{"id":772,"date":"2019-02-20T17:33:22","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:33:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=772"},"modified":"2019-02-20T17:33:22","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T17:33:22","slug":"genclerimiz-gelecegin-buyukleri-gibi-mi-yetisiyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/genclerimiz-gelecegin-buyukleri-gibi-mi-yetisiyor\/","title":{"rendered":"GEN\u00c7LER\u0130M\u0130Z, GELECE\u011e\u0130N B\u00dcY\u00dcKLER\u0130 G\u0130B\u0130 M\u0130 YET\u0130\u015e\u0130YOR?"},"content":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131
\n<\/strong>08.09.2007<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00fcvenebiliyor muyuz gen\u00e7lerimize?<\/span><\/p>\n

Yolunu a\u00e7abiliyor muyuz onlar\u0131n?<\/span><\/p>\n

Yeteri gibi model olabiliyor muyuz?<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f6ze hep \u201cBizim d\u00f6nemimizde\u201d diyerek ba\u015flamak yerine, <\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00fcnyan\u0131n ne kadar de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz \u015fartlar\u0131n\u0131n neleri gerektirdi\u011fini kavrayabiliyor, kavratabiliyor muyuz?<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn y\u00fckselen de\u011ferlerinin fark\u0131nda m\u0131y\u0131z?<\/span><\/p>\n

Yoksa ge\u00e7mi\u015fe tak\u0131l\u0131p kalm\u0131\u015f \u201cBildi\u011fim bildik, \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u2026\u201d diyenlerden miyiz?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sevgili gen\u00e7lerimizin donan\u0131mlar\u0131 iyi mi?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130nsani ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel boyutlar\u0131 yeterli mi?<\/span><\/p>\n

Yoksa hala 45 ya\u015f\u0131ndakileri \u00e7ocuk mu say\u0131yoruz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Toplumumuzda hala s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 al\u0131p konu\u015fabilme, fikirlerini ortaya koyabilme ya\u015f\u0131 50 mi?<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Evlenme ya\u015f\u0131 30 -35 mi?<\/span><\/p>\n

E\u011fer \u00f6yleyse, thamade olma ya\u015f\u0131 65- 70\u2019tir mutlaka!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Tecr\u00fcbe g\u00fczel, <\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00fcy\u00fcye sayg\u0131 harika da <\/span><\/p>\n

Ya bu ya\u015fta kulaklar duymuyor, g\u00f6zler se\u00e7emiyorsa?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Thamade m\u00fcessesesi gibi hayati \u00f6nemi olan bir konuda, yani ba\u015fkan, s\u00f6z sahibi, lider se\u00e7iminde bu vas\u0131flar kabul \u015fartlar\u0131 olmamal\u0131 art\u0131k!<\/span><\/p>\n

Olacaksa \u00c7erkeslerin vasat \u00f6mr\u00fc 150 olmal\u0131.<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Kald\u0131 ki bu i\u015fleri lay\u0131k\u0131yla yapabilecek vas\u0131fl\u0131lar varken.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dinamik, sosyal, kariyer sahibi ki\u015filer dururken.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

De\u011fi\u015fmeliyiz baz\u0131 konularda.<\/span><\/p>\n

De\u011fi\u015ftirmeliyiz uymayanlar\u0131, hantalla\u015fanlar\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Buna mecburuz, duygusall\u0131\u011fa asla yer yok bu konuda.
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

Neden d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn- nik\u00e2h ve cenazelerde vitrine ge\u00e7leri de koyarak onlar\u0131n bu sosyal ortamda e\u011fitilmelerine katk\u0131 sa\u011flam\u0131yoruz? <\/span><\/p>\n

