{"id":868,"date":"2019-02-20T18:19:43","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T18:19:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=868"},"modified":"2019-02-20T18:19:43","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T18:19:43","slug":"yargilama-sevdamiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/yargilama-sevdamiz\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cYARGILAMA\u201d SEVDAMIZ"},"content":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131
\n<\/strong>07.12.2008<\/span><\/p>\n

Bir bak\u0131n \u201cforum\u201d<\/b>lar\u0131m\u0131za.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bir bak\u0131n \u201ctoplant\u0131\u201d<\/b>lar\u0131m\u0131za, \u201cyaz\u0131\u201d<\/b>lar\u0131m\u0131za, \u201csohbet\u201d<\/b>lerimize\u2026 Yarg\u0131lama, sorgulama, sindirme, yok etme giri\u015fimleri.<\/span><\/p>\n

Her \u015feyi yanl\u0131\u015f anlamaya haz\u0131r zihinler, insafs\u0131z ele\u015ftiriler, niyet okumalar, \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u2026 Kibrit \u00e7aksan\u0131z alev alacak y\u00fcrekler… \u00c7\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131k n\u00f6betleri\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cHepimiz, b\u00fct\u00fcn insanl\u0131k buz \u00e7\u00f6l\u00fcnde yol al\u0131yoruz! \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z nefesler bile, sipsivri kayalar \u015feklinde donuyor. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bakarken g\u00f6zle b\u0131\u00e7akl\u0131yor, dinlerken kulakla
\nzehirliyoruz!\u201d (*) <\/b>diyor b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fair.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sahi bizler de mi kuru l\u00e2flarla buz \u00e7\u00f6l\u00fcnde yol al\u0131yoruz yoksa?<\/span><\/p>\n

Kalpler, g\u00f6n\u00fcller buz mu tutmu\u015f ne?<\/b><\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

\u015eu manzaraya bak\u0131n, bak\u0131n \u015fu \u201cforum\u201dlara?<\/span><\/p>\n

Sanal \u00e2lem dahil kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her yerde neredeyse birbirimizi sindirmek, <\/b>yok etmek <\/b> i\u00e7in f\u0131rsat kolluyoruz!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00dcz\u00fcyor, k\u0131r\u0131yor, yaral\u0131yoruz karde\u015flerimizi, e\u015fimizi, dostumuzu.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu \u015fekilde hizmet mi etmi\u015f oluyoruz toplumumuza, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcze.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu h\u0131rs boyutlu, nefis eksenli, \u201cben\u201d merkezli ifadelerle ne yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz?<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, \u00fcreten, akl-\u0131 selim insanlara yak\u0131\u015f\u0131yor mu?<\/span><\/p>\n

Yak\u0131\u015f\u0131yor mu bize?<\/span><\/p>\n

Yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor muyuz kendimize?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

De\u011fer mi Allah a\u015fk\u0131na?<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Hani ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, \u015fefkat, merhamet, anlay\u0131\u015f?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hani yeri geldik\u00e7e \u201cSu\u00e7lu benim!\u201d<\/b> diyebilme olgunlu\u011fu?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hani \u201cben\u201d<\/b>i b\u0131rak\u0131p \u201cbiz\u201d<\/b>e y\u00f6nelme?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hani g\u00fczellikleri kendinden bilmeme tevazusu?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hani o zarafet, hani o asalet?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hani o arifanelik?<\/span><\/p>\n

Yoksa \u201cg\u00fczel insanlar, g\u00fczel\u00a0 atlara binip gittiler\u201d <\/b>mi?<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

O halde kimse kimseyi affetmesin, haydin, \u201cyarg\u0131las\u0131n herkes herkesi!\u201d <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Yak\u0131\u015fmaz sanki bize \u201caffetse herkes herkesi?\u201d<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Nedir bu kas\u0131lmalar, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klar? <\/span><\/p>\n

