{"id":7505,"date":"2023-12-13T01:46:18","date_gmt":"2023-12-13T07:46:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=7505"},"modified":"2023-12-13T18:09:01","modified_gmt":"2023-12-14T00:09:01","slug":"adige-delikanlilari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/adige-delikanlilari\/","title":{"rendered":"AD\u0130GE DEL\u0130KANLILARI"},"content":{"rendered":"

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JABAGJ\u0130 Baj<\/strong>
\n<\/span><\/span> Adigeler Kitab\u0131ndan<\/p>\n

Delikanl\u0131 deyimi Adigelerde ergenlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 gelmi\u015f gen\u00e7 anlam\u0131nda kullan\u0131lmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Adige \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 on ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7ince art\u0131k delikanl\u0131 say\u0131l\u0131r. Kendilerinden mertlik \u00f6zellikleri beklenir ve istenir.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Bunu sa\u011flama konusunda Adige g\u00f6rg\u00fc y\u00f6ntemleri rekabet kabul etmez. A\u011f\u0131tlar\u0131, \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131 hala dillerde dola\u015fan Prens (P\u015fikoy) Rus ordusuna sald\u0131rarak \u00fcnl\u00fc Ba\u015f Komutan General Zass\u2019\u0131 at\u0131ndan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya att\u0131\u011f\u0131, generalin bindi\u011fi at\u0131 al\u0131p getirdi\u011fi, o kanl\u0131 sava\u015fta \u00fc\u00e7 kez at yararak de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011fi, ancak kendisi yorulmayarak: “At\u0131m\u0131 sevgilime g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131 tuzlu su ak\u0131t\u0131rken kendisi kanl\u0131 su ak\u0131ts\u0131n” diyerek \u015fehit oldu\u011fu zaman hen\u00fcz ergenlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na gelmemi\u015fti. De\u011fi\u015fik sava\u015flarda sekiz yara alm\u0131\u015f olan \u015eeruluk, \u015fehit oldu\u011funda on d\u00f6rt ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n y\u00fckseklik derecesini g\u00f6steren bu gibi cesaret \u00f6rnekleri pek \u00e7oktur. Onlardaki bu yetene\u011fi do\u011fan\u0131n onlara verdi\u011fi \u00f6zel bir ayr\u0131cal\u0131k olarak kabul etmek yerindedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u00fcksek bir ruh ta\u015f\u0131yan Adige delikanl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011flam ki\u015filikleri hi\u00e7 bir konuda ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan geri kalmas\u0131na izin vermez. Kendisine onur ve makam olu\u015fturacak tek arac\u0131n soyu ve serveti de\u011fil, \u00e7ok ba\u015fka \u00f6zellikler oldu\u011funu bilir. Bundan dolay\u0131 Adige delikanl\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n hepsinde \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck iddias\u0131 ve \u015f\u00f6hret e\u011filimi fazlad\u0131r. Sava\u015f meydan\u0131nda, toplant\u0131larda, e\u011flencelerde y\u00fcksek g\u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fcyle, y\u00fcksek ki\u015fili\u011fiyle ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131na y\u00fcksek oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Delikanl\u0131 ars\u0131z de\u011fildir. Ancak acizlik bilmez. Uyu\u015fuk ve sessiz ya\u015fam\u0131 sevmez. Sonsuz \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck diyar\u0131 olan bir yerde do\u011fup b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ok iyi bilir. Hareketli ve atak bir ortam i\u00e7inde canl\u0131 ve hareketli olmak gerekti\u011fini bilir. Bundan dolay\u0131 ortama uymaya \u00e7aba g\u00f6sterir. S\u00f6z kendisine d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman olduk\u00e7a rahat konu\u015fur sorununu dile getirir. \u00d6zellikle toplant\u0131larda g\u00fczel s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemek, Adigelerce \u00e7ok onurlu bir \u00f6zellik say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, o gibi yerlerde s\u0131k\u0131lmak, kekelemek, beceriksiz davranmak delikanl\u0131 i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6z\u00fcr ve ay\u0131p say\u0131l\u0131r. Bundan s\u00f6z ederken Mr.Bell aynen a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131 yap\u0131yor: “Meclislerde halk i\u015flerini g\u00f6rme s\u0131ras\u0131nda, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir toplulu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 insanlar\u0131n hi\u00e7 s\u0131k\u0131lmayarak kolayl\u0131kla anlat\u0131c\u0131 ve g\u00fczel konu\u015fmalarda bulunmas\u0131 beni hayran b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bu g\u00fczel \u00f6rnek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe, topluluklar\u0131n \u00e7ok\u00e7a olmas\u0131na, genel \u00e7\u0131kar i\u00e7in herkesin b\u00fcy\u00fck ilgi g\u00f6stermesine yorumlanabilir. Serbest konu\u015fanlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde hepsinin \u00fcst\u00fcnde iki ki\u015fi mert\u00e7e, hatip tav\u0131rlar ile benim \u015fimdiye kadar Ayan ve millet meclislerinde avukatlar toplant\u0131lar\u0131nda, tiyatro sahnelerinde se\u00e7kin olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerimin hepsiyle rekabet ederler”<\/p>\n

