{"id":700,"date":"2019-02-20T16:56:39","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T16:56:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=700"},"modified":"2019-02-20T16:56:39","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T16:56:39","slug":"degisim-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/degisim-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"DE\u011e\u0130\u015e\u0130M M\u0130?"},"content":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131 <\/strong>
\n18.11.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

Anne –<\/b> \u00c7ok mutluyum! \u0130lk \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz d\u00fcnyaya geliyor.
\nAd\u0131n\u0131 ne koysak acaba? Son derece \u00f6nemli \u00e7ocu\u011fun ad\u0131. Anlaml\u0131 olmal\u0131, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc yans\u0131tmal\u0131. Bizden olmal\u0131, rengimizi, kokumuzu, dokumuzu ta\u015f\u0131mal\u0131 mutlaka bu isim.<\/p>\n

Baba –<\/b> Kat\u0131l\u0131yorum size han\u0131m. \u0130smin anlam\u0131 yans\u0131yor ki\u015finin karakterine. Herkes ad\u0131ndan bilmeli insanlar\u0131n hangi topuma, hangi k\u00fclt\u00fcre ait oldu\u011funu. <\/b>Ne o yabanc\u0131, garip, tuhaf isimler! \u0130\u011freniyorum benli\u011fini hi\u00e7e say\u0131p evlad\u0131na yabanc\u0131 isimler takan anne babalardan. Yozla\u015fman\u0131n ta kendisi de\u011fil mi bu? Her \u015feyden \u00f6nce Adige k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6\u011fretmeliyiz \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza; diliyle, ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131yla, her y\u00f6n\u00fcyle. Evde hep ana dilimizi kullanmal\u0131y\u0131z. B\u00f6yle b\u00fcy\u00fcmeli \u00e7ocuk.
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\nAnne –<\/b> O halde NART olsun o\u011flumuzun ad\u0131. Nart\u2019lar gibi ya\u015fas\u0131n benli\u011fini, kimli\u011fini, ki\u015fili\u011fini.<\/p>\n

Baba –<\/b> \u00c7ok g\u00fczel, Nart olsun tabii, yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r sevgili yavrumuza. Yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r soylu ailemize, geni\u015f s\u00fclalemize.<\/b><\/p>\n

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\nBaba –<\/b> Bu ikinci \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz. \u00c7ok heyecanland\u0131m yine! Ne koysak ad\u0131n\u0131? <\/p>\n

Anne –<\/b> Bilmem ki, \u015fey\u2026 Yoksa KAYA m\u0131 olsa?<\/p>\n

Baba –<\/b> Olur han\u0131m, neden olmas\u0131n! Kom\u015fular\u0131n o\u011flu KAYA gibi o da y\u00fcksek puanla b\u00fcy\u00fck okullar okusun, meslek sahibi olsun, \u00e7ok para kazans\u0131n!<\/p>\n

Anne –<\/b> O halde KAYA olsun. En g\u00fczel \u00fcniversiteyi bitirsin benim aslan o\u011flum. Lay\u0131k olsun ailesine. Biz zengin olamad\u0131k. Bari o ya\u015fas\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcnce. Olsun en g\u00fczelinden arabas\u0131, evi, yat\u0131 kat\u0131\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n

Baba –<\/b> Hem \u00f6yle sivrilmesin k\u00fclt\u00fcrd\u00fcr, kimliktir diye. Ne o k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn dernek davas\u0131? Okulunu, mesle\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u00fcn \u00f6nce!<\/b> Benim o\u011flum mutlaka bilmeli iki yabanc\u0131 dil. \u00c7erkesce sonraki i\u015f. Bu Adige\u2019lik dikkati da\u011f\u0131tmamal\u0131 erkenden! Hem gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerle, k\u0131zl\u0131 erkekli toplant\u0131larla. Toparlayamaz kendini, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olur okul hayat\u0131.<\/p>\n

Anne –<\/b> Derneklere, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler, toplant\u0131lar? Zarard\u0131r bunlar, geli\u015fmekte olan \u00e7ocuklara zarar. Marjinal olmamal\u0131 bizim \u00e7ocuk.<\/b> Okusun, meslek sahibi olsun, evlensin, mutlu olsun! Sonra d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclebilir bu ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar ama o ya\u015fa kadar asla!<\/p>\n

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Anne –<\/b> \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz k\u0131z oldu, ad\u0131, KAROL\u0130NA.<\/p>\n

Baba –<\/b> \u0130sim dedi\u011fin biraz da Bat\u0131 toplumlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmal\u0131. Do\u011fulu oldu\u011fu hissedilmemeli. K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6\u011frenimini ne yap\u0131p edip Avrupalarda, Amerikalarda yapmal\u0131. Ne bu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z toplumlardan \u00e7ekti\u011fimiz bizim. D\u00fcnya vatanda\u015f\u0131 olmal\u0131<\/b>. Neymi\u015f Allah a\u015fk\u0131na T\u00fcrkl\u00fck, \u00c7erkeslik?<\/p>\n

