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WORDIM M\u00fczeyyen Kip<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n Misafir a\u011f\u0131rlamak ev sahibi i\u00e7in \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem arz ederdi. Gelen misafirin ev sahibine yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131, bay-bayan-gen\u00e7-ya\u015fl\u0131 vs gibi durumu ve ne kadar kalaca\u011f\u0131 ev sahibi kadar wune\u011fo\u015f ve kom\u015fular i\u00e7inde \u00f6nemliydi. Misafir geli\u015f amac\u0131 ve kalaca\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcreye g\u00f6re yerine g\u00f6re wune\u011fo\u015f ve kom\u015fular taraf\u0131ndan da yemekli davetlere al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131. K\u00f6ye gelen misafir sadece kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 eve ait bir misafir olarak alg\u0131lanmaz t\u00fcm k\u00f6y\u00fcn misafiri kabul edilirdi.<\/span><\/p>\n \u00d6rne\u011fin eve gelen ya\u015fl\u0131 bir erkek misafir ise,<\/p>\n Misafir xabze gere\u011fi yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131lmazd\u0131. Ev sahibi erke\u011fin d\u0131\u015far\u0131da yapmas\u0131 gereken bir i\u015fi var ise wune\u011fo\u015fundan ya\u015f\u0131t olan bir ki\u015fiyi misafirin yan\u0131na b\u0131rakarak d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131.<\/p>\n Yemek saatlerinde ev sahibi misafir ile birlikte yemeleri i\u00e7in wune\u011fo\u015fh ya da kom\u015fulardan emsal olanlar\u0131 davet ederdi. Misafir uzun s\u00fcreli kalacak gibi olur ise yeme\u011fe kat\u0131lan wune\u011fo\u015fh ve kom\u015fularda misafiri kendi evlerinde yeme\u011fe davet ederlerdi.<\/p>\n O zamanlarda her evde bu g\u00fcnk\u00fc gibi su yoktu. Lavabo olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in onun yerine \u201cta\u015f ub\u011fan\u201d (ibrik ve le\u011fen)bulunurdu. B\u00fcy\u00fckler el- y\u00fcz y\u0131kayaca\u011f\u0131 veya abdest alaca\u011f\u0131 zaman evin k\u0131z\u0131, gelini veya gen\u00e7 erke\u011fi ibrikten su d\u00f6kerdi. Ta\u015f ub\u011fan evin giri\u015f yerinde k\u00f6\u015fede her zaman haz\u0131r dururdu.<\/p>\n Misafire ibrikten su d\u00f6kt\u00fcrerek elini y\u0131katan ki\u015fi havlusunu da tutard\u0131, misafir havluyu ask\u0131dan kendi almazd\u0131. Hizmet eden ki\u015fi, ta ki misafir odas\u0131na \u00e7ekilene kadar bir ihtiyac\u0131 olur ise diye yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmazd\u0131.<\/p>\n Bu i\u015f evin dedesi i\u00e7in her g\u00fcn tekrarlan\u0131rd\u0131. Evin en ya\u015fl\u0131 erke\u011fi ( dedesi) abdest al\u0131rken her zaman evin k\u0131z\u0131 suyunu d\u00f6kerdi.<\/p>\n UZUNYAYLA\u2019 DA HIGEBZ HA\u015eE (M\u0130SAF\u0130R KIZ) Misafir k\u0131za kendi ya\u015f grubuna g\u00f6re gen\u00e7ler \u201cho\u015f geldin\u201d i\u00e7in gelirdi. \u201cWor\u015fera\u011fe\u201d (sohbet) i\u00e7in gelen gen\u00e7ler hep birlikte oyunlar oynar, misafir k\u0131z\u0131 onurland\u0131racak gibi iltifatlar da bulunurlard\u0131.<\/p>\n Misafir k\u0131z\u0131n m\u0131z\u0131ka \u00e7almak gibi bir h\u00fcneri var ise bu daha da bir co\u015fku yarat\u0131rd\u0131. Ak\u015fam toplanan gen\u00e7ler m\u0131z\u0131kalar \u00e7al\u0131p, e\u011flenceli sohbetleri ile t\u00fcm k\u00f6y\u00fcn ilgi oda\u011f\u0131 olurlard\u0131.