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WORDIM M\u00fczeyyen Kip<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n Ak\u015fam yeme\u011finden sonra g\u00fcne\u015f bat\u0131-batacak balkonda babamla oturuyoruz. Nerden laf a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131 tam hat\u0131rlam\u0131yorum ama konu\u015fma aras\u0131nda Kilis-Suriye s\u0131n\u0131r kap\u0131s\u0131nda karakolda ge\u00e7en askerlik an\u0131lar\u0131ndan s\u00f6z a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131. Ben de iyi ve merakl\u0131 bir dinleyici modunda konu\u015fturmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bana malzeme \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00d6n\u00fcm\u00fczdeki Pazar g\u00fcn\u00fc babalar g\u00fcn\u00fc o da akl\u0131mda. Severim b\u00f6yle \u00f6zel g\u00fcnlerde g\u00fcn\u00fcn anlam ve \u00f6neminde bir-iki sayfa \u00e7iziklettirmeyi.<\/p>\n Dokuzuncu kat balkonundan bir taraftan g\u00fcne\u015f bat\u0131m\u0131na bakarak bir taraftan da Kayseray\u2019\u0131n tramvay deneme s\u00fcr\u00fc\u015fleri i\u00e7in sefere \u00e7\u0131kan tramvay\u0131n ge\u00e7i\u015flerini izlerken Kabardeyce sohbetlerde koyu say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. A\u011f\u0131r i\u015fiten babam\u0131n duymas\u0131 i\u00e7in.konu\u015fmalar\u0131mdaki tonlaman\u0131n kom\u015fular\u0131 rahats\u0131z etti\u011fimin bilincinde olarak bazen alt kom\u015fumuz Kabardey Rauf a\u011fabeylerin balkonuna duyuyorlar m\u0131 ki kafam\u0131 uzatm\u0131yor de\u011fildim. Dilara\u2019da bize \u00e7ay servisi yap\u0131yor olmas\u0131 dedeye bir hizmet sunman\u0131n bendeki keyfi de bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131mdan anlamak zor olmassa gerekti.<\/p>\n Ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlarla vakit ge\u00e7irmek, onlarla sohbet etmek, onlar\u0131n mutlu oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rmek insan\u0131n ruhuna iyi geliyor. Herkese tavsiye edebilirim. Hele de bu ya\u015fl\u0131 insan\u0131n anne veya baba olmas\u0131. \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 ve huzur dolu bir ruh halinde olmana sebep.<\/p>\n \u015eu anki hali benim \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumdaki babam de\u011fil tabii ki. \u00c7ok farkl\u0131. Hatta mutasyona u\u011fram\u0131\u015f da diyebilirim. Ama bir o kadar da sevimli duruyor. Torunuyla odan\u0131n ortas\u0131nda yast\u0131k d\u00f6v\u00fc\u015f\u00fc oynamas\u0131 onun o hali bir nevi ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131nda iyiden iyiye \u00e7ocukla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n Ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131 mutlu etmek, memnun etmek anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m kadar da kolay de\u011fildir. Her insan bir de\u011fil. Ama ne var ki k\u0131zlar\u0131 ne yaparsak yapal\u0131m. Onun g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde o\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131n farkl\u0131 yeri var. Asla onlardan konu\u015fturmaz. \u00d6yle de bir hali var.<\/p>\n Askerlik an\u0131lar\u0131 diye yaz\u0131ya ba\u015flad\u0131m ama bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc yazamad\u0131m kendisinden bahsetmekten. 15-16 ya\u015f\u0131nda evin en b\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flu olarak erken evlendirmi\u015fler. Yirmi ya\u015f\u0131nda askere gitti\u011finde iki \u00e7ocu\u011fu varm\u0131\u015f biri de yolda. 22 ya\u015f\u0131nda askerden geldi\u011finde \u00fc\u00e7 \u00e7ocukluymu\u015f. \u0130ki y\u0131l askerlik yapt\u0131m diyor. Antep-Urfa aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7mi\u015f askerli\u011fi. S\u0131n\u0131r kap\u0131s\u0131 olunca ka\u00e7ak\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k an\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ok. Her gece belli saatten sonra atl\u0131 ve yaya olmak \u00fczere ka\u00e7ak\u00e7\u0131l\u0131kla ge\u00e7inen vatanda\u015flarla u\u011fra\u015fm\u0131\u015f. Fakat hi\u00e7 r\u00fc\u015fvet almad\u0131m diyor. Komutan bir g\u00fcn geldi beni b\u00f6l\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131 beni \u00f6rnek g\u00f6sterdi diyor. \u00c7ok t\u00fct\u00fcn sararak i\u00e7tim ama hayat\u0131mda hi\u00e7 alkol almad\u0131m diyor. Bir tek bir ak\u015fam askerdeyken ka\u00e7amak yapt\u0131k arkada\u015flar\u0131mla ila sen de i\u00e7eceksin dediler diyor. Yok ben i\u00e7mem diyince zorla bana bir yudum i\u00e7irdiler diye anlatt\u0131. Valla gen\u00e7ken hem Uzunyaylal\u0131 olup hem Kabardey olup nas\u0131l alkol almad\u0131n diye ben de esprisine tak\u0131ld\u0131m. Sen i\u00e7mediysen de o\u011fullar\u0131n iyi i\u00e7tiler dedim. Birazda yaras\u0131na basm\u0131\u015f oldum. Ben i\u00e7medim ama o\u011fullar\u0131m i\u00e7tiler diye hep dert ederdi.<\/p>\n Can\u0131m babac\u0131\u011f\u0131m askerlik an\u0131lar\u0131ndan s\u00f6ze ba\u015flad\u0131m. Askerlik an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 senin anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n gibi yazmam ne m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Ama an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 senin a\u011fz\u0131ndan duymakta g\u00fczeldi. As\u0131l amac\u0131m senden biraz bahsetmekti. Daha nice uzun seneler sa\u011fl\u0131kla \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz, babam\u0131z olarak ya\u015faman deli\u011fiyle herkesin \u201cBabalar G\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d kutlar\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" WORDIM Müzeyyen Kip Akşam yemeğinden sonra güneş batı-batacak balkonda babamla oturuyoruz. Nerden laf açıldı tam hatırlamıyorum ama konuşma arasında Kilis-Suriye sınır kapısında karakolda geçen askerlik anılarından söz açıldı. Ben de iyi ve meraklı bir dinleyici modunda konuşturmaya çalıştım. Bana malzeme çıkmıştı. Önümüzdeki Pazar günü babalar günü o da aklımda. 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\nAma can\u0131m babam aksi oldu\u011fu kadar da hemen de g\u00f6nl\u00fc al\u0131nabilecek biri. G\u00f6nl\u00fc bol olduk\u00e7a da tok g\u00f6zl\u00fc. Asla bir eksi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemez, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na maddi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 hi\u00e7 yoktur. Misafir a\u011f\u0131rlamay\u0131, yedirmeyi, izzet-ikram\u0131 hala \u00e7ok sever. Yeterki servis edeni olsun.<\/p>\n