{"id":712,"date":"2019-02-20T17:03:51","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:03:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=712"},"modified":"2019-02-20T17:03:51","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:03:51","slug":"gencler-cerkeslik-tek-basina-yetmeyebilir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/gencler-cerkeslik-tek-basina-yetmeyebilir\/","title":{"rendered":"GEN\u00c7LER, \u201c\u00c7ERKESL\u0130K\u201d TEK BA\u015eINA YETMEYEB\u0130L\u0130R!"},"content":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131
\n<\/strong>30.12.2006<\/span>
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Evet, fark\u0131ndas\u0131n\u0131z, fark\u0131nday\u0131z, bir y\u0131\u011f\u0131n olumsuzluk var etraf\u0131n\u0131zda.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fsizlik, paras\u0131zl\u0131k var.<\/p>\n

E\u011fitimsizlik, kabal\u0131k, sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k var.<\/p>\n

Ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fczl\u00fck, anlay\u0131\u015fs\u0131zl\u0131k, ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131k, cehalet var.<\/p>\n

Haks\u0131zl\u0131k var.<\/p>\n

K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k var.<\/p>\n

\u00dcmitsizlik var\u2026\u00a0<\/p>\n

Delikanl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, heyecanl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, k\u0131zmakta, isyan etmekte belki hakl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z vard\u0131r elbet y\u0131\u011f\u0131nla.<\/p>\n

Bazen sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmesi gerekenler bile sorunun bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olabiliyor g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde.<\/p>\n

\u00d6yle bir d\u00f6neminiz olur ki; i\u015f ve paradan ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nceli\u011finiz olmayabilir. <\/b><\/p>\n

Bitti\u011finizi, t\u00fckendi\u011finizi, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n tavan\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc sanabilirsiniz. <\/p>\n

\u0130nsanca ya\u015famak \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r gelebilir size.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ama her \u015feye ra\u011fmen vard\u0131r her zorlu\u011fun bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu.<\/p>\n

Sak\u0131n unutmay\u0131n, hi\u00e7bir problemin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc de\u011fildir \u00fcmitsizlik!<\/b><\/p>\n

Sab\u0131rla, anlay\u0131\u015fla ve dahi dayan\u0131\u015fmayla \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclebilir problemler.<\/p>\n

Her \u015feye ra\u011fmen kendinize g\u00fcvenin.<\/p>\n

Gerekli yard\u0131m\u0131 isteyin.<\/p>\n

Okuyun, ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u00e7e do\u011fru derinle\u015fin, maneviyat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirin! <\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fsiz, paras\u0131z kalabilirsiniz ama asla idealsiz kalmay\u0131n!<\/b><\/p>\n

Unutmay\u0131n, \u201c\u00c7aresizseniz, \u00e7are sizsiniz!\u201d<\/p>\n

Toparlan\u0131n! Kendinize inan\u0131n, g\u00fcvenin. Problemleri \u00e7\u00f6zmeyi zamana yay\u0131n.\u00a0<\/p>\n

S\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinizi su\u00e7luyor, y\u00f6neticilerden ve yetkililerden \u015fik\u00e2yet ediyor olabilirsiniz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc da\u011f gibi sorunlar var ortada.<\/b><\/p>\n

Problemler y\u0131\u011f\u0131nla:<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fsizlik ve paras\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n yan\u0131nda,<\/p>\n

Meslek ve e\u015f se\u00e7imi,<\/p>\n

\u0130dealsizlik,<\/p>\n

A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 hayalcilik,<\/p>\n

Refah hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131,<\/p>\n

\u00d6zenti,<\/p>\n

Kimlik bunal\u0131m\u0131 ve kendini tan\u0131mama,<\/p>\n

Zararl\u0131 yay\u0131nlar,<\/p>\n

Bencillik,<\/p>\n

Ahl\u00e2ki ve manevi de\u011ferlerin a\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131,<\/p>\n

