{"id":47151,"date":"2025-06-30T13:55:46","date_gmt":"2025-06-30T18:55:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=47151"},"modified":"2025-07-05T11:31:29","modified_gmt":"2025-07-05T16:31:29","slug":"bu-thamadeye-kim-dur-diyecek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/bu-thamadeye-kim-dur-diyecek\/","title":{"rendered":"BU \u201cTHAMADE\u201dYE K\u0130M DUR D\u0130YECEK?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-47265\" src=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/BU-THAMADE-YE-KIM-DUR-DIYECEK-b.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"571\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/BU-THAMADE-YE-KIM-DUR-DIYECEK-b.png 571w, https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/BU-THAMADE-YE-KIM-DUR-DIYECEK-b-300x158.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 571px) 100vw, 571px\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>CC Notu:<\/strong> De\u011ferli Nevzat Bey, daha \u00f6nceden bu makalesini bize yollam\u0131\u015ft\u0131, ricam\u0131z\u0131 k\u0131rmam\u0131\u015f yay\u0131nlamamak konusundaki iste\u011fimizi yerine getirmi\u015fti. Yaln\u0131z bu g\u00fcn Thamade Necdet Hatam&#8217;\u0131n bu konuya ili\u015fkin g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi makale nedeniyle Nevzat beyin makakesini tarafs\u0131zl\u0131k prensiplerimiz nedeniyle yay\u0131nl\u0131yoruz&#8230;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn, <strong>torunu ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir k\u0131z\u0131<\/strong>, bir k\u00fclt\u00fcrel yaz\u0131daki duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinden dolay\u0131 insafs\u0131zca <strong>h\u0131rpalamas\u0131\u00a0<\/strong>\u00e7ok \u00fczd\u00fc beni.<br \/>\nBilmem ki\u00a0<strong>thamade <\/strong>konumundaki bir insan,\u00a0<strong>gencecik bir k\u0131z\u0131<\/strong>m\u0131z\u0131 sosyal medyada bu denli\u00a0<strong>nas\u0131l azarlar<\/strong>, bu kadar nas\u0131l h\u0131rpalar?<br \/>\nBu ilk de\u011fil, son da olmayacak, bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k oldu bu!<br \/>\nPeki, hakarete u\u011frayan bu k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131za kim sahip \u00e7\u0131kacak?<br \/>\nYoksa k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z, <strong>\u201cBana yak\u0131\u015fan susmak, thamadeye yak\u0131\u015fan hakaret etmek!\u201d <\/strong>diyerek k\u00f6\u015fesine mi \u00e7ekilecek?<br \/>\nBu kadar hakareti yiyip sus pus olup oturmak\u00a0xabzenin gere\u011fi olamaz de\u011fil mi?<br \/>\n<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>YETER ARTIK, BU HUYUNUZDAN VAZGE\u00c7\u0130N!<\/strong><br \/>\nYeter art\u0131k, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel duyarl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in <strong>tebrik edilmesi gereken gen\u00e7leri<\/strong> a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama huyunuzdan vazge\u00e7in l\u00fctfen!<br \/>\nB\u0131kt\u0131k art\u0131k! Merak ediyorum, olaydan haberdar olan halk\u0131m\u0131z, gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131za <strong>sahip \u00e7\u0131kacak m\u0131?<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>NEREDES\u0130N EY \u00dcSLUP<br \/>\n<\/strong>Ey thamade, bu ne hal, bu ne \u00fcslup?<br \/>\nNeden torununuz ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bu\u00a0<strong>k\u00fclt\u00fcr sevdal\u0131s\u0131 gencecik k\u0131z\u0131<\/strong>\u00a0bu kadar h\u0131rpalars\u0131n\u0131z?<br \/>\nBu k\u0131z, sadece duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini aktarm\u0131\u015f yaz\u0131s\u0131nda. \u0130fadelerinde\u00a0<strong>yanl\u0131\u015f da eksik de olabilir.<br \/>\n<\/strong>\u201cK\u0131z\u0131m, burada bu yanl\u0131\u015f, \u015furada bu eksik!\u201d demek yerine, neden bir gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131 <strong>k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnden so\u011futacak thamade kavram\u0131na k\u00fcst\u00fcrecek<\/strong> h\u00e2le getiriyorsunuz?<br \/>\nBu nas\u0131l bir ruh hali, bu <strong>nas\u0131l bir ego? <\/strong><br \/>\nPes do\u011frusu!