{"id":708,"date":"2019-02-20T17:02:17","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:02:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=708"},"modified":"2019-02-20T17:02:17","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:02:17","slug":"iletisim-mutlaka-iletisim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/iletisim-mutlaka-iletisim\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130LET\u0130\u015e\u0130M\u2026 MUTLAKA \u0130LET\u0130\u015e\u0130M!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<br \/>\n<\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">16.12.2006<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, duygular, k\u00fclt\u00fcrler, renkler, diller farkl\u0131 da olsa; \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcler, sevin\u00e7ler, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klar ayn\u0131 de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fil mi g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n rengi hep ayn\u0131!<\/p>\n<p>Yunus ve balinalar\u0131n kendi aralar\u0131nda insanlarla nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kurduklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlediniz mi hi\u00e7?<\/p>\n<p>Ar\u0131lar\u0131n bal yapmas\u0131, kar\u0131ncalar\u0131n bir d\u00fczen i\u00e7inde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, insan d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki canl\u0131lar\u0131n m\u00fckemmel ileti\u015fimleri de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYer tan\u0131k olsun, g\u00f6k tan\u0131k olsun,<br \/>\nB\u00fct\u00fcn do\u011fmu\u015flarla ve do\u011facaklarla tan\u0131\u015fmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<br \/>\nAk\u0131llarda ve y\u00fcreklerde g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze geldik bug\u00fcn.<b><br \/>\nBin y\u0131l \u00f6nceden bana selam s\u00f6ylediler;<br \/>\nBin y\u0131l \u00f6nceki anneler; annemden az m\u0131 sevdiler? \u201d<\/b><br \/>\n(\u00dc. D\u00f6kmen)<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar, ge\u00e7mi\u015fle g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz aras\u0131nda bir k\u00f6pr\u00fc kurmak,<\/p>\n<p>Toplumlar\u0131n sava\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir d\u00fcnyada huzur ve bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde ya\u015famak;<\/p>\n<p>Toplumda yasa ve kurallar\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 i\u015fleterek daha mutlu bir ya\u015fama ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in ileti\u015fim kurmazlar m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Dostluk i\u00e7in,<\/p>\n<p>Uyum i\u00e7in,<\/p>\n<p>Sevgi i\u00e7in,<\/p>\n<p>Mutluluk i\u00e7in,<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7in,<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanca birlikte ya\u015fayabilmek i\u00e7in,<\/p>\n<p>\u0130leti\u015fim, ileti\u015fim&#8230; Mutlaka ileti\u015fim! \u00a0<b><\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130nsanlar\u0131n,<br \/>\nY\u00fczlerinin ve g\u00f6zlerinin rengi<br \/>\n<\/b>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <b>ba\u015fka ba\u015fka da olsa,<br \/>\nG\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n rengi hep ayn\u0131d\u0131r.<br \/>\nNe bir kelimede anla\u015ft\u0131lar,<br \/>\nNe ayn\u0131 duygular\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131lar.<br \/>\nYaln\u0131zca g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131nda,<br \/>\nBir de kahkaha da bulu\u015ftular.\u201d<br \/>\n<\/b>(\u00dc. D\u00f6kmen)<\/p>\n<p>Bizler, ne zaman insanlar\u0131 renk, dil, din ayr\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6zetmeksizin e\u015fit tutar, onlar\u0131 insan olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in seversek, bu ortak paydada bulu\u015fabilirsek ufkumuz geni\u015fler, i\u00e7imiz rahatlar, i\u015fimiz kolayla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, renkler, diller farkl\u0131 da olsa \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcler, sevin\u00e7ler, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klar ayn\u0131 de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fil mi g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n rengi ayn\u0131!<\/p>\n<p>Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fimle bin y\u0131l \u00f6ncesindeki annelerden g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz annelerine mesaj iletemez miyiz?\u00a0<b><\/p>\n<p>Ya rengi, dili, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ayn\u0131 olan, ayn\u0131 kaynaktan beslenen Kafkas toplumunda ileti\u015fim?\u00a0 <\/b><\/p>\n<p>E\u015fler aras\u0131nda ileti\u015fim?<\/p>\n<p>Anne baba evlat aras\u0131nda ileti\u015fim?<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131lar ve gen\u00e7lerin ileti\u015fimi?<\/p>\n<p>Toplum olarak: \u201cBirbirimizle gayet iyi ileti\u015fim kurabiliyoruz.\u201d diyebiliyor muyuz?<b><\/p>\n<p>Mazisi tertemiz, asaleti ve zarafeti \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00e7 kayna\u011f\u0131 olan toplumum, katlanabiliyor mu ufak tefek s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lara? Sab\u0131rla birbirinin eksi\u011fini giderebiliyor mu?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Birbirinden istifade edebiliyor mu?<\/p>\n<p>Toplumsal dayan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 sa\u011flayabiliyor mu?<\/p>\n<p>Sevebiliyor mu lay\u0131k\u0131yla birbirini?<\/p>\n<p>Binlerce ortak noktas\u0131n\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan haberdar m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131nsa devede kulak misali oldu\u011funun bilincinde mi?<\/p>\n<p>Cevap, \u201cEvet!\u201d mi?<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fczel!<\/p>\n<p>Ama yetmez!\u00a0<b><\/p>\n<p>Ya, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, rengi, dili, dini farkl\u0131 insanlarla ileti\u015fim? Onlarla diyalog, uyu<\/p>\n<p>Ya, d\u00fcnyada birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z di\u011fer canl\u0131larla ileti\u015fim, onlar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na sayg\u0131m\u0131z, fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ah ke\u015fke kendimizi kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakinin yerine koyabilsek, duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri do\u011fru anlayabilsek, anlayamad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 uygun bir dille anlatabilsek!<\/p>\n<p>Yani ileti\u015fimi do\u011fru kurabilsek.<\/p>\n<p>Sevsek, saysak birbirimizi, destek olsak birbirimize.<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc,\u00a0 <b>yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131,\u00a0 sorgulay\u0131c\u0131, denetleyici, \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck belirten bir tutum i\u00e7inde kesin tav\u0131rlarla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim kurabilmek?<\/b> An\u0131nda kapat\u0131verir kar\u015f\u0131 taraf i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 bize. Duvar \u00f6rer aram\u0131za. Birinci ad\u0131mda kesiliverir ileti\u015fim.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke, \u201cEmpati\u201dnin g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc anlayabilsek.<\/p>\n<p>Kinden, nefretten, dedikodudan ar\u0131nabilsek tamamen.<\/p>\n<p>Birbirimizi lay\u0131k\u0131yla sevebilsek.<b><\/p>\n<p>Ellerimizi tutu\u015fturup, y\u00fcreklerimizi birle\u015ftirebilsek.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sempatik olabilsek.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130leti\u015fimi do\u011fru kurabilsek.<\/p>\n<p>Ne kadar kolayla\u015f\u0131rd\u0131 hayat.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak&ccedil;&#305; 16.12.2006 D&uuml;&#351;&uuml;nceler, duygular, k&uuml;lt&uuml;rler, renkler, diller farkl&#305; da olsa; &uuml;z&uuml;nt&uuml;ler, sevin&ccedil;ler, k&#305;skan&ccedil;l&#305;klar ayn&#305; de&#287;il mi? De&#287;il mi g&ouml;zya&#351;lar&#305;n&#305;n rengi hep ayn&#305;! Yunus ve balinalar&#305;n kendi aralar&#305;nda insanlarla nas&#305;l ileti&#351;im kurduklar&#305;n&#305; g&ouml;zlemlediniz mi hi&ccedil;? 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