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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Ya\u015farken k\u0131ymetini bilmedi\u011fimiz, \u00f6l\u00fcnce yere g\u00f6\u011fe s\u0131\u011fd\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z<\/strong> nice de\u011ferli insan\u0131m\u0131z var bizim. CENAZEDE TANI\u015eMAK<\/strong> \u00d6L\u00dcLER\u0130M\u0130Z D\u0130R\u0130LER\u0130M\u0130ZDEN DAHA MI KIYMETL\u0130?<\/strong> KEND\u0130 \u0130NSANINA DE\u011eER VERM\u0130YORSAN\u2026<\/strong> \u201c\u00c7ERKESLER DE\u011eERLER\u0130N\u0130N KIYMET\u0130N\u0130 \u0130Y\u0130 B\u0130L\u0130YOR\u201d<\/strong> YAMAN \u00c7EL\u0130\u015eK\u0130<\/strong> EN G\u00dcZEL S\u00d6ZLER\u0130 \u00d6L\u00dcNCE S\u00d6YLEMEK<\/strong> KIYMET B\u0130LMEK KEND\u0130N\u0130 B\u0130LMEKT\u0130R<\/strong> YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Yaşarken kıymetini bilmediğimiz, ölünce yere göğe sığdıramadığımız nice değerli insanımız var bizim. Şu son dönemde pek çok değerli insan aramızdan göçüp gitti. Birçok insanın da ölüm yıl dönümleri nedeniyle acılar tazelendi, taziyeler yenilendi. Ölüm yıldönümü nedeniyle sosyal medyada paylaşılan mesajları okudum, insanların tutumlarını izledim, üzüldüm. Bir insanı kaybettikten sonra kıymet bilmenin, yokluğunda 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\n\u015eu son d\u00f6nemde pek \u00e7ok de\u011ferli insan aram\u0131zdan g\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcp gitti.
\nBir\u00e7ok insan\u0131n da \u00f6l\u00fcm y\u0131l d\u00f6n\u00fcmleri<\/strong> nedeniyle ac\u0131lar tazelendi, taziyeler yenilendi.
\n\u00d6l\u00fcm y\u0131ld\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fc nedeniyle sosyal medyada payla\u015f\u0131lan mesajlar\u0131 okudum<\/strong>, insanlar\u0131n tutumlar\u0131n\u0131 izledim, \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm.
\nBir insan\u0131 kaybettikten sonra k\u0131ymet bilmenin, yoklu\u011funda<\/strong> de\u011ferli oldu\u011funu anlatmaya kalkman\u0131n ne kadar faydas\u0131z ne kadar yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu bir kez daha derinden hissettim. <\/strong>
\nBilmem ki bir insan\u0131n de\u011ferini anlamak i\u00e7in o insan\u0131n \u00f6lmesi mi gerekiyor?<\/p>\n
\nToplumu, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc i\u00e7in ya\u015fayanlar\u0131, kab\u0131na s\u0131\u011fmayan aksiyoner dava adamlar\u0131n\u0131, t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00f6zellik ve g\u00fczellikleriyle model insanlar\u0131<\/strong>n de\u011ferini bilmeden onlar\u0131 kaybediyoruz.
\n\u00c7o\u011fumuzun ya\u015farken \u00e7ok da iyi tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu de\u011ferli ki\u015filerin bu ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc meziyetlerini<\/strong>, dolu dolu, reng\u00e2renk hayatlar\u0131n\u0131, eserlerini, birikimlerini \u00f6len ki\u015finin cenazesinde \u00f6\u011freniyoruz.<\/strong>
\nYani bu \u00f6nemli \u015fahsiyetlerle adeta \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra cenazelerinde tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz.
\nSonra da neleri kaybetti\u011fimizi anlay\u0131p kendimizi affettirircesine<\/strong> sosyal medyadan g\u00fczellemeler yap\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n
\nToplum olarak \u00f6l\u00fclerimize sayg\u0131da, cenazelere kat\u0131l\u0131mda \u00e7ok iyiyiz.
\nYa dirilerimizin k\u0131ymetini bilmede neden bu kadar ihmaliz?
\nCenazeyi bu kadar ciddiye alan, \u00f6l\u00fcs\u00fcne b\u00f6ylesine sayg\u0131 duyan<\/strong>, de\u011fer veren, g\u00f6renleri hayrete d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrecek kadar sistematik bir protokolle<\/strong> y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fclen cenaze t\u00f6reni, bizim d\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda ka\u00e7 ulusta var acaba?
