{"id":730,"date":"2019-02-20T17:10:57","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:10:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=730"},"modified":"2019-02-20T17:10:57","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:10:57","slug":"genclerimizin-ruhunda-diriltmeliyiz-orf-ve-adetlerimizi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/genclerimizin-ruhunda-diriltmeliyiz-orf-ve-adetlerimizi\/","title":{"rendered":"GEN\u00c7LER\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130N RUHUNDA D\u0130R\u0130LTMEL\u0130Y\u0130Z \u00d6RF VE ADETLER\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<br \/>\n<\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">03.03.2007<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Bizlerin duygu birlikteli\u011fi, duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n derinli\u011fi, samimiyet ve heyecan\u0131m\u0131z ya\u015fat\u0131r bu g\u00fczel k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fatmal\u0131y\u0131z \u00f6rf ve adetlerimizi. <b><\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131zla yans\u0131tmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en k\u00f6kl\u00fc, en g\u00fczel k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerinden biri olan g\u00fczel k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz, mutlaka ya\u015fat\u0131lmal\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fatmal\u0131y\u0131z onu:<\/p>\n<p>Dilimizle ya\u015fatmal\u0131y\u0131z,<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6rf ve adetlerimizle ya\u015fatmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimizle, cenazelerimizle ya\u015fatmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Birlikteli\u011fimizle, gen\u00e7li\u011fimizle ya\u015fatmal\u0131y\u0131z,<\/p>\n<p>Dergilerimizle, derneklerimizle ya\u015fatmal\u0131y\u0131z. <b><\/p>\n<p>Ve en \u00f6nemlisi,<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131zla yans\u0131tmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Yok olmamak i\u00e7in ba\u015fka \u015fans\u0131m\u0131z var m\u0131 Allah a\u015fk\u0131na?<\/p>\n<p>Ancak, \u201c bizlerin duygu birlikteli\u011fi ve duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n derinli\u011fi \u201c\u00a0 \u201csamimiyet ve heyecan\u0131m\u0131z \u201c ya\u015fat\u0131r bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc!<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa \u00e7ok k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede\u00a0 \u201c Babam \u00c7erkes\u2019ti ama ben\u2026\u201d diyen gen\u00e7lerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nan\u0131n \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var,\u00a0 y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 bu k\u00fclt\u00fcre, bu topluma adam\u0131\u015f,<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015fmi\u015f tecr\u00fcbeli, g\u00fczel insanlara,<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok muhtac\u0131z, onlar\u0131n de\u011ferli fikirlerine.<\/p>\n<p>Biz toplum olarak, samimiyet ve bilin\u00e7le ellerimizi tutu\u015fturur,<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00fcreklerimizi birle\u015ftirir, de\u011ferlerimizin de\u011ferini bilirsek,<\/p>\n<p>Kimse kimsenin y\u00fcre\u011fine, bile\u011fine basmazsa,<\/p>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha rahat \u00e7\u00f6zeriz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130sti\u015farelerle olu\u015fan genel ak\u0131l, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn devam\u0131 i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz olmal\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bu genel akl\u0131 do\u011fru kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z s\u00fcrece ba\u015far\u0131 bizlerle olacak, toplumumuzun dayan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, huzuru artacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eu asla unutulmamal\u0131!<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde birle\u015ferek b\u00fcy\u00fcyenlerin ya\u015fama hakk\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Birbirinin eksi\u011fiyle, ay\u0131b\u0131yla u\u011fra\u015fanlar\u0131nsa asla!<\/p>\n<p>Unutmayal\u0131m,<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fc\u00e7 uyumdad\u0131r,<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fc\u00e7, di\u011ferlerinin eksi\u011fini tamamlamadad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fc\u00e7, inan\u00e7ta, sevgide, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcdedir.