019\u0131n \u00c7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d ad\u0131yla yay\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Nart, yüreği sevgi dolu bir gençtir. Yakışıklıdır, yüreklidir. Evlilik çağındadır. Kültürüyle iç içedir. Ana dilini iyi konuşmakta, olabildiğince kültürünü yaşamaktadır. İsteklidir, duyarlıdır, kararlıdır… Anne baba, biricik evlatlarının evlenip güzel bir yuva kurması konusunda ısrarcıdır. Her geçen gün baskılar artar. Oysa Nart, çok iyi bilmektedir ki eş seçimi zordur. Eşler, aynı kültürü paylaşmalıdır. Sıkıntı çoktur. 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\nYak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131d\u0131r,\u00a0y\u00fcreklidir.
\n<\/strong>Evlilik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndad\u0131r.
\nK\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle\u00a0<\/strong>i\u00e7 i\u00e7edir.
\nAna dilini iyi konu\u015fmakta, olabildi\u011fince k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015famaktad\u0131r.
\n\u0130steklidir, duyarl\u0131d\u0131r, kararl\u0131d\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n
\nHer ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn bask\u0131lar artar.
\nOysa Nart, \u00e7ok iyi bilmektedir ki\u00a0e\u015f se\u00e7imi zordur.
\n<\/strong>E\u015fler, ayn\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc payla\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nS\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 \u00e7oktur.
\nNart, kocaman diplomas\u0131na ra\u011fmen zor bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r.
\n\u0130\u015fin zahmet \u00e7oktur, \u00fccret azd\u0131r.
\n<\/strong>Hayat yorucu,\u00a0ekonomik \u015fartlar <\/strong>olabildi\u011fince a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131r.
\nAilenin imk\u00e2nlar\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131, kendisi gururludur.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Uykular\u0131 ka\u00e7maktad\u0131r.
\nS\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131k\u00e7a, bunald\u0131k\u00e7a imdad\u0131na yeti\u015fir\u00a0akordeon.
\n<\/strong>\u00c7alar, dinler; biraz olsun rahatlar.
\nEnerjisi, az da olsa artar.<\/p>\n
\nKo\u015far, ko\u015fturur<\/strong>.
\nCo\u015far, co\u015fturur\u2026<\/p>\n
\n\u201cK\u00e2fe\u201d<\/strong>si bir ba\u015fkad\u0131r.
\nAyr\u0131ca kusur yoktur\u00a0sayg\u0131s\u0131nda; edebinde<\/strong>, sevgisinde\u2026
\nO, b\u00f6yle g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr ailesinde.<\/p>\n
\n\u0130yi-k\u00f6t\u00fc bir i\u015f sahibidir.
\nYa\u015f\u0131 da gelmi\u015f<\/strong>, ge\u00e7mektedir.
\nArt\u0131k evlenmelidir!<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Evlilik zor zanaat, dedik ya!
\nKalmasa ke\u015fke bu yolda yaya\u2026<\/p>\n
\nBir gayret, bir gayret daha\u2026
\nAma olmaz!
\n\u0130stedi\u011fini bulamaz!
\nKendisini\u00a0\u201cSetenay\u201d lara be\u011fendiremez.
\n<\/strong>Zengin olsaym\u0131\u015f, varl\u0131kl\u0131\u2026
\n\u00dcz\u00fcl\u00fcr, kahrolur\u2026 Olan bitene ak\u0131l, s\u0131r erdiremez.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>\u00c7evresindeki k\u0131zlar da bir bir evlenmi\u015ftir.
\nKendisi orta yerde kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Herkes i\u015finde g\u00fcc\u00fcndedir.
\nNart\u2019\u0131n sa\u00e7lar\u0131 a\u011farm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\nBaba \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f,<\/strong>\u00a0anne hastalanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\nGe\u00e7im y\u00fck\u00fc iyice artm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\nEk i\u015flerle ancak ge\u00e7im sa\u011flayabilmektedir.
\nG\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e\u00a0evlilik \u201chayal\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\nAnnesini de kaybetmi\u015ftir.
\nArt\u0131k yapayaln\u0131zd\u0131r.
\n<\/strong>Sorgular ge\u00e7mi\u015fini.
\nSorgular\u00a0<\/strong>kendisini.<\/p>\n
\nCevab\u0131 olmayan sorular.
\nNart, iyice bunalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n<\/strong>Ac\u0131mas\u0131zl\u0131k olabildi\u011fince artm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\nDiploma i\u015fe yaramam\u0131\u015f,\u00a0sayg\u0131 ve sevgi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bulmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n<\/strong>Kendi k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnden bir k\u0131zla evlenememi\u015f bir yuva kuramam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n\u201cAh ke\u015fke!\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0dedi\u011fi k\u0131zlar, ne yaz\u0131k ki\u00a0imk\u00e2n\u0131 olan farkl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr sahibi ki\u015filerle<\/strong>\u00a0evlidir.<\/p>\n
\nMemleketi derk eder, gider!<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>\u201cDernek\u201d duymam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n\u201cThamade\u201d duymam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n<\/strong>\u201cSetenay\u201d duysa da ald\u0131rmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\nOnlar da \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir.
\n\u201cSiko\u015f, bu Nart, nas\u0131l Ad\u0131ge\u2019ymi\u015f?\u201d
\n<\/strong>\u201cWualihi yaz\u0131k, hem de \u00e7ok yaz\u0131k!\u201d
\n\u201cBir Ad\u0131ge ile evlenememi\u015f!\u201d
\n<\/strong>\u201cBaksana, memleketi terk etmi\u015f!\u201d<\/p>\n
\nBir yabanc\u0131yla evlenip\u00a0susmu\u015ftur.
\n<\/strong>Sonra kaybolmu\u015ftur!<\/p>\n