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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Dernekler bilirim; \u00fcretken, co\u015fkulu, halkla b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fmi\u015f, misyon ve vizyonunun<\/strong> bilincinde. \u201cNEXIJ\u201d HATA SARMALINDAYSA\u2026<\/strong> YORULMADINIZ MI?<\/strong> Y\u00d6NET\u0130C\u0130LER\u0130N \u0130\u015e\u0130 ZOR<\/strong> DERNEK Y\u00d6NET\u0130C\u0130L\u0130\u011e\u0130 ATE\u015eTEN G\u00d6MLEK <\/strong> \u0130\u015eTE SANA ASIL \u00c7IKMAZ SOKAK<\/strong> ALKI\u015eLAR S\u0130ZE<\/strong> SAYGI ve SEVG\u0130YLE TEMENN\u0130 <\/a>[1]<\/em><\/a>\u00a0NEXIJ:\u00a0Genellikle sayg\u0131n ki\u015fili\u011fi olan ya\u015fl\u0131 kimse.\u00a0<\/em> \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Dernekler bilirim; üretken, coşkulu, halkla bütünleşmiş, misyon ve vizyonunun bilincinde. Dernekler bilirim; ruhsuz, umutsuz, hata sarmalında tükenmiş, tabeladan ibaret… Üyeler tanırım; duyarlı, samimi, gayretli. Üyeler tanırım; kültürden uzak, bilinçten yoksun, yorgun, mutsuz, umutsuz, ruhsuz. Gençler bilirim; dinamik, coşkulu, ufuklu, her şeyin bilincinde. Yöneticiler tanırım; samimi, sabırlı, anlayışlı, birikimli, babacan. 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\nDernekler bilirim; ruhsuz, umutsuz, hata sarmal\u0131nda<\/strong> t\u00fckenmi\u015f, tabeladan ibaret\u2026
\n\u00dcyeler tan\u0131r\u0131m; duyarl\u0131, samimi, gayretli.
\n\u00dcyeler tan\u0131r\u0131m; k\u00fclt\u00fcrden uzak, bilin\u00e7ten yoksun, yorgun, mutsuz<\/strong>, umutsuz, ruhsuz.
\nGen\u00e7ler bilirim; dinamik, co\u015fkulu<\/strong>, ufuklu, her \u015feyin bilincinde.
\nY\u00f6neticiler tan\u0131r\u0131m; samimi, sab\u0131rl\u0131, anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131, birikimli, babacan.<\/strong>
\nY\u00f6neticiler tan\u0131r\u0131m; uyumsuz, ilgisiz, sevgisiz,\u00a0h\u0131r\u00e7\u0131n, tahamm\u00fcls\u00fcz<\/strong><\/p>\n
\nNex\u0131j[1] tan\u0131r\u0131m; bilgi, birikim, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ve tevazusuyla toplumuna model olan.<\/strong>
\nNex\u0131jlar tan\u0131r\u0131m; bak\u0131\u015f\u0131, duru\u015fu, sesi ve nefesiyle \u00e7evresine g\u00fcven veren.
\n\u00c7ok nex\u0131j tan\u0131d\u0131m; \u00f6nder, lider, tarih haf\u0131zas\u0131, k\u00fclt\u00fcr aynas\u0131\u2026<\/strong>
\nNex\u0131jlar tan\u0131d\u0131m; sevgi dolu, toplumunu s\u0131cac\u0131k kucaklayan, herkes\u00e7e say\u0131lan, sevilen\u2026
\nAma \u00f6yle nexjlar da tan\u0131r\u0131m ki insana, \u201cKe\u015fke tan\u0131masayd\u0131m!\u201d<\/strong> dedirten.
\nKendisini hep lider, thamade[2] sanan, koca bir \u00f6mr\u00fc \u015fi\u015fkin egosuyla<\/strong> hata sarmal\u0131nda t\u00fcketen.
\nSevgi ve samimiyetten uzak, bilgisiz, birikimsiz, mutsuz, huzursuz, haz\u0131ms\u0131z\u2026
\nYa\u015f\u0131ndan ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir \u00f6zelli\u011fi olmayan<\/strong> ama her zaman her \u015feye kar\u0131\u015fan, bulundu\u011fu her ortamda, \u201cHer \u015feyi en iyi ben bilirim, her konuda son karar\u0131 ben veririm!\u201d diyen hatta \u201cxabze\u201d yi ipotek alt\u0131na alacak<\/strong> kadar k\u00fcstah ve c\u00fcretk\u00e2r!<\/p>\n
\nHalk\u0131n k\u00fclt\u00fcr okulu say\u0131lan derne\u011fi dedikodu mek\u00e2n\u0131na<\/strong> \u00e7eviren, halka hizmet etmekle \u00f6m\u00fcr t\u00fcketen ki\u015filerin dedikodusuyla beslenenleredir s\u00f6z\u00fcm.