G\u00fcvensizlik,<\/p>\n

Gelecek kayg\u0131s\u0131,<\/p>\n

Ba\u015fkalar\u0131 ile ili\u015fki kuramama\u2026<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde, sosyal ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011fi\u015fmeler \u00e7ok h\u0131zl\u0131. De\u011fi\u015fen toplum d\u00fczeninde gen\u00e7lerin farkl\u0131 rol beklentileri var. Bu h\u0131zl\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fime zorlanan gen\u00e7lik, ruh\u00ee bir gerilim ortam\u0131nda kimlik aray\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla me\u015fgul.<\/b> Ki\u015fili\u011findeki olmas\u0131 gereken de\u011fi\u015fimle toplumdaki anormal de\u011fi\u015fim gen\u00e7leri bocalatmakta, bunaltmakta.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cHi\u00e7bir de\u011fere inanmayan, idealden yoksun, g\u00fcn\u00fcbirlik u\u011fra\u015flar ve maddi zevklerle oyalanan, kendine ve \u00e7evresine yabanc\u0131la\u015fan, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131klara d\u00fc\u015fen gen\u00e7lik bu kontrols\u00fcz de\u011fi\u015fimin sonucu de\u011fil midir?\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

Bu \u00e7ok y\u00f6nl\u00fc ve olduk\u00e7a derin, kapsaml\u0131 problemlerin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc, sa\u011flam bir e\u011fitimden, iyi bir manevi, ahl\u00e2ki e\u011fitiminden ge\u00e7mektedir.<\/p>\n

Ke\u015fke, gen\u00e7lere sa\u011flam bir aile terbiyesi verebilseydik.<\/p>\n

Onlara her zaman anlay\u0131\u015fla yakla\u015fabilseydik.
\nAilede ve okulda do\u011fru bilgiler verebilseydik ve bu bilgiler de birbiriyle \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmasayd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7ler, \u00e7evresiyle dengeli ili\u015fkiler kurabilselerdi.<\/p>\n

K\u00f6t\u00fc arkada\u015f grubundan uzak durabilselerdi.<\/p>\n

Bo\u015f zamanlar\u0131n\u0131 kitap okuyarak ve faydal\u0131 i\u015fler yaparak ge\u00e7irebilselerdi.<\/p>\n

K\u00f6t\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klardan ve onlar\u0131n edinilece\u011fi yerlerden uzak durabilselerdi\u2026<\/p>\n

Ke\u015fkeler uzay\u0131p gitmekte.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cToplumlar, gen\u00e7lik ruhuyla canl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 korur, onunla geli\u015fir ve onunla ihti\u015fama ula\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu ruhu kaybedince de, k\u0131lcallar\u0131 kesilmi\u015f \u00e7i\u00e7ekler gibi p\u00f6rs\u00fcr, d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcr ve ayaklar alt\u0131nda kal\u0131rlar.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7li\u011fimize yetmeyebilir tek ba\u015f\u0131na \u00c7erkeslik. Hele bir de lafta \u00c7erkeslik\u2026 \u00c7erkes\u2019e de i\u015f laz\u0131m, a\u015f laz\u0131m, insanca ya\u015famak i\u00e7in para laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u0131kabilmesi laz\u0131m yeri geldik\u00e7e akordeonun da, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn de, ka\u015fenli\u011fin de d\u0131\u015f\u0131na.<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkeslikle birlikte tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 laz\u0131m zaman\u0131n \u00f6nemiyle, paran\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcyle\u2026<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 30.12.2006 Evet, farkındasınız, farkındayız, bir yığın olumsuzluk var etrafınızda. İşsizlik, parasızlık var. Eğitimsizlik, kabalık, saygısızlık var. Hoşgörüsüzlük, anlayışsızlık, ahlaksızlık, cehalet var. Haksızlık var. Kıskançlık var. Ümitsizlik var…  Delikanlısınız, heyecanlısınız, kızmakta, isyan etmekte belki haklısınız. Sorunlarınız vardır elbet yığınla. Bazen sorunu çözmesi gerekenler bile sorunun bir parçası olabiliyor günümüzde. 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