{"id":43840,"date":"2025-03-03T12:55:36","date_gmt":"2025-03-03T18:55:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=43840"},"modified":"2025-03-03T12:55:36","modified_gmt":"2025-03-03T18:55:36","slug":"hasbi-dayim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/hasbi-dayim\/","title":{"rendered":"HASB\u0130 DAYIM"},"content":{"rendered":"

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KITIJ Cemil Bi\u00e7er<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dedemin tek erkek \u00e7ocu\u011fuydu Hasbi day\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Bebekli\u011finden itibaren el bebek, g\u00fcl bebek b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f; d\u00fc\u015fmeden e\u011filmemi\u015fti. Giyimi, ku\u015fam\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla tipik bir \u00c7erkes mirasyedi mahdumuydu… Bek\u00e2rd\u0131, hi\u00e7 evlenmemi\u015fti.<\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7li\u011fini d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne, ka\u015fen-\u015fe\u015fen sarkac\u0131nda ge\u00e7irmi\u015f ve dedemin hat\u0131r\u0131 say\u0131l\u0131r servetini bu yolda “ezmi\u015f”, nev’i \u015fahs\u0131na m\u00fcnhas\u0131r bir yi\u011fit adamd\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ar\u015famba’da ve k\u00f6ylerinde hat\u0131r sahibi, s\u00f6z\u00fc dinlenir, selam\u0131 banka kredisinden daha sa\u011flam say\u0131lan bir mirasyediydi.<\/p>\n

Koca bir serveti yemi\u015f, \u015fimdi yoksul duruma d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f ama h\u00e2l\u00e2 kuyru\u011fu dik tutar, kimseye eyvallah etmezdi. \u0130l\u00e7enin pazar kurulan \u00c7ar\u015famba g\u00fcnlerini hi\u00e7 aksatmazd\u0131.
\nElinde kalan tek serveti, can yolda\u015f\u0131 Kabardey at\u0131n\u0131 t\u0131mar eder, babadan miras g\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f i\u015flemeli ko\u015fumlar\u0131yla donat\u0131rd\u0131.
\nAnneme bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nceden \u00fct\u00fcletti\u011fi haki renkli “k\u00fclot” pantolonunu, lacivert ceketini, yele\u011fini ve kolal\u0131 beyaz g\u00f6mle\u011fini giyerdi.
\nK\u00f6r\u00fckl\u00fc \u00e7\u00f6r\u00e7il aya\u011f\u0131na ge\u00e7irir, ak\u015famdan k\u00f6zde yakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ak\u0131ldak f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n ya\u011f\u0131 ile boyad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kaytan b\u0131y\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, arkas\u0131nda horoz resmi bulunan cep aynas\u0131nda d\u00fczeltirdi.
\n“Kokulu Ka\u015fif” nam\u0131 ile maruf esans\u00e7\u0131dan al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f hac\u0131 ya\u011f\u0131 parf\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00fcrer, Serkisof marka (bozuk ve tamiri nam\u00fcmk\u00fcn) g\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f k\u00f6stekli cep saatini yele\u011finin cebine ili\u015ftirir, avlunun ortas\u0131ndaki binek ta\u015f\u0131na basarak at\u0131na binerdi. Bir heykel gibi dik ve ma\u011frur il\u00e7eye yollan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu haz\u0131rlanmalar ve kasaba yolculuklar\u0131, \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne kadar y\u0131llarca ayn\u0131 \u00f6zen ve titizlikle devam etti.<\/p>\n

Nereye gider, kimlerle oturur, hep merak etmi\u015fimdir. Anneanneme sorard\u0131m \u00e7ekinerek:
\n“Day\u0131m nereye gidiyor her \u00c7ar\u015famba, nenej?”<\/p>\n

Ve her seferinde nenejim ayn\u0131 \u00f6fkeli tav\u0131rla:
\n“Cehennemin dibine!” derdi.<\/p>\n