Neden onlar\u0131n toplumsal e\u011fitimine daha fazla \u00f6nem vermiyoruz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Neden hala \u00f6\u011frenmeyi dayat\u0131yoruz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Neden model olam\u0131yoruz?<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f6zlerimiz ve uyar\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zdan ziyade davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla, neden benim gibi ol, benim gibi ya\u015f diyemiyoruz?<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Neden acaba 20-25 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki t\u0131\u011f gibi delikanl\u0131lara gere\u011fi gibi g\u00fcvenmiyoruz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Neden bu sosyal aktivitelerde gen\u00e7lerimiz gelece\u011fin b\u00fcy\u00fckleri gibi de\u011fil?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu konuda biz b\u00fcy\u00fckler az m\u0131 su\u00e7luyuz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bir e\u011fitim alan\u0131, bir okul hatta fak\u00fclte olmas\u0131 gereken bu sosyal olaylarda, o zarif g\u00fczel k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, p\u0131r\u0131l p\u0131r\u0131l delikanl\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n aktif rol almalar\u0131n\u0131 adeta tecr\u00fcbelilerin yan\u0131nda staj g\u00f6rmelerini kim engelliyor?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya nadiren de olsa aktif rol alan olursa ya\u015f\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 nas\u0131l bir bask\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyor?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne zaman g\u00fczel geleneklerimizle donataca\u011f\u0131z onlar\u0131?<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Ne zaman tek ba\u015f\u0131na ya\u015f\u0131n \u00f6nemli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kavrayaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne zaman uygun olan her toplumda \u00fcslubuyla gen\u00e7lerin de konu\u015fmas\u0131, icraya kat\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlayaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne zaman onlara bu konuda \u00f6z g\u00fcven kazand\u0131raca\u011f\u0131z?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne zaman 35- 40 ya\u015f\u0131nda gayet sosyal, meslek sahibi, toplum taraf\u0131ndan sevilen, takdir edilen, bilin\u00e7li, \u015fuurlu hitabeti yerinde, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve dengeli beyinler konu\u015facak, dinlenecek, yeri gelince Thamade olacak? <\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Ne zaman ya\u015f\u0131, deneyimleri i\u00e7in ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n tac\u0131 olan o g\u00fczel b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz, hassasiyetlerini yitirdikleri i\u00e7in onursal thamadeli\u011fe ge\u00e7ip ba\u015fk\u00f6\u015fede oturacaklar?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu toplumda gen\u00e7 beyinler mutlaka devreye girmeli!<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Sosyal etkinlikleri y\u00fcr\u00fcten kadrolar acilen gen\u00e7le\u015fmeli!<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7ler konu\u015fmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kat\u0131lmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Co\u015fmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kat\u0131larak, konu\u015farak, eksikli\u011fini anlar, b\u00f6ylece kendini lay\u0131k\u0131yla yeti\u015ftirir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yoksa thamade m\u00fcessesesinin i\u00e7i bo\u015fal\u0131r, biter!<\/span><\/p>\n

De\u011filse her k\u00f6yde, her mahallede \u00c7erkeslik birka\u00e7 ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n tekelinde kal\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yenilenemeyen, nefes alamayan k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz de g\u00fcd\u00fckle\u015fir, bu birka\u00e7 ya\u015fl\u0131yla geleneklerimiz de d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayan yere gider!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7lerden \u015fik\u00e2yet\u00e7i olmak, \u201c Bunlar bilmiyor, anlam\u0131yor, konu\u015fam\u0131yor, ya\u015fam\u0131yor.\u201d serzeni\u015fleri hangi problemlerimizi \u00e7\u00f6zer?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne \u00f6\u011frettik ki ne istiyoruz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne kadar \u00f6rnek olabildik? <\/span><\/p>\n

Ne kadar empati kurabildik?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne kadar g\u00fcvendik onlara?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne kadar g\u00fcler y\u00fczle kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131k k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hatalar\u0131n\u0131?<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u0131rak\u0131n bunlar\u0131, belki arkada\u015f gibi konu\u015fmay\u0131, onlar\u0131 ba\u011fr\u0131m\u0131za basmay\u0131 ay\u0131p sand\u0131k, otoritemizin sars\u0131laca\u011f\u0131na inand\u0131k! \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu toplumda bizim \u00f6\u011fretemediklerimizi \u00f6\u011fretecek okul mu var?<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Yurt mu var? <\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc kurulu\u015flar m\u0131 var. <\/span><\/p>\n