Bu kibir, bu gurur, bu riya, bu tahamm\u00fcls\u00fczl\u00fck niye?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Yarg\u0131lama sevdal\u0131s\u0131 bir toplum olduk \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bilen de bilmeyen de herkes herkesi yarg\u0131lar olmu\u015f.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6\u011frenmeden, anlamadan yarg\u0131lamay\u0131 neden tercih eder insan?<\/span><\/p>\n

Konu\u015fsak, tart\u0131\u015fsak, birbirimizi anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsak daha kolay \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmez m\u0131 problemlerimiz. <\/span><\/p>\n

Daha uyumlu bir toplum olmaz m\u0131yd\u0131k?<\/span><\/p>\n

Daha \u00e7ok sevip daha fazla sevilmez miydik?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcne kadar kime ne faydas\u0131 olmu\u015f sivri dillili\u011fin?<\/span><\/p>\n

Afradan tafradan kim yarar sa\u011flam\u0131\u015f?<\/span><\/p>\n

Peki, zarar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fck m\u00fc hi\u00e7 tevazunun, anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n , isti\u015farelerle olu\u015fan genel akl\u0131n?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bilmem ki koca bir toplum, b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyle topyekun yarg\u0131\u00e7 m\u0131 olduk?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

E\u011fer toplum olarak yarg\u0131lama hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131na yakaland\u0131ysak \u201cvay ki vay!\u201d <\/b>halimize.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cKendi kendine yetemeyenlerin, kendi \u00e7\u00f6pl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc temizleyemeyenlerin hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131ym\u0131\u015f bu pis hastal\u0131k.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n en belirgin \u00f6zelli\u011fi, insan\u0131n kendi hatalar\u0131yla u\u011fra\u015fmadan ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n eksikleriyle u\u011fra\u015fmas\u0131, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hatalar\u0131n\u0131 onun y\u00fcz\u00fcne hayk\u0131rmaktan mutlu olmas\u0131ym\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Bir bak\u0131n, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sanalda birbirimiz i\u00e7in kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z l\u00e2flara?\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

Yenilir yutulur cinsten mi bunlar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Nedendir bu basitlikler, bu \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fczl\u00fckler?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tela\u015f m\u0131, korku mu, panik mi, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k m\u0131, su\u00e7luluk mu, anlay\u0131\u015fs\u0131zl\u0131k m\u0131, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k m\u0131, nas\u0131l bir ruh hali anlayan varsa beri gelsin? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u015e\u00fcphesiz pek \u00e7ok de\u011ferli kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131 da benim gibi bu talihsiz laflar\u0131 duyman\u0131n, gereksiz sata\u015fmalar\u0131 g\u00f6rmenin h\u00fczn\u00fc i\u00e7indedir.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f6ylemeye dilim varm\u0131yor ama ancak kin ve nefret<\/b> insan\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bu derce karatabilir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar neden as\u0131l anlat\u0131lmak istenen \u201c\u00f6z\u201d<\/b> e de\u011fil de hep \u201cayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u201d<\/b>a tak\u0131l\u0131p muhatab\u0131n\u0131 yarg\u0131l\u0131yor?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cVur, k\u0131r, mahk\u00fbm et, sak\u0131n affetme kimseyi?\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc ne ecdad\u0131m\u0131za ne de bize ait bir ifade.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n bunca zaaf\u0131, bunca eksi\u011fi ve kusuru varken, nas\u0131l olur da kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini insafs\u0131zca yarg\u0131lar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Biz \u00e7ok mu kusursuzuz? <\/span><\/p>\n

Neden kendimizi hatalar\u0131m\u0131zla kabul ediyoruz da i\u015f ba\u015fkas\u0131na gelince ac\u0131mas\u0131zca yarg\u0131l\u0131yoruz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu \u00fcslup yaralar bizi <\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

