{"id":41539,"date":"2024-10-14T15:41:26","date_gmt":"2024-10-14T20:41:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=41539"},"modified":"2025-03-10T15:08:56","modified_gmt":"2025-03-10T20:08:56","slug":"geldi-gecti-omrum-benim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/geldi-gecti-omrum-benim\/","title":{"rendered":"GELD\u0130 GE\u00c7T\u0130 \u00d6MR\u00dcM BEN\u0130M -1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41541\" src=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/GELDI-GECTI-OMRUM-BENIM-a.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"571\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/GELDI-GECTI-OMRUM-BENIM-a.png 571w, https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/GELDI-GECTI-OMRUM-BENIM-a-300x158.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 571px) 100vw, 571px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><label class=\"selectit\">KITIJ Cemil Bi\u00e7er<\/label><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hayatlar\u0131ndaki her g\u00fcn\u00fc, her olay\u0131 en ince ayr\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131na kadar hat\u0131rlayan ve asla unutmayan \u201cfarkl\u0131\u201d insanlar vard\u0131r. T\u0131p literat\u00fcr\u00fcnde buna unutmama hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 (Hipertimezi) denir. San\u0131r\u0131m ben bir &#8220;hipertimezi&#8221; hastas\u0131y\u0131m. Baz\u0131 dostlar\u0131m\u0131n &#8220;Ulan, sende amma sinamekiymi\u015fsin&#8221; dediklerini duyar gibiyim. Evet, &#8220;eksantrik&#8221; bir biyolojim oldu\u011fu do\u011frudur. Elalem verem olur, tifo olur, nezle olur, prostat olur\u2026 Her t\u00fcrl\u00fc &#8220;angil-dingil&#8221; t\u0131bbi hastal\u0131k da gelir beni bulur. Hakk\u0131mda b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeleri son derece do\u011fal, ama ben bu konuda bir &#8220;\u00f6zellik&#8221; arz etmiyorum. \u00c7evremizdeki bir\u00e7ok insan da benim ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m rahats\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 -belki benimkinden de a\u011f\u0131r- ya\u015f\u0131yor ama bunlar\u0131 gizliyor, sakl\u0131yor. Sosyal \u00e7evresi taraf\u0131ndan bilinmesinden korktu\u011fu i\u00e7in bu hastal\u0131klar\u0131yla y\u00fczle\u015fmiyorlar.<\/p>\n<p>Ben \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumda ileri derecede artik\u00fclasyon bozuklu\u011fu ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Artik\u00fclasyon bozuklu\u011fu, ki\u015finin konu\u015fma seslerini yanl\u0131\u015f veya eksik \u00fcretmesi anlam\u0131na gelmektedir. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumun en g\u00fczel y\u0131llar\u0131, \u00e7evremdeki insanlar\u0131n konu\u015fmalar\u0131mdaki &#8220;R&#8221; ve &#8220;\u015e&#8221; sesini do\u011fru s\u00f6yletmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ile heder olmu\u015ftur. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bu travmay\u0131, \u00f6\u011frencilerimin ya\u015famamas\u0131 i\u00e7in azami gayreti sarf etmi\u015fimdir. &#8220;Sestelim&#8221; bozuklu\u011fu olan \u00f6\u011frencilerimin velileriyle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp t\u0131bbi yard\u0131m almalar\u0131 konusunda rehberlik ettim t\u00fcm meslek ya\u015fam\u0131m boyunca. Bu t\u00fcr sorunlar ya\u015fayan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa ailesi taraf\u0131ndan m\u00fcdahale edilmemesi, d\u00fczeltmeler yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 ve sosyal \u00e7evresi taraf\u0131ndan kesinlikle alaya al\u0131nmamas\u0131 gerekir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu durum, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendi iste\u011fiyle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. M\u00fcdahaleler \u00e7ocu\u011fun psikolojisini olumsuz etkileyebilir. Bunun yerine acilen bir uzman deste\u011fi al\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Lise ve \u00fcniversite y\u0131llar\u0131mda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m siyasal