Varsa yoksa ailelerimiz. <\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ve cenazelerimiz. <\/span><\/p>\n

Derneklerimiz de\u011fil mi sermayemiz! \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya derneklerimiz\u2026<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Bilincinde miyiz?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya gen\u00e7ler? <\/span><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7ler de bu hassasiyetin bilincinde olmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tecr\u00fcbeyle donanmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130stekli olmal\u0131, sahan\u0131n kenar\u0131nda de\u011fil olay\u0131n ortas\u0131nda bulunmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fonda yer almay\u0131p \u00f6zne olmal\u0131!<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Duyarl\u0131lar, duyars\u0131zlar\u0131 kucaklamal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7lik, bu i\u015fin bilincine varmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7, s\u00f6zde de\u011fil, \u00f6zde \u00c7erkes olmal\u0131!<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00fcy\u00fcklerin her do\u011frusunu kapmal\u0131, m\u00fckemmel bir ki\u015filik olu\u015fturmal\u0131. <\/span><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7, \u201ckafe\u201dve \u201cka\u015fenli\u011fin\u201d \u00f6tesine ge\u00e7ebilmeli.<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00fcvenmeli kendisine.<\/span><\/p>\n

E\u011fitmeli kendisini.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bilmeli ki bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc gelece\u011fe gen\u00e7ler ta\u015f\u0131yacak,<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Bilmeli ki gen\u00e7leri iyi yeti\u015fmeyen toplumlar yok olacak!<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Bu \u015fuurla kimli\u011fi ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle kucakla\u015fmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00fcy\u00fcklerin a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 yoldan, ciddiyet ve vakar\u0131yla asilleri oynamal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne diyor b\u00fcy\u00fck Jaba\u011f\u0131: \u201cAsalet, kanda de\u011fil ruhtad\u0131r, as\u0131l oldu\u011funuzu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla ispat ediniz!\u201d<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7lerin yolunu a\u00e7al\u0131m!<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

E\u011fitelim onlar\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130nanal\u0131m, g\u00fcvenelim onlara!<\/span><\/p>\n

Hep \u00f6rnek olal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnleri, cenazeleri daima f\u0131rsat bilelim!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6\u011frenmeye mecbur tutmadan, sevdirerek, sindirerek \u00f6\u011fretelim k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerini, inan\u00e7 de\u011ferlerini.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131ral\u0131m onlar\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve inan\u00e7 kitaplar\u0131yla.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kitab\u0131n hayat\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funu sezdirelim.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130nan\u00e7s\u0131z ya\u015fanamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kavratal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u015eiirle akal\u0131m g\u00f6n\u00fcllere.<\/span><\/p>\n

Romanla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131ral\u0131m, ufuk kazand\u0131ral\u0131m onlara.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hik\u00e2yeleri, gazeteleri birlikte okuyal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131 birlikte tan\u0131yarak, do\u011fru ya\u015fayal\u0131m. <\/span><\/b> \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7ler, gelece\u011fin b\u00fcy\u00fckleri gibi yeti\u015fmeli.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thamadeler gen\u00e7le\u015fmeli!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 08.09.2007 Güvenebiliyor muyuz gençlerimize? Yolunu açabiliyor muyuz onların? Yeteri gibi model olabiliyor muyuz? Söze hep “Bizim dönemimizde” diyerek başlamak yerine, Dünyanın ne kadar değiştiğini, günümüz şartlarının neleri gerektirdiğini kavrayabiliyor, kavratabiliyor muyuz? Günümüzün yükselen değerlerinin farkında mıyız? Yoksa geçmişe takılıp kalmış “Bildiğim bildik, çaldığım …” diyenlerden miyiz?  Sevgili gençlerimizin donanımları iyi mi? 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