{"id":840,"date":"2019-02-20T18:01:06","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T18:01:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=840"},"modified":"2019-02-20T18:01:06","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T18:01:06","slug":"hepimiz-bu-tasin-altina-elimizi-koyalim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/hepimiz-bu-tasin-altina-elimizi-koyalim\/","title":{"rendered":"HEP\u0130M\u0130Z BU TA\u015eIN ALTINA EL\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130 KOYALIM"},"content":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131
\n<\/strong>28.06.2008<\/span><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7lik uyumsuzsa, sorumsuzsa, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel ve moral de\u011ferleri eksikse,<\/span><\/p>\n

Dili yetersizse, b\u00fcy\u00fckler ilgisizse, \u00fcmitsizse,<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7evre elveri\u015fsizse, hayat ac\u0131mas\u0131zsa,<\/span><\/p>\n

Sorumlular kendi halindeyse,<\/span><\/p>\n

Anne babalar \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fczse, s\u00f6yleyin kim su\u00e7lu?<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Hayallerimizin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesi iyi bir neslin yeti\u015fmesine ba\u011fl\u0131ysa,<\/span><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7li\u011fimizin durumu belliyse, acilen bir \u015feyler yapmak gerekliyse,<\/span><\/p>\n

Kim yapmal\u0131<\/b>, nerden ba\u015flamal\u0131, nas\u0131l yapmal\u0131? <\/b><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/p>\n

Abart\u0131yor muyum yoksa gen\u00e7li\u011fimizin durumunu?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130ki derede bir arada s\u0131k\u0131\u015fan gen\u00e7lerimizi,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Biz b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin, (iyi niyetle de olsa) 21 May\u0131slarla olu\u015fturdu\u011fu anavatan, ata vatan, ara vatan kavram karma\u015fas\u0131yla<\/b> \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nen gen\u00e7li\u011fimizi,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Gurbet hikayeleri ve s\u00fcrg\u00fcn sendromuyla<\/b> \u00fcmitsizle\u015fen evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBu diyarlar bizim de\u011fil, hadi evimize d\u00f6nelim!<\/b>\u201d s\u00f6ylemleriyle kafas\u0131 karmakar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olan neslimizi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Anavatan\u0131 bilmeyen, tan\u0131mayan veya yanl\u0131\u015f, eksik bilen gen\u00e7lerimizi,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Atalar\u0131n\u0131n diyar\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, oralara d\u00f6nemedi\u011finden, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 diyarlar\u0131 benimseyemedi\u011finden, k\u00f6k salamayan, c\u0131l\u0131z kalan,<\/b> bo\u015flukta ham hayaller pe\u015finde ko\u015fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n durumunu abart\u0131yor muyum acaba?<\/b><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/p>\n

F\u0131rt\u0131nal\u0131 d\u00f6nemi ya\u015fayan gencin duygular\u0131 akl\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde gitmez mi?<\/span><\/p>\n

Sinirlilik, isyankarl\u0131k, uyumsuzluk, otoriteye kar\u015f\u0131 gelme, riski sevme, macera heveslisi olma, tatl\u0131 hayaller kurma bu d\u00f6nemin \u00f6zellikleri de\u011fil mi?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ahlaki ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferlerle birlikte duygusal deste\u011fi birinci derecede verecek olan biz aileler de\u011fil mi?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne yaz\u0131k ki evlatlar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layan, ilgisiz, bask\u0131c\u0131<\/b> ailede parasal destek yeterli de olsa, duygusal ve sosyal destek kafi de\u011filse, ailelerde sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 gen\u00e7ler yeti\u015fmiyor, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel e\u011fitim verilemiyor.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu durumda:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cGen\u00e7lik sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015fayan aileler su\u00e7lu aramak yerine kendilerini sorgulamal\u0131lar.<\/b>\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cSu\u00e7lu aramak yerine sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in sorumluluk almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131lar.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cSu\u00e7lu aramak yerine \u00e7ocuklarla ifade kanallar\u0131 a\u00e7maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131lar.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cGencin omzuna el at\u0131p ona de\u011fer verildi\u011fi hissettirilmeli.\u201d \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBunal\u0131mdaki gence iki hediye veriniz. \u201c<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBirincisi, sevginizi\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u0130kincisi, esnekli\u011finizi.\u201c<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc gencin de hata yapma hakk\u0131 vard\u0131r.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cFakat sonunda s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131 s\u0131cak ailesi de olmal\u0131!\u201c<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsan\u0131n k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde su\u00e7lu<\/b> aramak<\/b> hakim hale gelmi\u015fse, ba\u015fka davran\u0131\u015f ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bi\u00e7imine yer kalmaz.
\nO zaman herkes bir su\u00e7lu<\/b> arar durur:<\/span><\/p>\n

