{"id":7694,"date":"2019-03-08T18:01:05","date_gmt":"2019-03-08T18:01:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=7694"},"modified":"2019-03-08T18:01:05","modified_gmt":"2019-03-08T18:01:05","slug":"yoneticilerimiz-ve-kimlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/yoneticilerimiz-ve-kimlik\/","title":{"rendered":"Y\u00d6NET\u0130C\u0130LER\u0130M\u0130Z ve K\u0130ML\u0130K"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/z-2013-Images-2\/419.JPG\" alt=\"\" width=\"417\" height=\"305\" \/><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"><b>GHUNEKHO K. \u00d6zbay<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span lang=\"tr\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00c7erkesler kendi i\u00e7lerinde bir \u00e7ok alanda oldu\u011fu gibi y\u00f6netici ve idarecilerimizde \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ben bunlardan dernek ba\u015fkanlar\u0131m\u0131za de\u011finmek istiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Derneklerimizin y\u00f6netimlerinde her meslekten, her konumda insanlar\u0131m\u0131z yer almakta, al\u0131yor da. Ancak, \u00c7erkes olarak bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda baz\u0131 enteresanl\u0131klar\u0131 da g\u00f6rmekteyiz. G\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz ancak \u00fczerinde de durmay\u0131z. Sizlere bu konuda i\u00e7imizde birini, yani a\u011fabeyim C. \u00d6zbay&#8217;\u0131 tan\u0131tmak istiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Kendisi \u00f6z\u00fcnde \u00e7ok iyi bir ki\u015fi. Kimsenin kalbini k\u0131rmaz ve herkese de yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda 60 y\u0131llar\u0131ndan beri derneklerimizde y\u00f6neticilik ve yaz\u0131lar\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kmakta. Evet bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda her \u015fey g\u00fczelde; kendisi iyi bir \u00c7erkes aile babas\u0131 olabilmi\u015f midir?<\/p>\n<p>C. \u00d6zbay, 22 ya\u015flar\u0131nda Slav (Bo\u015fnak) k\u00f6kenli biriyle evlenir. \u00dc\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fu olur ve isimlerini Setenay, Nart, Canset koyar. K\u0131zlar\u0131 \u00c7erkes olmayanlarla evlilik yapt\u0131lar ve Nart\u2019\u0131n da bunlardan fark\u0131n\u0131n olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sanm\u0131yorum. Ailede \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n e\u011fitimi anneden ba\u015flar. Annenin k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi \u00e7ocu\u011fun yeti\u015fmesinde en b\u00fcy\u00fck etkendir. Y\u0131llard\u0131r \u00c7erkes, \u00c7erkeslik diyen a\u011fabeyim, \u00c7erkeslik ad\u0131na \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na bir \u015fey veremedi. Bunun gibileri de derneklerimizde mevcut. Hatta kendileri \u00e7ok faaller ve her zamanda \u00f6n saflardad\u0131rlar. \u0130\u015fte sorunda bu noktada ba\u015flamakta. Hem \u00c7erkeslikten bahsedeceksin, hem gelece\u011fimiz olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z ba\u015fka kimliklere endeksleyeceksin. Bunlar\u0131n durumunu bir hata olarak da g\u00f6rmemiz m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncede olanlar\u0131m\u0131z ne kadarda mutlu g\u00f6r\u00fcnseler de \u00c7erkes\u2019iz deseler de kendilerini kand\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131 gibi bizleri de kand\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 san\u0131rlar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00c7erkeslik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi olan ulusunun gelecekle ilgili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinde olanlar, \u00c7erkeslik d\u0131\u015f\u0131 evlilik yapmazlar. Demek ki bunlar kendi kimliklerinin fark\u0131nda de\u011filler, vard\u0131klar\u0131nda da ge\u00e7 kalm\u0131\u015f olurlar. O halde, neden \u00f6n saflarda olduklar\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131ndan, ezilmi\u015fliklerinden kurtulma isteminin yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu konuyla ilgili y\u0131llar \u00f6nce BLENEGHAPTSE Bekir \u00d6z\u00fctemiz Bey \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti:<br \/>\n&#8211; E\u015fim \u00c7erkes de\u011fil, k\u0131zlar\u0131m var, ya\u015fant\u0131mdan da s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131m yok ama, onlar\u0131 \u00c7erkes yapam\u0131yorum. Mutfa\u011fa girdi\u011fimde hal\u0131jhun kokusu burnumda t\u00fct\u00fcyor, ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 mutluyuz diye kimli\u011fimizin \u00fcst\u00fcne kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Daha sonralar\u0131 k\u0131zlar\u0131 da ba\u015fkala\u015fm\u0131\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>Do\u011fal olarak i\u00e7lerinde bedelini \u00f6deyen, \u00f6detilenlerde var. Bunlar\u0131n d\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131n\u0131 da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyorum ama \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda kimli\u011fimizi a\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131y\u0131z ki bu sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015famayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Evet, konular\u0131 biraz da\u011f\u0131n\u0131k olarak yazarken y\u00f6neticilerimizin olmas\u0131 gereken vas\u0131flar\u0131n\u0131 da belirmek istiyorum:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Dernek ba\u015fkan\u0131 ve y\u00f6neticilerimiz mutlaka \u00c7erkes olmal\u0131.<br \/>\n&#8211; Bu y\u00f6neticilerimizin de e\u015flerinin \u00c7erkes olmas\u0131 gerekli.<br \/>\n&#8211; Ana dillerini konu\u015fabilmeli, okuyabilmeli, yazabilmeli.<br \/>\n&#8211; Genel olarak y\u00fcksek okul mezunu, meslek sahibi ve yabanc\u0131 dil bilmeli.<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 mutlak surette \u00c7erkes ortam\u0131nda ve evlilikleri de \u00c7erkeslerle olmal\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ben bunlar\u0131n gelece\u011fimize y\u00f6nelik kurallar aras\u0131na kat\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorum, bu benim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncem ama \u015fovende de\u011filim. Toplumumuzun gelece\u011fi \u00c7erkes\u2019im diyenlerin elinde oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yorum. Kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olana da &#8220;sen ne bi\u00e7im \u00c7erkes\u2019sin&#8221; diye sorulmaz m\u0131?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>GHUNEKHO K. &Ouml;zbay &Ccedil;erkesler kendi i&ccedil;lerinde bir &ccedil;ok alanda oldu&#287;u gibi y&ouml;netici ve idarecilerimizde &ccedil;&#305;km&#305;&#351;t&#305;r. Ben bunlardan dernek ba&#351;kanlar&#305;m&#305;za de&#287;inmek istiyorum. Derneklerimizin y&ouml;netimlerinde her meslekten, her konumda insanlar&#305;m&#305;z yer almakta, al&#305;yor da. Ancak, &Ccedil;erkes olarak bakt&#305;&#287;&#305;m&#305;zda baz&#305; enteresanl&#305;klar&#305; da g&ouml;rmekteyiz. G&ouml;r&uuml;r&uuml;z ancak &uuml;zerinde de durmay&#305;z. 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