<\/p>\n<p>De\u011ferli bir a\u011fabeyimizin ifadesiyle, biz, d\u0131\u015f toplumda ger\u00e7eklerle ya\u015farken realistiz. Fakat kendi toplumumuza d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde maalesef bir hayal \u00e2lemi olu\u015fuyor, duygular al\u0131veriyor d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizin yerini. Pop\u00fclist s\u00f6ylemlerden ge\u00e7ilmez oluyor ortam.<\/p>\n<p>Xabze elden gidiyor diye \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyoruz \u00e7o\u011fumuz.<\/p>\n<p>Neden acaba?<\/p>\n<p>Xabzelerimizi \u00e7a\u011fa g\u00f6re yenileyebiliyor muyuz?<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa geli\u015fen, de\u011fi\u015fen, k\u00fcreselle\u015fen d\u00fcnyada de\u011fi\u015fmeyecek \u0130lahi kanunlar m\u0131 san\u0131yoruz onlar\u0131?\u00a0<b><\/p>\n<p>Peki, toplum yap\u0131m\u0131z ge\u00e7mi\u015fle ayn\u0131 m\u0131 ki ge\u00e7mi\u015fin de\u011ferlerini ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde ya\u015fatabilelim?<\/p>\n<p>Ya da insan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n okuyamamas\u0131na,<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7lerimizin e\u011fitimsiz kalmas\u0131na, evlenememesine, i\u015fsiz, paras\u0131z kalmas\u0131na\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Daha bir\u00e7ok olumsuzlu\u011fa neden olan al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131, dedelerimiz de b\u00f6yle yapard\u0131 diye s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek, daha do\u011frusu s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak iki kez kaybetmek anlam\u0131na gelmiyor mu?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fi i\u00e7in s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclemeyecek xabzelerimiz yok mu acaba?<\/p>\n<p>Bu \u00e7a\u011fda ya\u015fat\u0131lmas\u0131 imk\u00e2ns\u0131z bir \u00f6rf ve \u00e2deti ya\u015fatma inad\u0131 bizleri \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f d\u00fcnyadan kopartmaz m\u0131?\u00a0<b><\/p>\n<p>Olmas\u0131 gereken, gelenek g\u00f6reneklerin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc koruyan, duygusall\u0131ktan uzak \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f bir yorum de\u011fil mi?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Bilgi de\u011fi\u015ftik\u00e7e k\u00fclt\u00fcrler de de\u011fi\u015fmiyor mu?<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fi\u015ferek \u00e7a\u011fa uyum sa\u011flam\u0131yor mu?<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fi\u015fmeyen tek \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fim de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<p>Bizler de de\u011fi\u015ferek daha h\u0131zl\u0131 geli\u015femez miyiz?<\/p>\n<p>Geli\u015ferek de\u011fi\u015fmez miyiz?<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar d\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinde b\u00f6yledir.<\/p>\n<p>Bizdeyse; acaba <b>\u00f6rf ve adetlerimizi maziye hapsedip hayattan m\u0131 \u00e7ekiyoruz?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Gelenekler, \u00e7a\u011fa g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fmeli, de\u011fi\u015ferek devam etmeli.<\/p>\n<p>Geli\u015fimini de\u011fi\u015fimle s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeli.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fcreselle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinde toplumlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f kodlamalar\u0131 da de\u011fi\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bu de\u011fi\u015fimler toplumsal duru\u015fumuzu da belirliyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok fonksiyonel olmal\u0131 xabzeler.<\/p>\n<p>Ne yaz\u0131k ki fonksiyonel olmayan xabzeler, yerini yenilere terk etmek zorundad\u0131r. <b><\/p>\n<p>Ayn\u0131 yerde, \u00e7ak\u0131l\u0131p kalmamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat art\u0131k ba\u015fka noktalarda ak\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7lik, do\u011fal olarak hayat\u0131n p\u0131r\u0131l p\u0131r\u0131l oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 odaklara bak\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7ler:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu xabze, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta benim nerede kar\u015f\u0131ma \u00e7\u0131kar?