<\/p>\n Bazen \u00e7evre k\u00f6ydeki gen\u00e7lerde misafir k\u0131z\u0131n oldu\u011fu haberini al\u0131nca sohbete gelirlerdi. Ev deki ya\u015fl\u0131lar bu konuklar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan haberdar olur ancak gen\u00e7leri rahats\u0131z etmemek ad\u0131na ortalarda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmezdi. Ev sahibi i\u00e7in misafir k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeye gelen gen\u00e7ler her zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluk kayna\u011f\u0131 olurdu.<\/p>\n Uzun s\u00fcreli kalacak olan bir misafir ise evin akrabalar\u0131 (wune\u011fo\u015f) k\u0131z\u0131, k\u00f6y\u00fcn di\u011fer k\u0131zl\u0131-erkekli gen\u00e7leri ile birlikte yemeklere davet ederdi. K\u0131z sadece kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ev i\u00e7in de\u011fil b\u00fct\u00fcn k\u00f6y halk\u0131 i\u00e7in mutluluk kayna\u011f\u0131 olurdu. Gitti\u011fi her evde onun \u015ferefine verilen yemekten sonra gen\u00e7ler aras\u0131 e\u011flenceler d\u00fczenlenirdi.<\/p>\n Ev sahibi misafir k\u0131z\u0131 yeme\u011fe alan di\u011fer kom\u015fu ve akrabalar\u0131n\u0131 hep birlikte misafir k\u0131z gitmeden bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nce yeme\u011fe al\u0131rd\u0131. Bu son veda gecesinde unutulmaz bir e\u011flence yap\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n YEN\u0130 DO\u011eAN BEBEK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N \u201cGU\u015eE YEPYE\u201d Xabze gere\u011fi kom\u015fular da \u00f6zenle haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015f tepsilere yemekler, halgoneler koyup bebe\u011fi olan eve g\u00f6nderirdi.<\/p>\n Verilen yemekte toplanan k\u00f6yl\u00fc bebe\u011fin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in dileklerde bulunurdu. Gen\u00e7ler i\u00e7in sal\u0131ncaklar kurulur, e\u011flenceli ortamlar haz\u0131rlan\u0131rd\u0131. Gelen konuklar bebek i\u00e7in getirdikleri hediyeleri teslim ettikten sonra t\u00f6ren bitirilirdi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" WORDIM Müzeyyen Kip Misafir ağırlamak ev sahibi için çok büyük önem arz ederdi. Gelen misafirin ev sahibine yakınlığı, bay-bayan-genç-yaşlı vs gibi durumu ve ne kadar kalacağı ev sahibi kadar wuneğoş ve komşular içinde önemliydi. Misafir geliş amacı ve kalacağı süreye göre yerine göre wuneğoş ve komşular tarafından da yemekli davetlere alınırdı. 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\nK\u00f6ye gelen misafir k\u0131zlar el \u00fcst\u00fcnde tutulurdu. Olduk\u00e7a de\u011fer verilirdi. Ev halk\u0131na i\u015flerinde yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur, onlar i\u00e7in bir ne\u015fe kayna\u011f\u0131 olurdu.<\/p>\n
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\nYeni do\u011fan bebe\u011fe \u201cgu\u015feyepye\u201d denen bir t\u00f6ren yap\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Bebek do\u011fduktan iki ya da \u00fc\u00e7 hafta sonra yap\u0131lan bu t\u00f6ren, bebe\u011fin babaannesi ya da halas\u0131 \u00f6nderli\u011finde olurdu. B\u00fct\u00fcn k\u00f6ydeki bayanlara yemek ziyafeti verilirdi. \u00d6zellikle evin ilk torunu ise yap\u0131lan bu t\u00f6ren \u00e7ok daha \u00f6zel olurdu.<\/p>\n