\nY\u0131llard\u0131r dedikodu yapmaktan yorulmad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<\/strong>
\nDernekten ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z o gen\u00e7leri her g\u00fcn biraz daha \u015feytanla\u015ft\u0131rmaktan yorulmad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<\/strong>
\nTopluma, k\u00fclt\u00fcre katk\u0131 sa\u011flayan t\u00fcm olumlu icraatlar\u0131 g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edip ki\u015fileri yerin dibine sokmaktan, ki\u015filik suikast\u0131 yapmaktan yorulmad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<\/strong>
\nGen\u00e7leri ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z, duyarl\u0131 \u00fcyeleri k\u00fcst\u00fcrd\u00fcn\u00fcz, topluma derne\u011fi terk ettirdiniz hala yorulmad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<\/strong>
\nS\u00f6yleyin Allah a\u015fk\u0131na siz, bu dedikodu ve iftiralarla bu yalan ve dolanlarla \u015feytan\u0131n avukatl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131<\/strong> yapmaktan ba\u015fka ne i\u015fe yar\u0131yorsunuz?
\nBitirdiniz derne\u011fi, k\u00fcst\u00fcrd\u00fcn\u00fcz herkesi<\/strong> ama h\u00e2l\u00e2 siz kendinizi bulunmaz Hint kuma\u015f\u0131<\/strong> san\u0131yorsunuz.
\nY\u0131llard\u0131r dernekte s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz her \u015fey, yeti\u015fkin bir gencin birka\u00e7 dakikada s\u00f6yleyip ge\u00e7ece\u011fi bilgi kadar bile de\u011ferli de\u011filken nedendir gen\u00e7lere d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z? <\/strong>
\nYeter, yeter, bir anlay\u0131n art\u0131k!
\nBitirdiniz derne\u011fi, t\u00fckettiniz umudu<\/strong>, kurakla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z ortam\u0131, yorulmad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131, usanmad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?
\n\u0130nan\u0131n halk yoruldu, b\u0131kt\u0131 usand\u0131 sizden, yeter art\u0131k, kenara \u00e7ekilin l\u00fctfen!<\/strong><\/p>\n
\nK\u00fclt\u00fcr ve sanat\u0131n g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e daha fazla de\u011fersizle\u015fti\u011fi, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fcklerin <\/strong>her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn biraz daha s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00fclkede dernek y\u00f6neticilerinin i\u015fi san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan da zor.
\nG\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde bu zora g\u00f6reve, bu bir\u00e7ok \u00e7\u0131kmaz soka\u011f\u0131 olan makama talip olmak cesaret ister, y\u00fcrek ister.<\/strong>
\nTalip olanlar\u0131 y\u00fcrekten kutlamak, her konuda y\u00f6neticilerin destek\u00e7isi olmak gerek.
\n\u00c7\u0131kmaz sokaklar\u0131n biri,<\/strong> \u00fcyelerin ekseriyetinin dernekte bir avu\u00e7 sevimsiz insan\u0131n kurgusuyla d\u00f6nen dolaplardan, ya\u015fanan pespayeliklerden b\u0131km\u0131\u015f, usanm\u0131\u015f<\/strong> olmas\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u00dcyeler huzursuz ve umutsuzsa, gen\u00e7lerin dernekle ili\u015fkisi kalmad\u0131ysa<\/strong> i\u015fte o zaman derneklerin dedikodu ekibine b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rev d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor.
\nO zaman liyakat g\u00f6z ard\u0131 ediliyor ve y\u00f6neticiler, ahbap-\u00e7avu\u015f ili\u015fkisi<\/strong>, \u201cBenim k\u00f6yl\u00fcm, senin akraban!\u201d basitli\u011fi ve k\u00f6r mant\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile se\u00e7iliyor. \u0130\u015fte o zaman at\u0131l\u0131yor ba\u015fl\u0131yor b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcmeye<\/strong> ilk ad\u0131mlar<\/p>\n
\n\u00dclke, \u00e7ok zor bir d\u00f6nemden ge\u00e7iyor, halk\u0131m\u0131z da bu zorluklardan fazlas\u0131yla nasibini al\u0131yor.
\nG\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde dernek y\u00f6neticili\u011fi, ate\u015ften g\u00f6mlek!
