{"id":716,"date":"2019-02-20T17:05:21","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:05:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=716"},"modified":"2019-02-20T17:05:21","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:05:21","slug":"farkinda-miyiz-sahip-oldugumuz-degerlerin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/farkinda-miyiz-sahip-oldugumuz-degerlerin\/","title":{"rendered":"FARKINDA MIYIZ SAH\u0130P OLDU\u011eUMUZ DE\u011eERLER\u0130N?"},"content":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131
\n<\/strong>13.01.2007<\/span><\/p>\n

Y\u00fczler g\u00fcl\u00fcyor. \u00c7aylar i\u00e7iliyor, tatl\u0131lar yeniliyor. Bayram ne\u015fesi olabildi\u011fince sinmi\u015f ortama. Sohbet koyula\u015f\u0131yor. Konu\u015fmalarda konu yava\u015f yava\u015f toplumsal \u00f6v\u00fcnmeye geliyor. \u00c7erkeslerin asaleti, zarafeti, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, giyim ve ku\u015fam\u0131, birliktelikleri\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n

Odadaki herkes memnun gibi ortamdan. Sadece bir ki\u015fi isteksizce kat\u0131l\u0131yor sohbete ve \u00c7erkeslerin olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi yerde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vurguluyor. \u201cEsnafl\u0131kta, siyasette\u2026 Olmam\u0131z gereken yerde de\u011filiz!\u201d<\/b> diyor. Gerek\u00e7esini de toplumumuzun, paran\u0131n ve zaman\u0131n \u00f6nemini yeteri kadar kavrayamam\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131yla a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Kafas\u0131n\u0131 sallayarak bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc onaylayanlar var, tepkisiz kalanlar da reddedenler de\u2026<\/p>\n

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Ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fler derinle\u015fiyor yava\u015f yava\u015f:<\/p>\n

– Ben uzun y\u0131llar k\u00f6ylerde kasabalarda g\u00f6rev yapt\u0131m. \u00c7erkes\u2019i ve \u00c7erkesli\u011fi hi\u00e7 duymam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r dedi\u011fim bu uzak k\u00f6y ve kasabalarda hayretle hep \u015funu duydum. Ailece birlikte oldu\u011fumuz ortamda k\u00f6ydekiler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u015f\u00f6yle derlerdi:<\/p>\n

\u201cBak yavrum, bunlar \u00c7erkes, bunlar ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmadan konu\u015furlar, anla\u015f\u0131rlar, k\u00fcf\u00fcr bilmezler. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin yan\u0131nda oturup kalkmalar\u0131 \u00e7ok farkl\u0131d\u0131r bunlar\u0131n. Siz de bunlara benzemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n, bunlar gibi olun ha!\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

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– Y\u0131llar \u00f6nce k\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fcze siyasiler gelmi\u015fti. \u015e\u00f6yle bir dola\u015ft\u0131lar k\u00f6y\u00fc. Gezdiler bah\u00e7eleri. Sokak aras\u0131ndan ge\u00e7ip \u00e7ay i\u00e7ece\u011fimiz eve do\u011fru ilerlerken milletvekillerinden biri heyecanla \u015f\u00f6yle dedi: \u201cYahu karde\u015fim hayret ediyorum ben, k\u00f6yde affedersiniz hi\u00e7 koyun, ke\u00e7i, s\u0131\u011f\u0131r yok mu? Bu sokaklar bu yerler nas\u0131l bu kadar temiz. Bunun nedenini bana bir a\u00e7\u0131klar m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/b>\u201c<\/p>\n

\u201cBiti\u015fi\u011finizdeki di\u011fer k\u00f6ylere gidiyoruz durum \u00e7ok farkl\u0131. Bu \u00c7erkez k\u00f6yleri niye bu kadar temiz ve bak\u0131ml\u0131? Siz ne kadar farkl\u0131 bir topumsunuz!\u201d<\/p>\n

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– Ben de uzun y\u0131llar \u00f6nce bir da\u011f k\u00f6y\u00fcne d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne gitmi\u015ftim. \u00c7erkes oldu\u011fumu bildikleri i\u00e7in laf d\u00f6nd\u00fc dola\u015ft\u0131 bana geldi. Sohbete kat\u0131lanlardan biri: <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cArkada\u015flar, bilir misiniz \u00c7erkesler hep ata biner. \u015eu ana kadar ben e\u015fe\u011fe binen bir \u00c7erkes g\u00f6rmedim.<\/b> E\u011fer bu \u00c7erkes arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fu e\u015fe\u011fe binip \u015fu yoldan k\u00f6y\u00fcn ortas\u0131ndan ge\u00e7erse, \u015fu s\u00fcr\u00fcdeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck ko\u00e7u hediye olarak verece\u011fim ona.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u015ea\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, ne yapmam\u0131, ne dememi bekliyorlard\u0131 acaba? Cidden ne yapmal\u0131yd\u0131m? Nas\u0131l davranmak do\u011fru olurdu? Fark\u0131na varmadan \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6ylemi\u015fim: <\/p>\n