Bu dil, y\u0131prat\u0131r, b\u00f6ler, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclt\u00fcr bizi.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Bu h\u0131r\u00e7\u0131nl\u0131k geli\u015ftirmez bizi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Toplum olarak ne yap\u0131p ne edip bu ifade tutuklu\u011fundan, duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce fukaral\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, yarg\u0131lama hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131ktan, haz\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131ktan, saplant\u0131lardan mutlaka kurtulmal\u0131y\u0131z!<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f6z ola korku ola, s\u00f6z ola g\u00f6n\u00fcl ala.
\nS\u00f6z ola yel g\u00f6t\u00fcre, s\u00f6z ola izi kala.<\/p>\n

S\u00f6z ola bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131ra, s\u00f6z ola yar\u0131\u015ft\u0131ra.
\nS\u00f6z ola ara bula, s\u00f6z ola kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131ra.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f6z ola dinlettire, s\u00f6z ola inlettire.
\nS\u00f6z ola gedi\u011finde, s\u00f6z ola yuh ettire.
\n( K. \u00c7etin )\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Az s\u00f6yle \u00f6z s\u00f6yle hem zaman\u0131nda hem de yerinde s\u00f6yle
\nMuhatab\u0131n\u0131 incitmeden k\u0131vam\u0131nda s\u00f6yle<\/p>\n

Her s\u00f6z\u00fcn do\u011fru olmal\u0131 bilmelisin
\nHer do\u011fruyu her yerde s\u00f6ylememelisin\u00a0 (\u2026)<\/span><\/p>\n

Hayat s\u00fczgecinden ge\u00e7irilip, imbiklenmi\u015f, ger\u00e7ek hayat p\u0131narlar\u0131ndan akan s\u00f6zler, her zaman muhatab\u0131nda derin etki b\u0131rakmaz m\u0131?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Nerdesin ey ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc?<\/span><\/p>\n

Nerdesin asalet, zarafet, hassasiyet?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Nerdesin iyi niyet, sab\u0131r, al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck nerdesin?<\/span><\/p>\n

Beni duyuyorsan\u0131z\u00a0 el sallay\u0131n ne olur uzaklardan.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Geliniz, \u201c\u0130nsaf\u0131n\u0131z kurusun sizin!\u201d<\/b> dedirtmeyelim?<\/span><\/p>\n

Yap\u0131lanlar\u0131 takdir edelim. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7 mi g\u00fczel \u015feyler olmuyor etraf\u0131m\u0131zda, nazarlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 biraz da g\u00fczelliklere \u00e7evirelim.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yapmayal\u0131m, etmeyelim, barda\u011f\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 dolu vallahi, onu da g\u00f6relim!<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Her \u015feye ra\u011fmen \u201cyanl\u0131\u015f bulma profes\u00f6rleri \u201ceksik olmaz aram\u0131zdan bunu da bilelim!<\/span><\/p>\n

(*) Necip Faz\u0131l
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

NOT:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Bu bayram\u0131n, i\u00e7imizi biraz daha \u0131s\u0131tarak y\u00fcre\u011fimizi sevgiye, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcye, bar\u0131\u015fa akortlamas\u0131 temennisiyle, b\u00fct\u00fcn kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lara; toplumunun , k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn sanc\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7eken,\u00a0 duygular\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini\u00a0 ulusuyla payla\u015fma gayretini ya\u015fayan CC\u2019nin de\u011ferli yazarlar\u0131na<\/b> selam, sevgi ve sayg\u0131lar\u0131mla.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 07.12.2008 Bir bakın “forum”larımıza. Bir bakın “toplantı”larımıza, “yazı”larımıza, “sohbet”lerimize… Yargılama, sorgulama, sindirme, yok etme girişimleri. Her şeyi yanlış anlamaya hazır zihinler, insafsız eleştiriler, niyet okumalar, önyargılar… Kibrit çaksanız alev alacak yürekler… Çılgınlık nöbetleri…  “Hepimiz, bütün insanlık buz çölünde yol alıyoruz!                Aldığımız nefesler bile, sipsivri kayalar şeklinde donuyor.      Bakarken gözle bıçaklıyor, 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