<\/p>\n<p>Ey thamade, siz, hangi ara bu kadar\u00a0<strong>asabi bir ki\u015fili\u011fe\u00a0<\/strong>d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcn\u00fcz?<br \/>\n<strong>Sizin k\u0131r\u0131p d\u00f6kmedi\u011finiz insan kalmad\u0131 sanki!<\/strong><br \/>\nSiz ya ba\u011fc\u0131y\u0131 d\u00f6v\u00fcyorsunuz ya da <strong>herkesi k\u00f6r, \u00e2lemi sersem san\u0131yorsunuz!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cKESK\u0130N S\u0130RKE K\u00dcP\u00dcNE ZARAR\u201d<br \/>\n<\/strong>Bu nas\u0131l bir \u00fcslup, bu nas\u0131l bir ego, yoksa kalbiniz, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fcz buz mu tuttu sizin?<br \/>\nMe\u011ferse k\u0131rmadan d\u00f6kmeden\u00a0<strong>sa\u011flam, g\u00fczel bir \u00fcslupla<\/strong>\u00a0ele\u015ftirmek; eksikleri gidermek,\u00a0<strong>yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 d\u00fczeltmek<\/strong>\u00a0ne b\u00fcy\u00fck bir erdemmi\u015f!<br \/>\nB\u00fcy\u00fckler, eskimeyen ifadeyle:\u00a0<strong>\u201c\u00dcslubu beyan, ayn\u0131yla insan!\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0diye bo\u015funa s\u00f6ylememi\u015fler.<br \/>\nSak\u0131n unutmay\u0131n, \u201c<strong>Yanl\u0131\u015f \u00fcslup, do\u011fru s\u00f6z\u00fcn cellad\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong>!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>BU HALKA B\u00dcY\u00dcK ZARAR VER\u0130YORSUNUZ!<\/strong><br \/>\nKanaatimce bu tutum ve davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla siz, bu k\u00fclt\u00fcre, bu topluma fayda de\u011fil b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar veriyorsunuz!<br \/>\nHer kalem oynatan, \u00f6zellikle gen\u00e7ler <strong>bu thamademiz taraf\u0131ndan<\/strong> <strong>s\u0131rayla lin\u00e7 ediliyor,<\/strong> bizde ses yok, seyrediyoruz. Sonra <strong>\u201cGen\u00e7ler nerede?\u201d<\/strong> diyoruz. \u201cThamde i\u00e7in her \u015fey me\u015fru!\u201d anla\u015f\u0131lan.<br \/>\nAllah a\u015fk\u0131na sabah ak\u015fam <strong>T\u00fcrkiye\u2019deki \u00c7erkes toplumuyla<\/strong> dalga ge\u00e7mekten, <strong>top yek\u00fbn su\u00e7lamaktan<\/strong>, durmadan dinlenmeden ki\u015fi ve kurumlara hakaret etmekten usanmad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<br \/>\nBu kadar da olmaz, <strong>bu ele\u015ftiride iyi niyet aranmaz<\/strong>, yeter art\u0131k!<\/p>\n<p><strong>AH KE\u015eKE!<br \/>\n<\/strong>Ah ke\u015fke,\u00a0<strong>ruhumuzu ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131, yetenek, erdem ve g\u00fczelliklerini kabule al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rsak!<br \/>\n<\/strong>Ah ke\u015fke ele\u015ftiriyi, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini yakmak, y\u0131kmak amac\u0131yla de\u011fil;\u00a0ona\u00a0<strong>yol g\u00f6stermek,\u00a0<\/strong>moral ve ilham vermek amac\u0131yla yapabilsek!<br \/>\nAh ke\u015fke\u00a0<strong>her \u015feyin en iyisini ben bilirim<\/strong>, anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan vaz ge\u00e7ebilsek.<br \/>\nY\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftirilerin gerisinde bir y\u0131\u011f\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f kalp, h\u00fcz\u00fcn,\u00a0<strong>d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k, pi\u015fmanl\u0131k<\/strong> kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p><em>(\u0130nsafs\u0131zca ele\u015ftirilen yerden yere vurulan k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yaz\u0131s\u0131\u2026)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Nemide DEMUKAN<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em>161 y\u0131l \u00f6nce, biz Kafkasya\u2019n\u0131n otokton halklar\u0131 s\u00fcrg\u00fcne u\u011frayarak anavatanlar\u0131m\u0131zdan d\u00f6rt bir yana savrulduk. 21 May\u0131s 1864 bizler i\u00e7in ak\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131za, y\u00fcreklerimize kaz\u0131nan kara bir tarih\u2026<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Bu kara g\u00fcnde sadece toprak de\u011fil, an\u0131lar da geride b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131.