G\u00fczel s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemeye, serbest s\u00f6yleve al\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in delikanl\u0131lar, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortamlarda al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rma yaparlar. Aralar\u0131nda yapt\u0131klar\u0131 muhabbet toplant\u0131lar\u0131nda bu yeteneklerini geli\u015ftirirler. Ayr\u0131ca bu toplant\u0131lar bir g\u00f6rg\u00fc okuludur. Toplant\u0131lar a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. Gen\u00e7ler orada g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri kurallar\u0131, gerekli g\u00f6rd\u00fck\u00e7e g\u00f6stermeye haz\u0131rlanmak zorundad\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Mr.Bell diyor ki: Adigeler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini canl\u0131, \u00e7o\u011funlukla a\u00e7\u0131k ve h\u0131zl\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde ortaya koyma konusunda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck g\u00f6steriyorlar. Halk, do\u011falar\u0131 gere\u011fi tart\u0131\u015fma ve de\u011ferlendirmeye al\u0131\u015fk\u0131n olduklar\u0131ndan \u00e7o\u011fu kez k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feyler i\u00e7in tart\u0131\u015fma olur.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte bu e\u011fitimin sonucu olarak delikanl\u0131lar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda do\u011fal bir serbestlik, ger\u00e7ek bir kibarl\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Ba\u015fka uluslarda h\u00fck\u00fcmdar dairelerine ait say\u0131lan y\u00fcksek nezaket ve inceli\u011fi Adige delikanl\u0131lar\u0131 do\u011fal bir ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imi olarak \u00f6\u011frenirler. Bu nedenle davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda ikiy\u00fczl\u00fcl\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez, temiz bir do\u011fall\u0131k g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n

Nefsini dizginlemek Adige olman\u0131n birinci ko\u015fulu oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in Adige delikanl\u0131s\u0131 hi\u00e7 bir hareketinde k\u00f6t\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klara d\u00fc\u015fmez. Her konuda \u201cVERK\u0130\u011e\u201d yani kibarl\u0131k onun rehberi olur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kibarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ihmal etmeyi insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u0131rakmakla bir tutar.<\/p>\n

Adige delikanl\u0131s\u0131 korku bilmez. Y\u00fcrek, ak\u0131l, irade onun i\u00e7in esas oldu\u011fu gibi cesareti cahilce de\u011fil ak\u0131ll\u0131ca yapmak ister. Bundan dolay\u0131 Adigeler; \u201ccesurdan korkma o, cesaretini hakl\u0131 i\u015flerde m\u00fccadelede g\u00f6sterir\u201d derler. Delikanl\u0131lar\u0131n medeni cesaret konusundaki Mr. Bell\u2019in \u00f6nceden anlat\u0131lan s\u00f6zleri de dikkate de\u011fer. \u201cOnlarda korku b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kusur say\u0131l\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n

Adige delikanl\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n kahraman yeti\u015fmesindeki etkenlerden biri de \u015fiirleridir. Onlarda cinsellik duygular\u0131na seslenen \u015fiirler yoktur. Dans m\u00fczikleri d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda b\u00fct\u00fcn \u015fiirleri yi\u011fitli\u011fe, iyiliklere ili\u015fkin ta\u015flama ile a\u011f\u0131tlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Her olay \u00fczerine Adige ozanlar\u0131 olayda kendini g\u00f6sterenlerin \u00f6vg\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc, becerisizlik g\u00f6sterenlerin ta\u015flamas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steren \u015fiirler s\u00f6ylerler. B\u00f6yle \u015fiirler erkek, k\u0131z herkesin dilinde dola\u015f\u0131r. Her toplulukta kahramanlar\u0131n ad\u0131 sayg\u0131yla an\u0131l\u0131r, beceriksizlerin de adlar\u0131 alay ile yinelenir. Bu hareket delikanl\u0131lar\u0131n erdem ve g\u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fcne b\u00fcy\u00fck etkiler yapar ve delikanl\u0131 bu \u00f6vg\u00fclerde ad\u0131 ge\u00e7sin diye \u00fcn ve onur sahibi olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in harikalar yaratmak a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Mr.J.BELL diyor ki: \u201cHer t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00f6rg\u00fctten ve ara\u00e7tan yoksun olan Adigelerin Rusya’ya kar\u015f\u0131 bu denli uzun s\u00fcre diren\u00e7 g\u00f6stermelerindeki gizem ve bilgeli\u011fi bilmek isteyenler i\u00e7in \u015fu iki nedenden ba\u015fka bir \u015fey bulamad\u0131m. Birincisi, herkesi sosyal g\u00f6revini yapmaya zorlayan sosyal duygu, ikincisi, bireyler aras\u0131nda kahramanl\u0131k konusunda rekabet bulunmas\u0131d\u0131r. ”<\/p>\n

Adige delikanl\u0131lar\u0131 ile k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n toplant\u0131larda serbest ve beraberce bulunmalar\u0131nda erkeklerin mert ve nazik g\u00f6rg\u00fcl\u00fc davranmalar\u0131 da \u00f6nemli bir etkendir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u0131zlar\u0131n sayg\u0131 ve arzusu, erke\u011fin varl\u0131k ve d\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnden \u00e7ok kibarl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, mertlik \u00f6zelliklerindeki \u00fcn\u00fcnedir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

JABAGJİ Baj Adigeler Kitabından Delikanlı deyimi Adigelerde ergenlik çağı gelmiş genç anlamında kullanılmaz. Çünkü Adige çocukları on yaşını geçince artık delikanlı sayılır. Kendilerinden mertlik özellikleri beklenir ve istenir. Bunu sağlama konusunda Adige görgü yöntemleri rekabet kabul etmez. Ağıtları, şarkıları hala dillerde dolaşan Prens (Pşikoy) Rus ordusuna saldırarak ünlü Baş Komutan General Zass’ı atından aşağıya attığı, 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