– \u00c7ocuklar su\u00e7ludur. <\/span><\/p>\n

– Yok, anne babalar su\u00e7ludur. <\/span><\/p>\n

– Hay\u0131r dernek y\u00f6neticileri su\u00e7ludur.<\/span><\/p>\n

– Asl\u0131nda yurtlar\u0131n\u0131 terk eden dedelerimiz su\u00e7ludur!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Su\u00e7luluk, durum ve zamana g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fir durur.
\nSu\u00e7layan de\u011fi\u015fmez ama…<\/p>\n

<\/span><\/p>\n

Bizler kabile milliyet\u00e7ili\u011fiyle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131rken, derneklerin yeni adlar\u0131ndan medet beklerken, ya gen\u00e7lik elden gidiyorsa? \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ezberi bozman\u0131n zaman\u0131 gelmedi mi?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Zaman\u0131 gelmedi mi gen\u00e7li\u011fimizin bu vahim durumunu g\u00f6rmenin ve acil \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulman\u0131n?<\/p>\n

<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu ifadelerle amac\u0131m m\u0131 ne?<\/span><\/p>\n

Amac\u0131m, mazeret \u00fcretmek veya su\u00e7lu aramak de\u011fil!<\/span><\/p>\n

Amac\u0131m, daha iyi bir gen\u00e7lik i\u00e7in, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ve kimli\u011fiyle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k bir nesil i\u00e7in, neyi, nerede, nas\u0131l, kimlerle ve ne \u015fekilde yapmal\u0131y\u0131z, bunun aray\u0131\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bu hayati konu i\u00e7in beyin f\u0131rt\u0131nas\u0131 olu\u015fturmakt\u0131r. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Peki, \u00fcmitsiz miyim?<\/span><\/p>\n

Asla! <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Su\u00e7lu aramak yerine su\u00e7a dur diyebilirsek,<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Ufuklar kararsa, \u00fcmitler solsa bile,
\nSu\u00e7lu aramaktan, su\u00e7lu<\/b> yaratmaktan vazge\u00e7ebilirsek,
\nHerkes kendi eksikli\u011fini bilip, kendisini kontrol edebilirse, <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ile ve \u0131st\u0131raplar payla\u015f\u0131labilirse,<\/span><\/p>\n

Fedakar insanlar omuz omuza verebilirse,<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00fczel g\u00fcnler neden ufukta olmas\u0131n?<\/p>\n

“Yollar gidip k\u00f6pr\u00fcye dayansa,
\nK\u00f6pr\u00fc lavlara teslim olup yansa,
\nYe’se kap\u0131lma, kalk yeni yollar bul.
\nAzminle, \u00fcmidinle yeni k\u00f6pr\u00fcler kur ve kurtul!”<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Toplumsal, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel her sorunumuzun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc ancak yeti\u015fecek vas\u0131fl\u0131 bir nesille m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funa g\u00f6re,<\/span><\/p>\n

Biz bu nesli yeti\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in gere\u011fini yapmak durumunda de\u011fil miyiz?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Somut \u00f6nerilerle g\u00fcndem olu\u015fturmak gerekmez mi?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu acil konu ailelerimizin, dernek ve \u00fcst kurullar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n en \u00f6ncelikli g\u00fcndemi olmal\u0131 de\u011fil mi?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu hayati konuda, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hesaplar\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p bir eylem plan\u0131 yap\u0131lmal\u0131 de\u011fil mi?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130sti\u015farelerle genel akl\u0131 olu\u015fturup buna uyulmas\u0131 gerekmez mi?<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Yoksa hala \u201cyunafe\u201d<\/b> a\u015famas\u0131nda m\u0131y\u0131z?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya gen\u00e7li\u011fimizle birlikte gelece\u011fimiz de elden giderse?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya yar\u0131n \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 olursa? \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Geliniz, vakit varken hepimiz bu ta\u015f\u0131n alt\u0131na elimizi koyal\u0131m!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 28.06.2008 Gençlik uyumsuzsa, sorumsuzsa, kültürel ve moral değerleri eksikse, Dili yetersizse, büyükler ilgisizse, ümitsizse, Çevre elverişsizse, hayat acımasızsa, Sorumlular kendi halindeyse, Anne babalar çözümsüzse, söyleyin kim suçlu?  Hayallerimizin gerçekleşmesi iyi bir neslin yetişmesine bağlıysa, Gençliğimizin durumu belliyse, acilen bir şeyler yapmak gerekliyse, Kim yapmalı, nerden başlamalı, nasıl yapmalı? Abartıyor muyum yoksa gençliğimizin […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"0","ocean_second_sidebar":"0","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"0","ocean_custom_header_template":"0","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"0","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"off","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[106],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-840","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar-yemuz-nevzat-tarakci","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/840","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=840"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/840\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":841,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/840\/revisions\/841"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=840"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=840"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=840"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}