<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Binlerce y\u0131ll\u0131k bir yurdun hat\u0131ralar\u0131, annelerin dualar\u0131nda, babalar\u0131n son bir bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda kalm\u0131\u015f ve Karadeniz\u2019in h\u0131r\u00e7\u0131n sular\u0131na g\u00f6m\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f. Karadeniz\u2019i bilen bilir; so\u011fuk ve zalimdir, Karadeniz yine Karadenizli\u011fini yapm\u0131\u015f binlerce can\u0131 kendine saklam\u0131\u015f, sa\u011f kalanlar ise vatans\u0131z kalm\u0131\u015f, hasret kaplam\u0131\u015f i\u00e7lerini. Bu hasret \u00f6yle bir y\u00fck olmu\u015f ki i\u00e7lerine y\u00fczy\u0131llarca devam etmi\u015f. Nesilden nesile Kafkasya\u2019n\u0131n o heybetli da\u011flar\u0131, k\u00f6ylerinin g\u00fczelli\u011fi, vadilerinde yank\u0131lanan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131n sesi, nehrinin g\u00fczelli\u011fi anlat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f da anlat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u2026 Sava\u015ftan sonra o heybetli da\u011flar sessizli\u011fe b\u00fcr\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f, vadilerden sessiz \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar y\u00fckselmi\u015f, k\u00f6yler harap olmu\u015f; ta\u015f \u00fcst\u00fcnde ta\u015f kalmam\u0131\u015f\u2026 Her \u015fey bir ba\u015fkala\u015fm\u0131\u015f.<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Adeta Xeuk, bu s\u00fcrg\u00fcne kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f; binlerce y\u0131ll\u0131k sahiplerinin s\u00fcrg\u00fcn\u00fcne i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e a\u011flam\u0131\u015f da durmu\u015f. Ve beklemeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f; senelerce, sab\u0131rla beklemi\u015f. Ne zaman bir \u00c7erkes ayak bassa, heyecanlanm\u0131\u015f; evlad\u0131na y\u0131llar sonra yeniden kavu\u015fan bir anne gibi co\u015fmu\u015f. Gelenlere \u00e7ok iyi bakm\u0131\u015f; t\u00fcm g\u00fczelli\u011fini, t\u00fcm s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermi\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hevesle. Rivayete g\u00f6re Ad\u0131ge Xeuk, h\u00e2l\u00e2 beklermi\u015f esas \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131. \u201cVatan\u0131n\u0131za d\u00f6n\u00fcn,\u201d dermi\u015f her esintide.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Belki de \u011eu\u00e7e Zamudin, Kafkasya\u2019n\u0131n bu \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na kulak vererek diasporaya seslenmi\u015ftir. Kim bilir? Ama bilinen bir \u015fey var: Kafkasya h\u00e2l\u00e2 orada; da\u011flar h\u00e2l\u00e2 sessizce bekler, dereler h\u00e2l\u00e2 f\u0131s\u0131ldar. Ve bir g\u00fcn, \u00f6zlemle yeniden kucakla\u015fman\u0131n hayalini kurar.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ve bug\u00fcn, 21 May\u0131s\u2019ta, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n neresinde olursak olal\u0131m, atalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu b\u00fcy\u00fck ac\u0131y\u0131 unutmuyoruz.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn, Ad\u0131ge Xeuk\u2019un \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 gibi bir \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131 da bizim i\u00e7imizden y\u00fckseliyor: \u201cUnutma! K\u00f6kenini, k\u00f6y\u00fcn\u00fc, dilini ve kimli\u011fini unutma\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>Ve bir g\u00fcn, belki de yeniden bulu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z, yitip gitmi\u015f k\u00f6ylerimizde, dualar\u0131m\u0131zda ve \u00f6zlemlerimizde.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz, unutmad\u0131k\u2026<\/em><\/strong><em><br \/>\n<strong>Ve asla unutmayaca\u011f\u0131z\u2026<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CC Notu: De&#287;erli Nevzat Bey, daha &ouml;nceden bu makalesini bize yollam&#305;&#351;t&#305;, ricam&#305;z&#305; k&#305;rmam&#305;&#351; yay&#305;nlamamak konusundaki iste&#287;imizi yerine getirmi&#351;ti. 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