{"id":677,"date":"2019-02-20T16:42:23","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T16:42:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=677"},"modified":"2019-02-20T16:42:23","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T16:42:23","slug":"benlik-yorungeli-sozler-yakismiyor-bize","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/benlik-yorungeli-sozler-yakismiyor-bize\/","title":{"rendered":"BENL\u0130K Y\u00d6R\u00dcNGEL\u0130 S\u00d6ZLER YAKI\u015eMIYOR B\u0130ZE!"},"content":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131
\n<\/strong>02.09.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne iyi olurdu, ruhumuzu ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131, yetenek, erdem ve g\u00fczelliklerini kabule al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rsak!\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cBu ne g\u00fczel bir insan, ke\u015fke ben de \u00f6yle olabilsem!\u201d diyebilsek.<\/p>\n

\u201cHer \u015feyin en iyisini ben bilirim, anlayam\u0131yorlar beni!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHerkes bana uymal\u0131, benim g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerim isabetli, yan\u0131l\u0131yor ba\u015fkalar\u0131!\u201d<\/p>\n

Buna benzer benlik y\u00f6r\u00fcngeli s\u00f6zleri, seviye insan\u0131yla ili\u015fkilendirebilmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc?<\/p>\n

Oysa g\u00f6n\u00fcl insan\u0131n\u0131n ideali: Ne yap\u0131p edip herkesle anla\u015fma yollar\u0131n\u0131 bulmak, insanl\u0131k \u00f6rne\u011fi sergileyerek \u201ckobralarla bile kavgas\u0131z ya\u015fayabilmek\u201d sanat\u0131n\u0131 hayata ge\u00e7irmek olmal\u0131 de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n

En ufak bir kusurundan dolay\u0131 d\u0131\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlar, \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla yarg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015filer, olay\u0131n i\u00e7y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc hi\u00e7 merak etmeden sorgulamalar\u2026 Sonunda, bir y\u0131\u011f\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f kalp, h\u00fcz\u00fcn, d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k, pi\u015fmanl\u0131k\u2026<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n dolup ta\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, hatta kendinden ge\u00e7ti\u011fi anlar da vard\u0131r elbette. Ama b\u00f6yle bir zamanda bile so\u011fukkanl\u0131 olabilmek, \u201c ben\u201d merkez \u00e7ekimine kap\u0131lmamak ne kadar \u00f6nemli bir vas\u0131f.<\/p>\n

Ne iyi olurdu, \u00e7evremizdeki insanlar\u0131n kusurlar\u0131ndan ziyade iyi yanlar\u0131n\u0131 bulup takdir edebilsek!<\/p>\n

Ne iyi olurdu, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hatalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 yeri geldik\u00e7e g\u00f6zs\u00fcz, kulaks\u0131z ve dilsiz olabilsek!<\/p>\n

Ne iyi olurdu, ruhumuzu ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131, yetenek, erdem ve g\u00fczelliklerini kabule al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rsak! <\/strong>\u201cBu ne g\u00fczel bir insan, ke\u015fke ben de \u00f6yle olabilsem!\u201d diyebilsek.<\/p>\n

\u0130yi olmaz m\u0131yd\u0131, sab\u0131r, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ve tahamm\u00fclle aleyhimize g\u00f6r\u00fcnen pek \u00e7ok geli\u015fmeyi lehimize sonu\u00e7land\u0131rabilsek?<\/p>\n

\u0130yi olmaz m\u0131yd\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, k\u00fclt\u00fcrler a\u011f\u0131nda nefesi daralan gen\u00e7li\u011fimizi kurtarabilsek? Ba\u015far\u0131, gayret ve samimiyetlerinden iftihar edilecek karde\u015flerimizi g\u00f6n\u00fcl saraylar\u0131m\u0131zda a\u011f\u0131rlasak? Bu karde\u015flerimizin i\u00e7tenliklerini, g\u00fczel hizmetlerini tablola\u015ft\u0131rabilsek!<\/p>\n

Gelin ne olur biraz daha m\u00fctevaz\u0131 olal\u0131m!
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hep \u201cBen! \u201cdemeden, eritelim benlik, enaniyet duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bu g\u00fczel toplum ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr i\u00e7inde, sevgi, dostluk ve karde\u015flik atmosferinde.<\/p>\n

Emin olun, potansiyel insan\u0131, realite plan\u0131nda insanl\u0131\u011fa y\u00fckseltmenin ba\u015fka yolu da yok!
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Daha do\u011frusu, insan olman\u0131n, insan olarak kalman\u0131n yolu var m\u0131 ba\u015fka?<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanl\u0131k m\u0131 Allah a\u015fk\u0131na, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hatas\u0131n\u0131 mikroskopla incelemek?<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanl\u0131k m\u0131, hep ba\u015fkalar\u0131na sald\u0131rmak, hep hatalarla u\u011fra\u015fmak, basitle\u015fmekten, al\u00e7almaktan zevk almak?<\/p>\n

Toplumsal de\u011ferlerimizin ileri derecede yozla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde, Kafkas toplumunun k\u00f6kl\u00fc gelene\u011fini, o zengin k\u00fclt\u00fcr miras\u0131n\u0131 yeniden \u015fekillendirecek insanlara ne kadar muhtac\u0131z!<\/p>\n

Ne kadar muhtac\u0131z, toplumumuz ad\u0131na hayati \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131yan dinamikleri somutla\u015ft\u0131rarak camiam\u0131za kazand\u0131racak, zihin, kalp ve ruh d\u00fcnyas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k \u015fahsiyetlere!<\/p>\n

Yeter, bu soylu millet yetimli\u011finin h\u00fczn\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015famas\u0131n art\u0131k!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 02.09.2006 Ne iyi olurdu, ruhumuzu başkalarının başarı, yetenek, erdem ve güzelliklerini kabule alıştırsak!     “Bu ne güzel bir insan, keşke ben de öyle olabilsem!” diyebilsek. “Her şeyin en iyisini ben bilirim, anlayamıyorlar beni!” “Herkes bana uymalı, benim görüşlerim isabetli, yanılıyor başkaları!” Buna benzer benlik yörüngeli sözleri, seviye insanıyla ilişkilendirebilmek mümkün mü? Oysa gönül […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"0","ocean_second_sidebar":"0","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"0","ocean_custom_header_template":"0","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"0","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"off","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[106],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-677","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar-yemuz-nevzat-tarakci","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/677","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=677"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/677\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":678,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/677\/revisions\/678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=677"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=677"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=677"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}