Cehennem, \u00e7ocuk belle\u011fimde s\u00fcslenip gezilecek bir mek\u00e2n olarak kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Y\u0131llar sonra, kom\u015fu \u00c7erkes k\u00f6ylerinden Emiryusuf’a bir cenazeye arabamla giderken yolda durmam i\u00e7in el kald\u0131ran bir ya\u015fl\u0131 amcay\u0131 ald\u0131m.
\nSelam, aleyk\u00fcm selam fasl\u0131ndan sonra ya\u015fl\u0131 amca:<\/p>\n

“Hangi k\u00f6ydensin, ye\u011fenim?” diye sordu.<\/p>\n

“K\u0131z\u0131lot k\u00f6y\u00fcndenim.” deyince:<\/p>\n

“Hasbi A\u011fa’n\u0131n k\u00f6y\u00fc! Tan\u0131r m\u0131yd\u0131n Hasbi A\u011fa’y\u0131?” diye sordu.<\/p>\n

“Day\u0131md\u0131r.” dedim.<\/p>\n

“Allah rahmet eylesin, b\u00fcy\u00fck adamd\u0131. \u00c7ok ekme\u011fini yedim, \u00e7ok \u00e7ay\u0131n\u0131 kahvesini i\u00e7tim.” dedi.<\/p>\n

“Her \u00c7ar\u015famba uzun \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131daki beyler k\u0131raathanesine gelirdi.” deyince, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumdaki nenejimin “Cehennemin dibi” s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc an\u0131msad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocukluk merak\u0131m\u0131 giderecek ki\u015fiyi y\u0131llar sonra bulmu\u015ftum. Araban\u0131n vitesini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltt\u00fcm, amac\u0131m yol arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131 konu\u015fturup day\u0131m\u0131n \u00c7ar\u015famba yolculuklar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda bilgi edinmekti.<\/p>\n

“Nas\u0131l yani, tan\u0131r m\u0131yd\u0131n day\u0131m\u0131?” diye sordum.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 adam derin bir nefes al\u0131p anlatmaya ba\u015flad\u0131:<\/p>\n

“Tan\u0131mayan var m\u0131 ki Adige Hasbi A\u011fa’y\u0131 bu ovada? Ruhuna rahmet, \u00e7ok ad\u0131 gibi hasbi bir adamd\u0131. Ekmekliydi, verdi\u011fini doyurur, vurdu\u011funu da \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc. Mertti, s\u00f6z\u00fc senetti, bir muteberdi.” dedi, derin bir i\u00e7 \u00e7ekerek.<\/p>\n

Ben cenazeye varmadan, \u00c7ar\u015famba ziyaretlerini \u00f6\u011frenmenin acelesiyle:<\/p>\n

“Her \u00c7ar\u015famba \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131ya giderdi s\u00fcslenip…” diyecek oldum ama duymad\u0131 bile, anlatmaya devam etti.<\/p>\n

“\u00c7ok zengindi, koca bir serveti yedi ama har vurup harman savurmad\u0131 di\u011fer \u00c7erkes mirasyedileri gibi. Kap\u0131s\u0131na kim gittiyse bo\u015f d\u00f6nmemi\u015ftir, h\u00fck\u00fcmet gibiydi rahmetli.” diye devam etti.<\/p>\n

Bu \u00f6vg\u00fcler benim merak\u0131m\u0131n cevab\u0131 de\u011fildi. \u0130\u00e7imden:<\/p>\n

“Ge\u00e7 bunlar\u0131, hac\u0131 day\u0131, ge\u00e7! Sadede gel.” diyordum ama amca beni hi\u00e7 umursam\u0131yordu. Anlatmaya devam etti:<\/p>\n