Anne –<\/b> Kat\u0131l\u0131yorum size. Geni\u015f a\u00e7\u0131dan bakmal\u0131y\u0131z art\u0131k olaylara. D\u00fcnya k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcld\u00fc bak! K\u00fclt\u00fcrler kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131 birbirine. Ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye vakit mi var? Ben evlad\u0131m i\u00e7in her fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa raz\u0131y\u0131m.<\/p>\n

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<\/span><\/span>Karolina –<\/b> Ben Karolina. B\u00fcy\u00fck bir i\u015fletmede \u00fcst d\u00fczey y\u00f6neticiyim. Bildi\u011fim kadar\u0131yla annem, babam \u00c7erkes\u2019mi\u015f! \u00dc\u00e7 karde\u015fmi\u015fiz. Sadece adlar\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum, hayattalar m\u0131 bilemiyorum.<\/p>\n

\u0130ki \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz var, Justinya\u00a0 ve Peter. E\u015fim bir \u0130ngiliz. Samimi bir Katolik. S\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 ba\u011fl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne. Biliyor yedi g\u00f6bek atas\u0131n\u0131. Her birinin, alb\u00fcm\u00fcnde \u00f6zel yeri var.<\/p>\n

\u00dc\u00e7 dil biliyorum. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m da \u00e7ok g\u00fczel konu\u015fuyor iki dili. Seviyorlar kiliseye gitmeyi, seviyorlar Noel\u2019i ve di\u011fer bayramlar\u0131.<\/p>\n

Benim ise, i\u00e7imde sebebini anlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir burukluk var. S\u0131k s\u0131k soruyorum kendime <\/p>\n

Yoksa ait olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn i\u00e7inde miyim?<\/b><\/p>\n

Ya\u015fland\u0131m evet, fark\u0131nday\u0131m, fakat geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, \u015fimdilerde hayal meyal hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m her \u015fey, tarifsiz haz veriyor bana. B\u00fcy\u00fck a\u011fabeyimin ismini duymak nedenini bilmedi\u011fim bir mutlulu\u011fa \u00e7ekiyor beni. Ya o y\u0131llarda duydu\u011fum, \u015fimdi hat\u0131rlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a y\u00fcre\u011fimi titreten, benli\u011fimi saran o d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn m\u00fczi\u011fi\u2026<\/p>\n

<\/b>Evet, galiba ben yabanc\u0131 bir k\u00fclt\u00fcrle beslendim. Doyurmad\u0131 bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr beni, a\u00e7l\u0131k hissediyorum, ac\u0131 \u00e7ekiyorum. Kaybolmu\u015f, yok olmu\u015f biri gibiyim! Yaln\u0131z kalabal\u0131klarda bo\u011fuldum! Kendimi ar\u0131yorum!<\/p>\n

Ben kimim?<\/p>\n

Hani kimli\u011fim?<\/p>\n

Nerde k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm?<\/p>\n

Nas\u0131l olmal\u0131 inanc\u0131m?<\/p>\n

Nedir bu i\u00e7imdeki dayan\u0131lmaz ac\u0131, art\u0131p giden sanc\u0131?<\/p>\n

Bir ana dilim mi olmal\u0131yd\u0131 benim?<\/p>\n

Neden e\u015fim gibi mazime ait bilgi ve birikimim yok?<\/p>\n

<\/b>Neden, anne ve babam\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, \u201cBu b\u00fcy\u00fck annem, bu dedem!\u201d diyebilece\u011fim bir foto\u011fraf\u0131m yok?<\/p>\n

Kim yard\u0131m edecek bana?<\/p>\n

Kim tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131racak beni ger\u00e7ek kimli\u011fimle?<\/p>\n

Kimler sorumlu benim bu hale geli\u015fimden?<\/b><\/p>\n

Mutlu olam\u0131yorum, bir \u015feyler ar\u0131yorum, bulam\u0131yorum!<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131 kalmad\u0131!<\/p>\n

Karmakar\u0131\u015f\u0131k kafam!<\/p>\n

Yard\u0131m edin bana ne olur!<\/p>\n

Ne olur yard\u0131m edin!<\/span><\/p>\n

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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 18.11.2006 Anne – Çok mutluyum! İlk çocuğumuz dünyaya geliyor. Adını ne koysak acaba? Son derece önemli çocuğun adı. Anlamlı olmalı, kültürümüzü yansıtmalı. Bizden olmalı, rengimizi, kokumuzu, dokumuzu taşımalı mutlaka bu isim. Baba – Katılıyorum size hanım. İsmin anlamı yansıyor kişinin karakterine. Herkes adından bilmeli insanların hangi topuma, hangi kültüre ait olduğunu. 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