\u201c\u0130nan\u0131n ko\u00e7u de\u011fil o s\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc verseniz binmem ben o e\u015fe\u011fe. At varsa getirin!\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

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– \u00c7erkes damad\u0131y\u0131m ben. Y\u0131llar \u00f6nce \u015fehir merkezinin kalabal\u0131k caddesinde amcam\u0131n ma\u011fazas\u0131nda oturuyoruz. Sohbet ortam\u0131 var, \u00e7aylar yudumlan\u0131yor. Amcam, caddeden ge\u00e7en, ya\u015fl\u0131 ama dimdik y\u00fcr\u00fcyen, tiril tiril giyimli, g\u00fcnl\u00fck t\u0131ra\u015fl\u0131 birini g\u00f6stererek:<\/p>\n

\u201cBunu tan\u0131yor musun?\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

Yan\u0131ndaki beyefendi:<\/p>\n

\u201c\u0130lk defa g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum, ama mutlaka \u00c7erkes\u2019tir o!\u201d yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 verdi.<\/p>\n

Nas\u0131l, ni\u00e7in derken amcam, yoldan ge\u00e7en beyefendinin yan\u0131nda buldu kendini ve davet etti ma\u011fazaya beyefendiyi.<\/p>\n

Sordu ya\u015fl\u0131ya: <\/p>\n

\u201cMerek ettim ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131n beni. Her g\u00fcn ayn\u0131 saatlerde buradan ge\u00e7iyorsunuz, her g\u00fcn \u00fct\u00fcl\u00fc pantolonlu ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck t\u0131ra\u015fl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z bu ya\u015fta bu titizlik ilgimizi \u00e7ekti, siz kimsiniz, sizinle tan\u0131\u015fabilir miyiz?\u201d<\/p>\n

<\/b>Ya\u015fl\u0131 beyefendi, asil duru\u015fu ve sempatik tav\u0131rlar\u0131yla s\u0131cac\u0131k \u00e7ay\u0131n\u0131 yudumlarken hayran bak\u0131\u015flar aras\u0131nda konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc:<\/p>\n

\u201cBen emekliyim, uzun y\u0131llar oldu g\u00f6revden ayr\u0131lal\u0131. Fakat \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrler olsun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131y\u0131m. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n hepsi g\u00f6revleri ba\u015f\u0131nda, bana ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 kalmad\u0131. Biraz ilerdeki sokakta bizim Kafkas K\u00fclt\u00fcr Derne\u011fi’miz var.<\/b> Benim gibi zaman\u0131 bol, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerinde olan \u00fc\u00e7 be\u015f arkada\u015f dernekte bir araya geliyor, kahvelerimizi i\u00e7iyor, sohbete, muhabbete dal\u0131yoruz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bize ihtiyac\u0131 kalmad\u0131 ama a\u00e7, susuz, odunsuz, k\u00f6m\u00fcrs\u00fcz, har\u00e7l\u0131ks\u0131z \u00e7ok zor \u015fartlarda okumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan gen\u00e7ler var etraf\u0131m\u0131zda.<\/b> Birileri el uzatmal\u0131 onlara. Onlara yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak zorunday\u0131z.<\/p>\n

\u201cM\u00fcsait oldu\u011fumuzda bir araya geliyor, ana babalar\u0131ndan uzak, gurbette s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131larla ya\u015famaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bu ki\u015filer i\u00e7in ne yapabiliriz, onlara nas\u0131l maddi manevi destek verebiliriz, konular\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015fuyoruz. Fikirler \u00fcretiyoruz. Az da olsa elimizden gelen deste\u011fi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz, kar\u0131nca karar\u0131nca.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ve konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 titrek sesiyle, yutkunarak, nefesi s\u0131k\u0131\u015farak s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc: <\/p>\n

\u201cNe dersiniz, emeklinin de esnaf\u0131n de ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n da gencin de zenginin de fakirin de insanl\u0131k ad\u0131na toplumu, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc i\u00e7in yapaca\u011f\u0131 bir \u015feyler vard\u0131r mutlaka de\u011fil mi?\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 13.01.2007 Yüzler gülüyor. Çaylar içiliyor, tatlılar yeniliyor. Bayram neşesi olabildiğince sinmiş ortama. Sohbet koyulaşıyor. Konuşmalarda konu yavaş yavaş toplumsal övünmeye geliyor. Çerkeslerin asaleti, zarafeti, dürüstlüğü, giyim ve kuşamı, birliktelikleri… Odadaki herkes memnun gibi ortamdan. Sadece bir kişi isteksizce katılıyor sohbete ve Çerkeslerin olması gerektiği yerde olmadığını vurguluyor. “Esnaflıkta, siyasette… Olmamız gereken yerde 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