“Her \u00c7ar\u015famba giyinir, ku\u015fan\u0131r, dillere destan Kabardey at\u0131yla \u00c7ar\u015famba’ya gelir, Hanc\u0131 Osman’\u0131n han\u0131na at\u0131n\u0131 teslim ederdi. Suyunun, arpas\u0131n\u0131n ve han masraf\u0131n\u0131 bah\u015fi\u015fiyle pe\u015finen \u00f6derdi. Oradan berbere gider, sinek kayd\u0131 t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131n\u0131 olurdu. (H\u00e2lbuki ak\u015famdan muhakkak sakal t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131 olurdu.) D\u00fckk\u00e2nda t\u0131ra\u015f olmak i\u00e7in s\u0131ra bekleyenlerin de t\u0131ra\u015f paras\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6der, berber \u00e7\u0131ra\u011f\u0131na da y\u00fckl\u00fc bir bah\u015fi\u015f b\u0131rak\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Sonra belediye meydan\u0131ndan Be\u015fik Pazar\u0131’na do\u011fru vakur ad\u0131mlarla y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fcp \u015fehir kul\u00fcb\u00fcne giderdi…”<\/p>\n

Olay\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc bozmamak i\u00e7in sessizce dinlemeyi s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyordum. Nas\u0131l olsa i\u015fin sonunda t\u00fcm \u00e7ocukluk merak\u0131m olan “cehennemin dibi”ni \u00f6\u011frenecektim.<\/p>\n

“\u015eehir kul\u00fcb\u00fc dedi\u011fin yer \u00f6yle herkesin girebildi\u011fi bir yer de\u011fil… H\u00fck\u00fcmet erk\u00e2n\u0131, \u00c7erkes, G\u00fcrc\u00fc ve birka\u00e7 tane de T\u00fcrk a\u011fan\u0131n ancak sualsiz girebildi\u011fi bir yer.<\/p>\n

Hasbi A\u011fa bu kul\u00fcb\u00fcn el \u00fcst\u00fcnde tutulan m\u00fcdavimlerindendi. Eli bol, sofras\u0131 zengindi. Bulundu\u011fu masada kimse elini cebine atmaz, atamazd\u0131. Hasbi A\u011fa, masas\u0131nda hesap \u00f6denmesini hakaret sayard\u0131. Garsonlar da haftal\u0131klar\u0131ndan \u00e7ok bah\u015fi\u015f ald\u0131klar\u0131ndan Hasbi A\u011fa’n\u0131n masas\u0131n\u0131n etraf\u0131nda pervane olurlard\u0131…<\/p>\n

\u0130kindi sonras\u0131 Hasbi A\u011fa \u015fehir kul\u00fcb\u00fcnden \u00e7\u0131kar, uzun \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131daki k\u0131raathaneye gelir, kendisini davet edenlerin hi\u00e7birinin masas\u0131na oturmaz, bo\u015f bir masaya ge\u00e7er, Emirhan suyu ile \u015fekersiz kahvesini i\u00e7erdi…<\/p>\n

Yine vakur, a\u011f\u0131r bir edayla han\u0131n yolunu tutard\u0131.”<\/p>\n

Cenaze evine gelmi\u015ftik. Day\u0131m\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131na dair merak etti\u011fim \u015feylerin bir\u00e7o\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015ftim…<\/p>\n

Umar\u0131m bir ba\u015fka cenazede alaca\u011f\u0131m yol arkada\u015f\u0131mdan da kalanlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenirim.<\/p>\n

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KITIJ Cemil Biçer Dedemin tek erkek çocuğuydu Hasbi dayım. Bebekliğinden itibaren el bebek, gül bebek büyütülmüş; düşmeden eğilmemişti. Giyimi, kuşamı, davranışlarıyla tipik bir Çerkes mirasyedi mahdumuydu… Bekârdı, hiç evlenmemişti. Gençliğini düğünden düğüne, kaşen-şeşen sarkacında geçirmiş ve dedemin hatırı sayılır servetini bu yolda “ezmiş”, nev’i şahsına münhasır bir yiğit adamdı. 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