\u201d diyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBunlar benim ne i\u015fime yarar?\u201d diyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGeleneklerim, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta ne kadar fonksiyonel?\u201d diyor.<\/b>\u00a0<b><\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer gen\u00e7li\u011fimiz,<\/p>\n<p>Toplumumuzun ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn gelece\u011fiyse,<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer gen\u00e7lik,<\/p>\n<p>Doldurulmas\u0131 gereken bo\u015f \u015fi\u015fe de\u011fil, yak\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir me\u015faleyse,<\/p>\n<p>Konunun oda\u011f\u0131 gen\u00e7lerse,<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcr\u00fcl g\u00fcr\u00fcl onlar da kat\u0131lmal\u0131 kararlara.<\/p>\n<p>Hatta fazlas\u0131yla s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 olmal\u0131 onlar\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>De\u011filse, korkar\u0131m gelecek i\u00e7in kararlar alan bizler, havanda su d\u00f6vm\u00fc\u015f, kendi kendimize gelin g\u00fcvey olmu\u015f oluruz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu ise hi\u00e7birimizin istemedi\u011fi bir talihsizlik olur.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Unutulmas\u0131n bu bir e\u011fitim i\u015fidir ve uzun bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir.<\/p>\n<p>Katiyen kat\u0131 kurallarla, dayatmalarla olamaz.<\/p>\n<p>Sevdirece\u011fiz,<\/p>\n<p>Benimsetece\u011fiz,<\/p>\n<p>Anlataca\u011f\u0131z,<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131z, sab\u0131r ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcyle.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn kal\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bilginin ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, sevginin kucaklay\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kullanmakt\u0131r \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm.\u00a0<b><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f6z\u00fcn k\u0131sas\u0131, gen\u00e7lerimizin ruhunda diriltmeliyiz \u00f6rf ve adetlerimizi!<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131zla ya\u015famal\u0131y\u0131z gen\u00e7li\u011fimizin g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr, kitaplarda, dergilerde, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizin zihninde veya dernek sohbetlerinde kalmamal\u0131, ya\u015famal\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta.<\/p>\n<p>Fonksiyonel olmal\u0131 xabzeler.<\/p>\n<p>Geleneklerimizin ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131 isteyen her bilin\u00e7li birey, amat\u00f6r bir ruhla ama profesyonelce bakmal\u0131 olaya, y\u00fcre\u011fini katmal\u0131 bu i\u015fe.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7abalar gen\u00e7li\u011fimiz, gelece\u011fimiz i\u00e7inse, gen\u00e7lerimizi daha fazla ciddiye almal\u0131, onlara daha g\u00fczel modeller olmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7 kimse gen\u00e7leri doldurulmas\u0131 gereken bo\u015f \u015fi\u015fe gibi g\u00f6rmesin. <b><\/p>\n<p>\u201cZira gen\u00e7lik doldurulmas\u0131 gereken bo\u015f \u015fi\u015fe de\u011fil, yak\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir me\u015faledir.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak&ccedil;&#305; 03.03.2007 Bizlerin duygu birlikteli&#287;i, duyarl&#305;l&#305;&#287;&#305;m&#305;z&#305;n derinli&#287;i, samimiyet ve heyecan&#305;m&#305;z ya&#351;at&#305;r bu g&uuml;zel k&uuml;lt&uuml;r&uuml;. Ya&#351;atmal&#305;y&#305;z &ouml;rf ve adetlerimizi. Ya&#351;ant&#305;m&#305;zla yans&#305;tmal&#305;y&#305;z. D&uuml;nyan&#305;n en k&ouml;kl&uuml;, en g&uuml;zel k&uuml;lt&uuml;rlerinden biri olan g&uuml;zel k&uuml;lt&uuml;r&uuml;m&uuml;z, mutlaka ya&#351;at&#305;lmal&#305;. Ya&#351;atmal&#305;y&#305;z onu: Dilimizle ya&#351;atmal&#305;y&#305;z, &Ouml;rf ve adetlerimizle ya&#351;atmal&#305;y&#305;z. D&uuml;&#287;&uuml;nlerimizle, cenazelerimizle ya&#351;atmal&#305;y&#305;z. Birlikteli&#287;imizle, gen&ccedil;li&#287;imizle ya&#351;atmal&#305;y&#305;z, Dergilerimizle, derneklerimizle ya&#351;atmal&#305;y&#305;z. Ve en &ouml;nemlisi, Ya&#351;ant&#305;m&#305;zla 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