olaylar, g\u00f6zalt\u0131lar, i\u015fkenceler, darac\u0131k, karanl\u0131k tabutluklarda g\u00fcnlerce a\u00e7 susuz tutulmalar, bende OKB (Obsesif Kompulsif Bozukluk) hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131na yol a\u00e7t\u0131. Obsesif Kompulsif Bozukluk; mant\u0131ks\u0131z d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin ve korkular\u0131n (tak\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n) insan\u0131 s\u00fcrekli tekrar eden davran\u0131\u015flar sergilemeye zorlayan psikolojik bir hastal\u0131kt\u0131r. \u0130lk kez bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131m, u\u00e7ak yolculu\u011funda \u0130stanbul&#8217;dan Samsun&#8217;a gelirken n\u00fcksetti. Havaland\u0131ktan k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre sonra u\u00e7a\u011f\u0131 zorla kavga-d\u00f6v\u00fc\u015f kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131 alana geri indirdim. Olay\u0131 bir yaz\u0131mda anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, okuyan dostlar\u0131m an\u0131msayacaklard\u0131r. Sonralar\u0131 g\u00fcnlerce evden d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131kamamalar, \u00f6l\u00fcm korkular\u0131&#8230; Ger\u00e7ekten zor y\u0131llard\u0131\u2026 Tak\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n mant\u0131ks\u0131z oldu\u011funun fark\u0131na varabilirsiniz ve bu tak\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 \u00f6nemsememeye ya da b\u0131rakmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz. Ama ya\u015fam kalitesini \u00e7ok derinden olumsuz etkileyen bir hastal\u0131kt\u0131r. Uzun s\u00fcreli psikolojik tedavi sonucu kurtulmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bence t\u00fcm bu hastal\u0131klardan daha \u00f6nemli olan bir \u015fey vard\u0131r: Ad\u0131na A\u015eK diyorlar. &#8220;Hastal\u0131k&#8221; dememek i\u00e7in &#8220;\u015fey&#8221; olarak ge\u00e7tim. Bilmem ki &#8220;a\u015fk&#8221; kelimesinin yerini hangi s\u00f6zc\u00fck kar\u015f\u0131lar&#8230; Ne hipertimezi hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131, ne artik\u00fclasyon bozuklu\u011fu, ne OKB (Obsesif Kompulsif Bozukluk) sahibi olmam, hi\u00e7biri \u00e7ocukluk ve ilk gen\u00e7lik y\u0131llar\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m &#8220;A\u015eK&#8221; kadar etkilememi\u015ftir beni. T\u00fcm bu sorunlar\u0131mdan ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc \u00e7abalar\u0131mla ve t\u0131bbi destek alarak bir \u015fekilde kurtuldum. Ama k\u0131rk y\u0131l\u0131 a\u015fk\u0131n bir zaman ge\u00e7mesine ra\u011fmen bu a\u015fk derdinden (!) kurtulamad\u0131m. Benim \u015fans\u0131m, hastal\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 tan\u0131mam ve onlarla birlikte ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7abalamam olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7evrenizde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz \u00e7o\u011fu insan -belki de sizler- bu hastal\u0131klardan birine veya birka\u00e7\u0131na sahipsinizdir. B\u0131rak\u0131n e\u015fe dosta, hatta doktorunuza s\u00f6ylemeyi, belki de kendinizden bile gizliyorsunuz hastal\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131. Derdini s\u00f6ylemeyen, derman\u0131n\u0131 bulamaz&#8230;! Allah dert verip derman aratmas\u0131n dostlar\u0131m&#8230;!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>KITIJ Cemil Bi&ccedil;er Hayatlar&#305;ndaki her g&uuml;n&uuml;, her olay&#305; en ince ayr&#305;nt&#305;s&#305;na kadar hat&#305;rlayan ve asla unutmayan &ldquo;farkl&#305;&rdquo; insanlar vard&#305;r. T&#305;p literat&uuml;r&uuml;nde buna unutmama hastal&#305;&#287;&#305; (Hipertimezi) denir. San&#305;r&#305;m ben bir &ldquo;hipertimezi&rdquo; hastas&#305;y&#305;m. Baz&#305; dostlar&#305;m&#305;n &ldquo;Ulan, sende amma sinamekiymi&#351;sin&rdquo; dediklerini duyar gibiyim. Evet, &ldquo;eksantrik&rdquo; bir biyolojim oldu&#287;u do&#287;rudur. Elalem verem olur, tifo olur, nezle olur, prostat olur&hellip; 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