{"id":842,"date":"2019-02-20T18:01:46","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T18:01:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=842"},"modified":"2019-02-20T18:01:46","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T18:01:46","slug":"nerdesiniz-anne-babalar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/nerdesiniz-anne-babalar\/","title":{"rendered":"NERDES\u0130N\u0130Z ANNE BABALAR?"},"content":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131
\n<\/strong>05.07.2008<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z ve gen\u00e7lerimiz k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnden, kimli\u011finden uzak etrafa savrulmu\u015f bir haldeyken,<\/span>Okumayan, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyen, \u00fcretmeyen bir nesil ortadayken, <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBabana bile g\u00fcvenme!\u201d ,\u201cNe istersen onu yap!\u201d s\u00f6ylemlerine tak\u0131l\u0131 bir gen\u00e7lik kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda dururken,<\/span><\/p>\n

Biz neyle me\u015fgul\u00fcz, ne yap\u0131yoruz sevgili anne babalar?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu ana dilini unutmu\u015fken,<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6z dilini konu\u015famazken, anlayamazken anne- babay\u0131,<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Ya biz anlayabiliyor muyuz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n halini, dilini?<\/span><\/p>\n

Anlayabiliyor muyuz onlar\u0131n hissiyat\u0131n\u0131?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130yi k\u00f6t\u00fc konu\u015fuyoruz ama anla\u015fabiliyor muyuz?<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Fark\u0131nda m\u0131y\u0131z i\u015fin ciddiyetinin?<\/span><\/p>\n

Do\u011fru mu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zla do\u011fru ileti\u015fim kurabildi\u011fimiz, birbirimizi anlayabildi\u011fimiz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Do\u011fru mu evlatlar\u0131m\u0131za tek ba\u015f\u0131na \u201ckafe\u201cnin yetece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Biliyor muyuz onlarla ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bilincinde miyiz kaybettiklerimizin, neyi, ne zaman ve nas\u0131l anlataca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n?<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ileti\u015fim yolunun, sarp kayalardan, u\u00e7urumlardan, menfezlerden, u\u00e7suz bucaks\u0131z \u00e7\u00f6llerden ge\u00e7ti\u011finin fark\u0131nda m\u0131y\u0131z? <\/span><\/p>\n

Peki, bu g\u00fcne kadar onlara neyi nas\u0131l anlatt\u0131k, ne kadar \u00f6rnek olabildik? <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Hangi ortam\u0131 haz\u0131rlayabildik?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hangi ortak paydalarda bulu\u015ftuk<\/b> bu duygu ve co\u015fku mimarlar\u0131yla?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hangi noktalarda \u00fcmit verdik, g\u00fc\u00e7 kayna\u011f\u0131 olduk o tecr\u00fcbesizlere?<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Yoksa anne baba olmay\u0131, \u00e7erden \u00e7\u00f6pten laflarla yorucu, s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 konu\u015fmalar m\u0131 sand\u0131k?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7evreye, arkada\u015fa, ne kadar inand\u0131k, nerelerde aldand\u0131k?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Anlatabildik mi k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn \u00f6nemini?<\/span><\/p>\n

Anlatabildik mi tarihimizi, mazimizi? <\/span><\/p>\n

Anlatabildik mi \u00c7erkes asaletini, \u00c7erkes zarafetini?<\/span><\/p>\n

Lafla iyi \u00c7erkesli\u011fin olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131,<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130yi bir insan olabilmek i\u00e7in, sevginin, sayg\u0131n\u0131n, okuman\u0131n, dinlemenin, ara\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n, payla\u015fman\u0131n gereklili\u011fini kavratabildik mi?<\/span><\/p>\n

Biz, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc gere\u011fi gibi okuyabildik mi, okutabildik mi?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Edebiyats\u0131z milletin olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131,<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn, cenazenin, \u015fiirin, \u015fark\u0131n\u0131n, tiyatronun \u00f6nemini,<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcn etmenin d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli g\u00f6revlerin oldu\u011funu,<\/span><\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131 do\u011fru ya\u015faman\u0131n zorlu\u011funu.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anlayabildik mi?<\/span><\/p>\n

Anlatabildik mi? \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011fun yeti\u015fmesinde anne baban\u0131n rol\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6ylemeye gerek var m\u0131?<\/span><\/p>\n

Gerek var m\u0131 s\u00f6ylemeye anne baban\u0131n ilk \u00f6\u011fretmen, <\/b>ayn\u0131 zamanda s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131lacak son liman oldu\u011funu?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Anneden ayar\u0131n\u0131 almayan \u00e7ocu\u011fun i\u015finin san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan da zor oldu\u011funu, hat\u0131rlatmaya gerek var m\u0131?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Anne babalar gelin ge\u00e7 olmadan bir \u015feyler yapal\u0131m!<\/span><\/p>\n

Mutlaka yap\u0131lacak \u015feyler vard\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gelin, hi\u00e7 olmazsa biz onlar\u0131n dilini \u00f6\u011frenelim.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Konu\u015fal\u0131m, anla\u015fal\u0131m, uzla\u015fal\u0131m, sevgiyle de\u011ferleri payla\u015fal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ama mutlaka bir yerden ba\u015flayal\u0131m!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 05.07.2008 Çocuklarımız ve gençlerimiz kültüründen, kimliğinden uzak etrafa savrulmuş bir haldeyken,Okumayan, düşünmeyen, üretmeyen bir nesil ortadayken, “Babana bile güvenme!” ,“Ne istersen onu yap!” söylemlerine takılı bir gençlik karşımızda dururken, Biz neyle meşgulüz, ne yapıyoruz sevgili anne babalar?  Çocuklarımızın büyük çoğunluğu ana dilini unutmuşken, Öz dilini konuşamazken, anlayamazken anne- babayı, Ya biz anlayabiliyor 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