\nHer karesinde insani de\u011fer, birlikte ya\u015fama bilinci bulunan, sayg\u0131 ve vefa dolu<\/strong> bu g\u00fczel gelene\u011fimizle ne kadar \u00f6v\u00fcnsek azd\u0131r.
\n\u0130nsan\u0131 bu kadar ciddiye alan, hassas kurallar\u0131yla g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze kadar ta\u015f\u0131nan bu emsalsiz toplumsal kurallara uygar d\u00fcnya<\/strong> sahiplense yeridir.
\nEvet, \u00f6l\u00fclere sayg\u0131da, cenazede birinci ligdeyiz<\/strong> ya dirilerimizin k\u0131ymetini bilmede?
\nYa ya\u015farken onlardan toplumumuz ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz ad\u0131na istifade etmede?<\/p>\n
\n\u201cYok can\u0131m, biz insan\u0131m\u0131za gere\u011fi kadar de\u011fer veriyoruz, abartmamak gerek!\u201d diyenler mutlaka olacakt\u0131r. Ke\u015fke onlar hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131ksa!
\nAsl\u0131nda \u201cKim hakl\u0131?\u201d n\u0131n sa\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 yapmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.
\nToplumunu temsil konumunda bulunan ki\u015filere bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z nas\u0131l, tarafs\u0131z g\u00f6zle bir bakal\u0131m.
\nG\u00f6rev yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 alanda herkesin el pen\u00e7e divan durdu\u011fu<\/strong> insanlar\u0131m\u0131za bak\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z, tavr\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irelim.
\nYa di\u015fiyle, t\u0131rna\u011f\u0131yla, al\u0131n teriyle \u00e7ok \u00f6zel konumlara gelen<\/strong>, toplumunun adeta dinamosu olan \u015fahsiyetlere deste\u011fimiz, onlarla ili\u015fkimiz?
\nDe\u011ferlerimize ne kadar de\u011fer veriyoruz?<\/p>\n
\nBu konuda bana kat\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z bilmem ama i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, bizi d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan izleyenler<\/strong> \u00c7erkesler kadar biri birine destek veren, biri birinin k\u0131ymetini bilen ba\u015fka bir toplumun varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmiyor.
\n\u0130nsana de\u011fer verme, kadir k\u0131ymet bilme denilince<\/strong> \u00c7erkes toplumu ak\u0131llar\u0131na geliyor.
\nGer\u00e7e\u011fin b\u00f6yle oldu\u011funa ben de inanmak isterim.<\/p>\n
\nEn k\u0131ymetli varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, yeti\u015fmi\u015f insan oldu\u011fu bir d\u00fcnyada, \u201carmudun sap\u0131, \u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00e7\u00f6p\u00fc\u201d<\/strong> diyerek insanlar\u0131 de\u011fersizle\u015ftirmek, ya\u015farken insan\u0131n de\u011ferini bilmemek, onun k\u0131ymetini ancak \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra anlamak \u00e7ok yaman bir \u00e7eli\u015fki<\/strong> de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n
\n\u00d6l\u00fcm, \u015f\u00fcphesiz hepimiz i\u00e7in ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz bir son.
\nO halde do\u011fru olan, insan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n de\u011ferini \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden \u00f6nce bilmek<\/strong>, bu de\u011ferlerden gere\u011fi gibi yararlanmakt\u0131r.
\nS\u00f6ylenmedik en g\u00fczel s\u00f6zleri<\/strong> \u00f6l\u00fcmden sonraya saklamamakt\u0131r.
\nYap\u0131lan g\u00fczel i\u015flerin takdirini<\/strong> insan\u0131n vefat\u0131na b\u0131rakmamakt\u0131r.
\n\u0130nsan\u0131n kalitesini tescillemek<\/strong> i\u00e7in \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc beklememektir.
\nDe\u011fil mi ki bazen d\u00fc\u015fman bile \u00f6l\u00fcnce dost oluyor!<\/p>\n
\nS\u0131k kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fu s\u00f6z, sizce de \u00e7ok manidar de\u011fil mi?
\n\u201cK\u0131ymet bilmek, kaybedince arkas\u0131ndan a\u011flamak<\/strong> de\u011fil, yan\u0131ndayken s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131lmakt\u0131r!\u201d <\/strong>
\nUnutmayal\u0131m, insan\u0131n de\u011fer bilmesi, kendini bilmesi demektir!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"