\nNereden bakarsak bakal\u0131m, b\u00f6l\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f, ayr\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f, kutupla\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir halkla<\/strong> b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar\u0131 a\u015fmak \u00e7ok emek, b\u00fcy\u00fck zahmet ve bir o kadar zaman ister.
\nTemennimiz; toplumu kucaklayabilecek, derne\u011fe, k\u00fclt\u00fcre, topluma zaman ay\u0131rabilecek<\/strong>, samimi, egolar\u0131ndan ar\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, ileti\u015fim ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131<\/strong> \u00f6nemseyen,<\/strong> uyumlu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilecek ekiplerin olu\u015fmas\u0131.
\nBu k\u00f6kl\u00fc k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn ya\u015fat\u0131lmas\u0131 gayretiyle\u00a0fedak\u00e2rca<\/strong> n\u00f6bet tutan k\u00fclt\u00fcr sevdal\u0131s\u0131 de\u011ferli ba\u015fkan ve y\u00f6netim kurulu \u00fcyeleri alk\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00e7oktan hak ediyor.<\/p>\n
\nSe\u00e7im d\u00f6nemidir, bedeni yorulan, g\u00f6nl\u00fc yorulan ama egosu diri, dedikodu yetene\u011fi canl\u0131<\/strong> kalan kesim, yine t\u00fcm g\u00fc\u00e7leriyle \u00f6rerler yeni a\u011flar\u0131n\u0131.
\nY\u00f6netimi olu\u015fturma \u00e7abas\u0131yla yine b\u00f6lerler toplumu, yine k\u00fcst\u00fcr\u00fcrler bir kesimi.
\nPeki, kimdir bunlar?
\nBunlar, g\u00fcncelden uzak, \u00e7a\u011fdan kopuk<\/strong>, beden ve ruhlar\u0131 ezberlerine ve \u015fi\u015fkin egolar\u0131na dola\u015fm\u0131\u015f, adeta derne\u011fin gelece\u011fini teslim alm\u0131\u015f, din ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr baronu k\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131<\/strong> bir avu\u00e7 insan\u2026
\nBu cinnet durumuna m\u00fcdahale edilemez, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc duyarl\u0131 \u00fcye say\u0131s\u0131 azalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, \u00fcyeler yorgundur, t\u00fckenmi\u015ftir, \u201cBana ne!\u201d duygusu artm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u2026
\nKimi, olup biteni hazmedememi\u015f, k\u0131zm\u0131\u015f, k\u00fcsm\u00fc\u015f, dernekten kopmu\u015f<\/strong>, uzakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u2026
\nKimi, \u201cBana ne!\u201d<\/strong> demi\u015f, k\u00f6\u015fesine \u00e7ekilmi\u015f olup biteni seyretmektedir.<\/p>\n
\n\u0130\u015fte bu duruma d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f bir derne\u011fin y\u00f6netimine talip olan ekibi\/ ekipleri<\/strong> alk\u0131\u015flamak gerekmez mi?
\nBiz de alk\u0131\u015flayal\u0131m ve i\u015fba\u015f\u0131na gelen ekibin acil olarak<\/strong> yapmas\u0131 gereken ilk icraat\u0131n, bu bir avu\u00e7 \u015fer g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc etkisiz hale getirmek, ba\u015fta gen\u00e7ler olmak \u00fczere k\u00fcsk\u00fcnleri, k\u0131rg\u0131nlar\u0131, ayr\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan, kutupla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan<\/strong> kesimi toparlamak oldu\u011funu \u00f6nemle hat\u0131rlatal\u0131m.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Bilgisi, birikimi, sevgisi ve samimiyetiyle toplumunun birliktelik ve uyumu i\u00e7in \u00e7aba harcayan sayg\u0131de\u011fer nex\u0131jlar\u0131m\u0131za,\u00a0de\u011ferli thamadelerimize sayg\u0131lar\u0131mla\u2026
\n<\/strong>\u0130yi ki vars\u0131n\u0131z!<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131, genci, kad\u0131n\u0131, erke\u011fi,\u00a0xabzesi, thamadesiyle<\/strong>\u00a0hep birlikte\u00a0tarihine, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne, diline<\/strong>\u00a0ve kimli\u011fine sahip \u00e7\u0131kabilen bir toplum olabilme temennisiyle.<\/p>\n
\n<\/a>[2]<\/em><\/a>\u00a0THAMADE: Belirli bir g\u00f6revi yerine getirmek \u00fczere belirli bir misyon ve stat\u00fc ile se\u00e7ilerek<\/em> g\u00f6revlendirilmi\u015f ki\u015fi.<\/em><\/p>\n