{"id":8216,"date":"2024-08-21T01:32:31","date_gmt":"2024-08-21T06:32:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=8216"},"modified":"2024-08-21T17:38:53","modified_gmt":"2024-08-21T22:38:53","slug":"h-amca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/h-amca\/","title":{"rendered":"H… AMCA"},"content":{"rendered":"

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GONEP<\/span>\u015eEY Nursel Yavuz & KE\u00c7-I <\/span> S\u00fcleyman Yavuz<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Xabze; dedi\u011fimizde sadece akl\u0131m\u0131za k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcze ait uyulmas\u0131 gereken kurallar silsilesi gelir. Peki bunlarda eksiklik, yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131k oldu\u011funda ne olurdu?<\/p>\n

Yer D\u00fczce; san\u0131r\u0131m 1974 y\u0131l\u0131yd\u0131, \u00e7ok de\u011ferli bir ablam\u0131z t\u00f6reye ait t\u00fcm gereklerin yerine getirildi\u011fi bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sonu gelin edilir, \u0130stanbul\u2019da ikamet eden bir bizdenlere.<\/p>\n

H\u2026. Amca eskilerden, bela! \u00d6yle ha deyince hemen yeme\u011fe \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmaz k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 ve damad\u0131 t\u00f6resine dair. San\u0131r\u0131m be\u015f ya da alt\u0131 ay sonrayd\u0131, davetinin haberini g\u00f6nderir H\u2026. amca. Erkek taraf\u0131 t\u00f6re gere\u011fi icazet eder davete ve davette ya\u015fananlar eksiksiz. Gel gelelim son vedala\u015fma an\u0131na kadar. (K\u0131z, evinde kalacakt\u0131r bir m\u00fcddet ta ki babas\u0131, yeni akrabalar\u0131na haber g\u00f6nderip gelin diyene kadar, bu tasarrufta babaya aittir.)<\/p>\n

Yenilir i\u00e7ilir sohbetlenir, s\u0131ra izin fasl\u0131ndad\u0131r gere\u011fine uygun al\u0131n\u0131r izin, u\u011furlamalar, kap\u0131da! Tam o anda nas\u0131l olur bilinmez kaynana bir hataya d\u00fc\u015fer;
\n– K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ne zaman gelip alal\u0131m?
\nH\u2026. Amca \u2018\u2019\u015eu vogu maf\u2019\u2019 (yolunuz ayd\u0131n olsun).<\/p>\n

Tam\u0131 tam\u0131na iki y\u0131l s\u00fcrd\u00fc bu s\u00fcre\u00e7, araya giren onca hat\u0131r\u015finas insanlar oldu\u011fu halde. Benim ya\u015fam\u0131mda tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m, tek evli duldu K\u2026 abla, t\u00f6re kurban\u0131.<\/p>\n

T\u00f6re kurban\u0131 dedim. Peki H\u2026. amca \u00e7ok haks\u0131z m\u0131yd\u0131 t\u00f6reye dair?<\/p>\n

O s\u0131cac\u0131k yuva ya\u015fam\u0131na mutluluklar\u0131yla devam ediyor \u015fimdilerde, ancak bizim, bize, bizeli\u011fimizi hat\u0131rlatacak H \u2026. amcalar\u0131m\u0131z?<\/p>\n

Hakk\u0131n rahmetinde\u2026 Mekan\u0131n Cennet olsun H \u2026. amca\u2026 Ben senin \u00f6dedi\u011fin bedeli anl\u0131yorum bir baba olarak, sen neereee biz nereeee\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

GONEPŞEY Nursel Yavuz & KEÇ-I Süleyman Yavuz Xabze; dediğimizde sadece aklımıza kültürümüze ait uyulması gereken kurallar silsilesi gelir. Peki bunlarda eksiklik, yanlışlık olduğunda ne olurdu? Yer Düzce; sanırım 1974 yılıydı, çok değerli bir ablamız töreye ait tüm gereklerin yerine getirildiği bir düğün sonu gelin edilir, İstanbul’da ikamet eden bir bizdenlere. H…. Amca eskilerden, bela! 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